However, there is also a unique phenomenon in rural areas, that is, every family has its own ancestral grave. Since it is an ancestral grave, it must have been a long time ago, and the location was decided a long time ago. It has been buried here for generations. In this case, the village generally suggests moving the grave, but it does not necessarily agree or disagree. For example, if a family's ancestral grave is in its own land and managed by itself, the possibility of moving the grave is relatively small.
If there is someone else's grave in front of the house, it is really a very uncomfortable thing. In particular, some people who are more particular about it see graves as soon as they go out every day, which gives people a bad psychological hint. It is normal for some timid people to be too scared to go out. When I was in middle school, there was a grave bag at the school gate, and everyone dared not look at it every time after school. Some timid people also transferred to other schools.
But if others don't agree to move the grave, it's really difficult to solve it. The best way is to coordinate and allocate a special place in the village to bury relatives, and it may be better to accept some compensation for moving graves. In any case, it is more beneficial to organize to come forward than to solve it privately.
If I come forward in the village and still refuse to move the grave, it means that people are very concerned about the location of the ancestral grave, so they have to move. One refused to move the grave, and the other felt the diaphragm. We must find a solution. If it were me, I would move away.
In China's traditional thought, ancestral graves have unusual significance, so even if people don't want to move graves, it is understandable. It is important to respect the wishes of the living and the dead, so let's act.