1. Time to erect a monument: To erect a monument to a deceased relative, you should choose the time period of the 1st anniversary, 3rd anniversary, or 5th anniversary. It is better to have around the Qingming Festival in a year, and around the twelfth lunar month at the end of the year. The specific time should be Choose a good and auspicious day, and do not conflict with the deceased person who set up the monument, so as to avoid bringing disadvantages to your loved ones and burying future troubles;
2. The distance between the tombstone and the tomb: the distance between the tombstone and the tomb cannot be too far or too far. Close, usually between 9 inches and 6 feet away from the acupuncture point. Remember that the tombstone and the tomb should not be in close contact. If the distance is too close, it will easily affect the feng shui effect of the tomb. If the distance is too far, the tombstone and the acupuncture point should not be in contact with each other;
3. The size and color of the tombstone: The size of the tombstone should be appropriate. The acupoints on the tomb are very small and the tombstone is very large, which is top-heavy. If it is too small, it will not be impressive enough. The size of the tombstone is based on the coordination of the tomb and the tombstone. The color of the tombstone should be determined according to the color of the background.