When middle-aged people have no choice but to soak wolfberry in a thermos cup. This is a popular Internet phrase this year. It talks about the helplessness and ridicule of life when a middle-aged man faces the reality that his body is slowly declining.
Every age group in a person's life has confusions from every age group, especially in the middle age stage, when faced with the dual pressure of the subordinates, the old and the young, the confusion is obvious. The inability to cope with the situation is not only physical, but also mental, which makes many people have to reflect. Men are tired for a reason.
Family understanding
A man is the backbone of the family and the head of the family. He must not only support his wife and children, but also honor his parents. They also have to shoulder the financial burden of the family. When men are working hard outside, eating, drinking, and having fun, there is inevitably some need to socialize. Because of this, the time spent with family members is reduced, and at the same time, men's behavior outside often arouses incomprehension from family members. I feel that men are spending time and drinking outside, not doing their jobs properly, and not caring about their families.
Husbands and wives often quarrel over such things, and their relationship will gradually drift apart. In fact, many times, men also want to spend more time with their families, just to make more money and lay a solid financial foundation for their families. That's why he works so hard.
At this time, the family must give full understanding, because everything a man does is for this family.
Perhaps most people realize that money cannot bring happiness to people, but people still can't let go of their desire for money. Even if they lose a lot of happiness, few people are willing to let go. Because the role of money is very important to people in modern society. It is the foundation for a life and a necessary condition for a man to prove himself.
If a man wants to make money and be understood, he must first control himself and not let money affect the relationship between the couple and the harmony of the family. Let your wife rest assured that she is working hard outside and the purpose of earning money is to run a good family, not to disintegrate the family. If a man wants to be understood, he must first be reassured.
Tolerance in life
When we place hope on someone, we always hope to put a certain amount of pressure on that person instead of encouragement, and even set up a lot of expectations for that person. Benchmark. For example, men should provide women with sufficient material conditions and lay a solid material foundation for the family. To know that to be able to accomplish this, men need to put in a lot of hard work. Especially now that society has more and more requirements for married men, which is also the reason why many young men choose to be single. Shouldn't life give men more tolerance?
If you want to discuss which age group has the greatest pressure and the heaviest burden, it must be the middle-aged people who have the greatest pressure. When people think of a forty-year-old middle-aged man, people will unconsciously think of hair loss, baldness, beer belly, and the image of a middle-aged greasy man is immediately sketched out, making people think that men will automatically evolve into this after they turn forty. It looks like this, but I never thought it was a trace left by the pressure of life.
In fact, in real life, among forty-year-old middle-aged men, there is never a shortage of handsome uncles, but men of this age group have no intention of taking care of them. Men reserve their best years for hard work and life. Shouldn't life be more tolerant to them? Stop placing too many demands on men, they are already forging ahead. For the sake of cars and money in the eyes of others, they stop working hard all the time.
The Aging of the Body
Whether it is a man or a woman, after the age of forty, it is equivalent to passing the peak period of the human body. The body is like climbing a slope, starting to decline little by little. Slide downhill. A forty-year-old man, even though he knows that his physical strength is no longer what it used to be, does not dare to stop easily. It is not that men do not know how tired or hard it is, but because they cannot let go of the work in hand and the work they are doing. Your family cares about you, and even if your physical strength is limited, you still have to persevere.
Because men know that once they stop, the entire family will also stop, and the quality of life of the family will also decrease. Therefore, no matter how tired a man is, he must grit his teeth and persist and work hard. Make money to support your family.
The feeling of wanting to stop but not daring to stop will aggravate the body's fatigue. If you don't believe it, you can ask, nine out of ten middle-aged men over forty years old will complain of fatigue.
Not only is my body tired, but my mind is tired as well. I have to face the aging of my body and endure the barrier period of my career. It turns out that the charging boy in the chicken team can no longer survive even if he sleeps less than an hour. It turns out that Mai Ba in the KTV now has a hoarse voice when he talks too much. As the saying goes, things turn around and time is not forgiving! It’s no longer enough to refuse to accept old age.