0 1, parents are not to blame for being poor.
I don't know if you have seen such a man. When they are adults, they can't make money, so they will blame their parents and think that they are too poor. Parents have no skills and create too little for themselves, so they will dislike their parents. I feel that my parents are too poor, which makes his life so difficult now. People who live a good life, their parents either buy a house or a car, but rely on themselves and everything. So they will blame their parents and think that their life is not good and they will be so incompetent. There was once a colleague who was like this. He was born in the countryside, and his parents worked hard to pay for his education. In the end, he didn't study very well and was admitted to three universities. After graduation, I came to our company. I am the most ordinary employee and my salary is not high. I have to rent a house outside and live by myself. Once a colleague invited everyone to have dinner together. During the dinner, my colleague said that he had bought a new car. Then everyone began to congratulate him. The colleague said, "If you don't have a good father, can you buy a car?" Everyone was shocked, and then he said, "I just can't be reborn, otherwise I can have a house, a car and even my own company." Everyone was surprised to hear his words. A person who looks polite and kind at ordinary times actually thinks so.
02, filial piety is better than elder brother.
Since ancient times, there are two kinds of filial piety, one is to raise the mouth and the other is to raise the heart. Both are equally important and indispensable. Raise your mouth, always accompany your parents and take care of their food, clothing, housing and transportation; Cultivate one's mind, strive to improve one's grades, and make parents proud. Either way, it is the duty of being a child, relying on one's conscience and filial piety. There is no difference in the way of filial piety. Don't compare with your brothers and sisters who do more and who do less. Once you start to measure the gains and losses and compare the conditions, it will inevitably chill your parents' hearts and hurt the feelings between your relatives.
Don't blame your wife.
If one day the deposit is zero, a marriage will come to an end. Some men, when life is hard, start to complain about their wives, thinking that even if they marry, life is not much better. So they blame their wives and blame them. Sometimes when I'm in a bad mood, I start blaming my wife. When their hearts are broken, they will blame their wives. When they can't live, they will start to blame the people around them. Sometimes I hope people around me will take me to change this state, and sometimes I complain that people around me have not made my life better. Both of them can't earn much money, and they have to spend money every month to support their children. The important thing is that they are still renting a house outside. After a month, there is not much money left, and sometimes it is not enough to spend. Faced with such a life, Xiao Juan's husband collapsed. He doesn't understand why this is so, why life is so cruel to himself. He has a hard life, but he is still poor. At first, he worked hard to make money. Later, he began to blame and scold his wife. Once you need money, you start to scold your wife. Once you want to buy something, you start to blame your wife. This kind of life makes his wife very helpless. All these things to buy are necessary and there is no way. Many times, when a person's life comes to the extreme, he will force out the truest side of his heart.
04, angry not fierce children
Parents' attitude towards their children determines their views on the world. Language is the best weapon to hurt people, which can make your heart full of scars in an instant. The wounds of words are hidden wounds. Although the wound is invisible and intangible, the scar will always remain in my heart. Treating children with harsh words will only make a flower that has not yet bloomed wither quickly. Proper speech and gentleness are the best gifts for children. Throw away your temper, let go of your anger, bring good emotions to the people you love, and you will bring your blessings home.