Your temper hides your feng shui. Regarding Feng Shui, many offices and families will use some tricks to change their fortune and achieve their own careers. Take the opportunity of going to the next level to share the family feng shui related content hidden in your temper. Come and have a look with me.
Your temper hides the family feng shui 1
Last week, I went to my friend's house.
When I was chatting with my friend, my aunt who was mopping the floor suddenly threw the mop on the ground with a bang, came over and pointed at my friend and scolded angrily: Look at you, don't you dare to laugh! I haven't worked hard since I was a child. What job did I find? Ugly, she is an old maid and has no boyfriend. ...
At first, my friend kept an embarrassed smile on his face. Until menstruation said, "Look at my work, but don't come to help. It is best to have a barbecued pork when you are born. " My friend's eyes are a little red, and the way I sip my mouth suddenly makes me feel a little distressed.
Before going out, my friend dried his tears and showed a bitter smile: I let you get used to it. That's what my mother does. We are all used to it. Never mind.
When I suddenly remembered a chat, my friend casually said: Because my mother has a bad temper, I can't thank her for giving me more love.
At that moment, I understood why an excellent girl always lowers her head and has an inferiority complex on her face.
The greatest blessing of a family is good temper. Because of bad temper, it is not the annoying people who hurt the most, but the closest family members.
A bad temper will ruin a good family.
Your good temper determines the good luck of your family.
When I was in junior high school, my next-door neighbor was a good-natured uncle.
Although he collects junk, he usually wears dirty clothes. But the children like him very much. He often treats them to snacks and plays games with them. Therefore, Xiaohua, a neighbor's child, has been a "king of the children" since he was a child, and he is particularly popular with us.
When Xiaohua was in primary school, parents were asked to prepare activities in the class. Because of his enthusiasm, my uncle left a deep impression on teachers and parents, so he became the organizer of the family Committee. Later, I learned that my neighbor's aunt had lost her job, so the class teacher specially applied to the school to let her be an aunt in the canteen.
In recent years, we watched this family go from poverty to building a two-story building with savings, and Xiaohua was admitted to a famous university.
The journey was smooth, and many people lamented that their neighbors had noble help. As we all know, a good-natured uncle is the biggest "noble" in a family. His good temper has brought endless good luck to this small family.
There is no one who doesn't like to get along with people with good temper. I have heard such a story-
The sun is competing with the north wind. Who can take off the coat on the pedestrian first? The north wind is blowing, but the more it blows, the tighter pedestrians hug their coats. The sun uses the opposite method. It scatters warm sunshine on pedestrians, who are warm all over and take off their coats.
A good-natured person is like the sun, which always makes people take the initiative to achieve his goals. And people with bad temper rack their brains, which may only be counterproductive.
Your temper determines the temperature of your family.
I saw a short film "quarreling parents". At the beginning of the movie, my daughter listened to her mother tell a story about a monster in her arms. She is afraid to see the illustrations of the story. Unexpectedly, when she went downstairs, she witnessed a more terrible scene-her parents were arguing angrily.
In three or four minutes, we watched the "atrocities" of a bad-tempered parent with a child's eyes.
Mother gave her father a hard push and his father slapped her in the face. They pushed each other, and finally their father pushed their mother to the ground. In the eyes of children, they became cruel monsters.
At the end of the picture, the child looks at the family photo hanging on the wall, and the harmonious family becomes a horrible monster.
Parents quarreling is the scariest ghost film in children's eyes.
Home is like water. If you face your family with zero bad temper, your home will turn into ice in an instant. Face your family with a good temper of 100, and your home will be full of love and warmth.
Psychologist Wu Zhihong once said:
Father, mother and child are an emotional triangle. Parents love each other and the family is harmonious. Then children will inherit a very healthy love pattern, and when they grow up, they will project this love pattern into their love and family.
Yale University School of Medicine has done such an experiment. The experimenter has been tracking two groups of children for a long time. A group of children grew up in a harmonious family atmosphere, and a group of children who have long been at odds with their parents, neglected or abused.
The results show that there are nearly 3000 epigenetic variations in DNA of children who have suffered emotional trauma in negative energy environment for a long time, and all 23 chromosomes are damaged. The damaged part is the gene mainly responsible for calming the stress response.
Parents' bad temper stifled the warmth of the family. How can a child who grew up in indifference not be hurt physically and mentally?
Zhihu netizens once said this:
For parents with bad temper, what you are most worried about is not his/her unreasonable behavior, but his/her fear of becoming the same person one day.
The saddest thing is that no matter how you reject and resist, you can always find the shadow of your parents in the details of your life, and you will suddenly lose control of your emotions at a certain moment and be as mean to others as they are.
Zhang ailing's mother's mood is capricious, and she often growls at her children when she is angry. Once, when her mother gave a banquet to entertain guests, Zhang Ailing found that a chair was missing. When she was young, she worked hard to move a chair, but her mother shouted in front of all the guests, "What are you doing? Pig! "
Even if she is sick, Zhang Ailing will suffer from her mother's impatient cry: "Anyway, you are hurting people if you are alive!"
In a word, parents are children's mirrors, and children are parents' shadows.
Growing up in such a family, Zhang Ailing developed a aloof and indifferent character. Even for his own brother, it seems a bit inhuman. In her later years, she died alone in her apartment, and her body was found a week later.
Such a tragedy has something to do with her childhood family atmosphere.
There is such a plot in the TV series "Everything is OK": Mingyu is angry and swearing because of Su Daqiang's unreasonable troubles. Before Su Daqiang fainted, he pointed to her and said, "You are Zhao Meilan!"
My mother, Zhao Meilan, has a fiery personality and prefers boys to girls. Mingyu was regarded as an extra person in her family from birth.
For so many years, Su Mingyu fled Su Jia desperately and tried to make money just to tell her mother that she was wrong!
But walking around, Su Mingyu became as strong as her mother. She became the person she hated the most.
Parents' bad temper has virtually transformed their children, and they can't escape from themselves. Born into a noble family.
No one is perfect, and gold is not enough. In real life, we all have emotional disorders and lose our temper. So when problems arise, how should we solve them?
There is such a movie, which can be said to provide a perfect operation plan.
This movie is called "Heartbeat", and there is a scene like this-
The girl's father didn't want to send the "stupid" brother to the welfare society to suffer, but insisted on leaving him at home, which led to an emotional outburst and a big fight among his wife. Seeing the fiercest quarrel between parents, the girl cried with fear.
The couple immediately took remedial measures, and the effect was great.
The girl's father told her daughter, I'm sorry, son, it's not your fault, but mom and dad didn't control their emotions:
Mother told the girl that although they had a quarrel with their father, they still loved each other and the family very much.
Finally, the girl understood her parents and was proud that she was born in a happy family.
Good-natured parents, the effect is definitely1+1> 2。
With a good-tempered partner, your work will be smoother and it will be easier to release stress when you get home. Children who grow up in a happy family atmosphere are more confident, more active and more loving than those who grow up in quarrelsome or indifferent families.
Your temper hides your feng shui. 2. Your bad feng shui is a sign.
The mouse counts money
Usually in a room, especially in a wooden house, you will hear a mouse squeaking on the ceiling or on the ground, which is the so-called mouse counting money. This will not only damage the things at home, but also symbolize that the owner has signs of breaking the money. If you want to solve it now, you can eliminate the future trouble by raising cats or getting rid of rats.
horrible
Family members always have nightmares, or they always have nightmares when sleeping in a certain room, which affects rest and sleep. Or if you have children at home, you will often burst into tears or cry in the middle of the night and be frightened. Some pet owners, such as inexplicable anxiety, crying and wandering, are all caused by negative energy magnetic fields.
There was a sudden problem with the private car.
Your car was rear-ended, you rear-ended another car or got scratched, and your car broke down for no reason, such as the sound system failed, the turn signal didn't flash and so on. Then, be careful that you may be targeted by a villain, and your luck will fall asleep. At this time, be sure to check whether your car has placed inappropriate items that conflict with your five elements; Or the car was parked in an inappropriate place, which brought bad luck.
The tribute is going to be moldy.
Tributes placed on the altar generally don't get moldy early. However, if it is found that these tributes quickly stink and become moldy, it may be that they are not sincere in offering sacrifices or that ghosts have taken all the food away. In addition to prohibiting the use of some crooked ways, it is advocated that the periphery of the idol should be cleaned frequently during sacrifice to ensure solemnity and purity.