2. Have children unconditionally. The second is a luxury, and the third is a rich man.
3. Married, the partner and children are the first heirs, that is, the closest relatives. Parents can only come second, and they are relatives.
4. Don't cultivate children into flattering characters, get used to keeping a low profile and lead a passive Nuo Nuo life.
5, the necessary physical contact can not be less, this is the intimate relationship of family members, harmonious husband and wife life is also the guarantee of sweet marriage.
6, educating children is a long stream of water, training towards learning tyrants and collecting them as scum. Willing to invest in education.
7. It is best for one family member to work in the system, and one person is stable, and the whole family does not panic, especially in special periods, which can better highlight the advantages within the system. Before the age of 35, we should move closer to the system.
8. Buy a big house, buy a cheap car, and use the money where it appreciates.
9. Have liquidity on hand, don't buy a house or a car. Cash is king at a critical moment, which can save lives and help others.
10, don't spoil the children too much. Getting used to children is like killing them. If you don't teach them well from childhood, it will be a burden you can't get rid of when you grow up.
1 1, don't get infected with bad habits, especially "pornography and gambling", which will destroy three generations.
12, don't always think about working and muddling along. Some small businesses also make money, mainly because they have to suffer hardships. You can't stay in the existing circle for too long.
13, even if you are 50 years old, you can retire early. If conditions are average, don't lie flat too early. Stress is for young people. Struggle for several years, 50 years old is still in the category of middle-aged people.
14, the money at home should be used reasonably. For example, if you buy a house, your savings at home will be exhausted. Do not be selfish. You know, pay more if you can pay more down payment. The interest on commercial loans is really high.
15, don't leave your good temper to outsiders, leave your grumpy side to your relatives, they are not your punching bag. Treat your family more patiently and complain less.
16, don't play the fat man in the face. No matter how much money you want, you have to give yourself face. The face of the poor is not very valuable.
17. Mother-in-law should not treat her daughter-in-law as an outsider. Being married is a family, and there will be glory and loss.
18. Daughter-in-law should not treat her in-laws as free ATMs and nannies, but should be grateful to the elderly for their efforts.
19. No one can "I am poor and I am justified", and poor people have no future.
20. Even people in your own family should try to speak tactfully. A straightforward personality tends to offend people, and everyone likes to listen to good words.
2 1, don't resign easily, resign appropriately and get an effective salary increase.
22. No matter how much a person earns, there are great risks. Don't concentrate all the stress values on one person.
Old people should try their best to help take care of their children, while young people should work hard for their careers. Don't always emphasize their responsibilities, talk more about their feelings.
24. The whole family must pay social security, which is the minimum guarantee.
25. A woman should give a man enough face outside, even if he does something wrong, go home and talk about it and vent his anger outside.
26. Men should respect their women and avoid domestic violence and verbal cold violence. Women who are cared for will be more loyal to their families.
27. Don't adopt an early adopter attitude, go in and out of some entertainment places, and often roll around in the depths to let your family break up.
28. Couples should not be separated for a long time, creating opportunities for outsiders, and feelings need to be accompanied.
29. Pay attention to your health and don't be afraid of medical treatment, otherwise the money you earn in your life will not be enough to pay for medical expenses and you will be taken care of.
30, don't internal friction, old people should be sensible, young people know how to be grateful, and their hearts are in one place.
3 1, money scattered, money scattered, don't take money too seriously at home. This is the same property of the family, so be generous to the family.
32. After marriage, we should reduce invalid dinners and wine bureaus and spend more time with our families.
33. A man should be good at being a water master. His wife and mother should not add fuel to the fire, but should turn off the fire on both sides and try to say good things about themselves on both sides.
In-laws should not blindly favor their sons, treat their daughters-in-law as fairly as possible, and let the young couple solve their own problems. Old people should not interfere too much and give more advice.
35. The first child is a boy, and the second child should be cautious. It is too expensive for traditional families to prepare wedding rooms for boys.
36. Don't start a business or open a shop without a family. The general environment is not good, try to be steady and rise.
37. Try to have your first child before the age of 30, and have a good baby. The later you are, the greater the risk of childbirth.
38. Women should not be full-time mothers unless absolutely necessary.
Don't quarrel in front of the children, and don't wash your dirty linen in public.
If you want to go higher, you must read more books. There is no end to learning. Knowledge can really change fate.
4 1, fewer and fewer friends, the more important it is to stay. Cherish those friends who give you warmth. Intimate friends sometimes just point out the light, which is as important as family.
42. When you get married, take care of your small family first, and don't think too much about your family and parents. Living well by yourself is the greatest filial piety to the elderly, not to be old, not to be old.
43. Don't envy other people's superficial scenery. Everyone has ashes at the bottom of the pot. If you look closely, they are chicken feathers. Life is our own, live our own life well, and the quality of other people's homes is not our concern.
44, don't compare, this mountain looks at the other mountain, and it is serious to grasp your own rhythm in a down-to-earth manner. Envy others, work hard first.
45. Home is a warm place. Be reasonable and care about each other. It's a great fate to be together in this life. Never mind, it is the best feng shui for a family that Qi Xin works together to move up.
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