With the popularity of Big Brother on the Internet, more and more people pay attention to him. In front of the camera, Brother Tai is an online celebrity, but behind the camera, Brother Tai is still a helpful farmer. Brother Tai has been helping the villagers since he made money, but not all difficulties can be helped.
A villager failed to borrow 2 million yuan from Brother Tai and tried to hang himself. Why is Brother Tai always bullied by villagers after he becomes popular?
Brother coat has a grateful heart. Before the fashion of big clothes, the family was very poor. When Tego is in trouble, neighbors can lend a helping hand. It is said that a distant relative is not as good as a close neighbor, and this is the case with Brother Tai's neighbors. After Brother Tai became popular, he never forgot his neighbors' help. When the villagers are in trouble, they always try their best to help others.
Because coat brother has a grateful heart from the beginning, he will not forget the help of others, and he will not forget to help others after he develops. It is because of this grateful heart that many people come to coat brother for help.
Brother coat is kind and simple. Brother Da Yi is an out-and-out farmer. He is always inarticulate, but he is kind at heart. Although Brother Tai has become a minor celebrity, he has never forgotten his roots. He is a kind and simple farmer. He has been rooted in that land for generations, and the villagers have been old neighbors for decades. Brother Tai can always help.
But there are always some people who take advantage of Taige's kindness and threaten Taige without his help. This kind of person is not worthy of help, but a villain who uses the kindness of others to achieve his own goals.
Brother coat doesn't know how to refuse others. There are always some people who won't refuse others, and they won't bravely refuse to face problems that they can't solve. This kind of person is kind and always ready to help others. Brother Tai is such a person who doesn't know how to refuse others.
Everyone in the village knows that Big One is a very honest man, so he will push his luck. At first, he really needed the help of big brother, and later he became a bully. It is precisely because Brother Tai doesn't know how to refuse others that he gives these people with ulterior motives the opportunity to bully Brother Tai.
To be a man, you should divide your books. Helping others is mutual affection, not what you should do. In the face of what you can't do, you should also bravely refuse. Don't let others regard their kindness as a weapon to hurt themselves.
For this kind of grateful people, we should be kind to them, instead of blindly asking for it and not knowing how to return it. Although Brother Tai is very kind, there is a bottom line for kindness, and others can't cross their own bottom line. Only by knowing how to refuse can we prevent others from bullying us. In the face of unreasonable demands from others, we should refuse them sternly. Otherwise, others will only take advantage of their kindness.
The above are the author's views, and comments are welcome.