Are men strong or weak?
Some male chauvinists may think that being strong will make them better and control their wives. As everyone knows, this is the biggest killer of marriage.
It is increasingly found that every beautiful marriage has a man who knows how to show weakness. They will be little men in marriage, but they will be big men outside.
Huang Lei once said:
Marriage is a technical job, so a man should be a big man in thought or career, not in other things? .
Because of this, Huang Lei divided men into four categories.
First, there are big men outside and little men at home; Fourth place, going home is a big man, and outside is a villain; There are two kinds in the middle, of course, the little man outside and the little man at home; There are big men outside and big men at home.
In order to make a happy marriage, it is important for a man to know that weakness is not because he is afraid of his wife, but because he loves his wife and does not give up to make her angry.
There are no men who are afraid of their wives, only men who respect their wives. ?
There are never people who are afraid of their wives in this world, only those who love their wives dearly. How can a seven-foot man be afraid of his wife?
If it weren't for love, I wouldn't be afraid.
The more capable a man is, the more he knows how to show weakness. This is not a shameful thing, but a kind of cultivation.
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Speaking of people who are afraid of their wives, Mark Chao bears the brunt.
Many times, in order to show his status, men must have the final say at home.
As everyone knows, this is very unfavorable to marriage.
Strong men do not have the idea of having the final say from the heart, nor do they regard women as marionettes who listen to their own words, but know how to respect and feel the difficulty of their wives.
The stronger a man is, the less he needs to find a sense of existence in his wife, but he knows more about respect.
Because, they know, the wife is the one who will accompany them all their lives.
And those men who always look for a sense of existence in their wives are often petty and mother-in-law.
For such a person, even if the ability is good, it is estimated that it is difficult to succeed.
To put it bluntly, it is foolish for a man to be brave in front of his lover, because it is destroying the marriage and will bring the originally happy marriage to an end.
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There are no couples who don't quarrel. In the process of struggle, they often quarrel over trifles.
However, it is the weakness of relatives every time, and it is precisely because of his weakness that their marriage has come to this day.
As the saying goes, family harmony is the best feng shui. If the family is harmonious, there will be no flaming mountain to cross.
The writer Xu Sou once said:
Admitting your mistake is not the key, what matters is losing her? .
It is increasingly found that those truly successful men often know how to show weakness.
They will respect their wives and regard them as the most important person in their lives.
Only those self-righteous people will show their value as men in front of their wives.
As everyone knows, this is the biggest killer of marriage.
For the rest of my life, I wish you know how to show weakness and understand the true meaning of marriage. Only in this way can the marriage be happy and long-lasting.