These questions are really thought-provoking and difficult to answer. The universe is boundless, and human beings are only a small part of it. Some problems, such as fate, do not exist in isolation, but are inextricably linked with the world. If we talk about fate, maybe we will have different opinions like a blind man touching an elephant. Therefore, when we talk about personal destiny, we should also take into account the relevant natural environment, social environment, background of the times, and even the space-time segment of the universe where human society is located. Only in this way can we stand higher and see the whole picture of the elephant.
In addition, people's fate is important for individuals, but for some creatures we don't know yet, the so-called individual fate is just an illusion. In this sense, it is not so important; Just like a drop of dew on a leaf, you may not notice it from formation to disappearance, but for this drop of dew, it is the whole of its life and very important. Therefore, everything is relative, and only wisdom can lead us to the other side.
After death, the soul leaves the dead body, floats in the virtual space of the universe, carries out "reincarnation" and enters the humane nature to be reincarnated (I borrowed this view for the convenience of description).
Fate fits, and after men and women have intercourse, they form a fetus. At this time, the soul will attach and combine into a new life with both body and soul. Because the soul has information codes in previous lives, these information codes still play a role after being reborn into a new life. Of course, because each soul carries different information codes, it naturally forms different personality characteristics and destiny characteristics of people.
According to the different birth time of each person, each person's different information is stored in the horizontal section of this time and space, which hides their different life experiences in the future and can be roughly found out by some special decoding means. Of course, people who can find out people's fate, that is, those who master this means, are generally related to fate, not to the level of knowledge. And because of a reason we don't know, such means are limited, and it is even more difficult to be very accurate. Why? People were born in this new world, and all the memories of the past have been erased. Drinking Meng Po Forgetting Soup, which is popular among the people, is a very vivid explanation. The memory is erased, thus entering the six senses, and the cycle begins, in order to hone the soul again. Therefore, the memory of past lives must be erased, so the means to predict fate is extremely limited. But why tell people that people have destiny and can be predicted? I think this means that the temple is not a real training place, but it still exists because it can be used as a symbol; Limited means to predict fate is not the solution to the fundamental problems of human beings, but it can always remind people that there is fate and gods in this world. People should have awe and not become wild horses in the material world.
Born in the same year, the same month and the same day, even same-sex twins, although born at the same time, have the same birth conditions, and some even have the same appearance, have different souls and different innate information codes, so everyone's life trajectory and fortunes are definitely different, and this, I think, is the most fundamental reason.
As for the reaction to reality, it has caused the following superficial phenomena: people were born at the same time in the same year, month and day, but, first, the place and place of birth are different; Second, parents have different years; Third, brothers and sisters have different life spans; Fourth, the life span of spouses is different; Fifth, the number of children is different; Sixth, the fortunes of men and women are different; Seven, the face and hand lines are different; Eight, different bones; Nine, ancestral graves and houses are different in feng shui; X. Genetic differences in families; 11. Different environmental and family conditions; Twelve, the stars shine at birth, and the weather conditions are different; Thirteen, different religious beliefs; Fourteen, the exact minutes and seconds of birth are different, such as the "beginning", "right" and "end" of time, which has been recorded in ancient times; In addition, after birth, the orientation of the southeast and northwest is different, which has the influence of acquired orientation, just like the orientation luck that Japanese numerologists attach importance to.
However, I think these are superficial phenomena, and the most fundamental thing is the innate information code carried by more complex souls, which is the biggest secret that is not known to ordinary people.
Let's use a story to illustrate a superficial phenomenon: parents and birth environment are different at the same time-
A few years ago, an official and his pregnant wife went to Beijing by boat from the south. When they passed through a small town, the pregnant wife showed signs of giving birth, so the official ordered the boat to stop and sent someone to the town for a midwife. Soon, a midwife was invited, and soon, the official's wife gave birth to a boy. The midwife said while she was busy that another boy had been picked up. The official asked strangely, how do you say this? So the nagging midwife told me that she had just delivered a boy to the blacksmith's wife in town half an hour ago. Officials are proficient in numerology, and their four pillars are: Ghost IV, Ding IV, Ding Mao and Wu Bing. My child and the blacksmith's child were born at the same time and place on the same day in the same year.
Twenty years later, this official's son has long been Lian Deng, and he has risen to the first place. Officials in their prime of life have also reached the age of "knowing their destiny." That year, officials were ordered to make a southern tour, passing through a small town and revisiting the old place. Officials want to know what happened to the child born with his son twenty years ago. Led by people, the official came to the forge. I saw a young man, shirtless and sweaty, swinging a hammer and banging a red iron bar. It is precisely because of the different family backgrounds that two boys born in the same year, the same month and the same place have such different experiences after twenty years. The official shook his head and left the forge.
Along the way, officials who are proficient in numerology discharged the fate of their sons and made a careful analysis: the four pillars were full of fire, the girls were in the boat, and there was a river under the boat, which is the so-called western god in numerology. This innate factor suppressed the excessive anger of their children, and their fate tended to be balanced. More importantly, because the son left his birthplace with himself and went to Beidu, his son's western god was more in place and lost his son's fate.
The blacksmith's son is as angry as his own son, and he urgently needs earth, gold and water in the five elements to vent his anger. However, the blazing fire in the blacksmith's shop made the blacksmith's son, who was born and raised in Sri Lanka, even more angry, so that he worked all day and was exhausted. If you don't leave the fiery blacksmith's shop and this forbidden place of fate, I'm afraid you will never turn over.
Then focus on real life. Since the reform and opening up, some places in the Pearl River Delta and the Yangtze River Delta have taken the lead in development. You can earn a lot of money by going to work, attracting groups of people from the Midwest. Some people who go to these places to work have learned the skills of doing business and made a lot of money. Some even started their own businesses and hired many people from the Midwest like themselves. However, there are also people from the central and western regions who can't find jobs in developed coastal areas. Some people have been cheated out of their money by black intermediaries, and their lives have no landing. Some people have a weak concept of the legal system, and in order to survive, they actually engaged in illegal activities of stealing and robbing, and some people were jailed for murder.
The reason is that these people don't know their own destiny at all, and they don't know where they should go and where they shouldn't go. They only know that it is easy to make money in developed coastal areas, and they make more money, so they go out to work blindly. It is true that some people earn a lot of money by going out to work without knowing where they should go and where they shouldn't go, while others are not so lucky. Therefore, if you analyze your own destiny, understand the joys and taboos in your own destiny, and then seek good fortune and avoid evil, you can reach the other side of your ideal.