1, couples need more tolerance.
Yes, it is tolerance, not tolerance, but accommodation and understanding. There is no real empathy in this world unless you have exactly the same experience. So never expect a person to really understand you. Because there is tolerance, there will be no point of confrontation.
2. Happiness needs to be defined by itself.
Happiness is a feeling of the soul, and self-perception is not synchronized with wealth, status and prestige. Don't be blinded by material desires, those are fleeting clouds, which will definitely make you more empty after bringing you a short pleasure. The simpler the happier.
3. Marriage is to change a life.
Marriage does not mean the beginning of romance, but a change in lifestyle. In other words, its essence is life. As long as it is life, there will be troubles, trifles and bumps, and no matter how vigorous the feelings are, they can't escape the ordinary home.
4. Don't bring your ideal into reality.
You can always distinguish between ideal and reality. If you live in real life, you can't have so many unrealistic expectations or even perfect expectations for life and your lover. Otherwise, you will get the same disappointment, which is usually fatal in marriage and will make you nervous breakdown.