The family structure of today’s society is not that of a matriarchal society. In a family, men are still the most important force supporting the family. A man's efforts, upbringing, quality, vision, health, personality, responsibility, etc. all directly affect the family, the smallest cell for the stable development of society.
Only when we can clearly distinguish which weight of so many influencing factors is the most important, and which weight has the longest impact, and the order of these weights, can we answer this question more clearly.
I personally think the most important thing is to meet a good woman.
This woman accompanies a man for his whole life, loves him for his whole life, understands him for his whole life, supports him for his whole life, takes care of his husband and raises his children, and silently stands by his side.
With such a woman's selfless dedication to the family, how can a man not work hard for his own career? A man will definitely shoulder the heavy responsibility and responsibility of being the head of the family without hesitation. Men's hard work and hard work will naturally lead to success, allowing women and the entire family to live in a warm and harmonious environment. Men will also consciously cultivate themselves into educated, quality, decent and healthy people.
All of this is because there is a good woman standing behind him, moving men with her warmth and tenderness for a long time.
A man fights for the woman he loves most without any regrets!
What a man pursues in his life should be value. What is value? This is the meaning of a man's existence in this world. If your life is just to make money, marry a wife and have children, let your children study, and then let your children follow your path, then what is the meaning of life? If a man wants to get real happiness and satisfaction, money and women are not enough, but you must have these two. In addition to this, you must also have a kind and enthusiastic heart. At the beginning of human beings, nature is good, and everyone hopes that they can Develop well, and then help others. Helping others is not as simple as it sounds. When you really want to help someone and successfully help him, you can realize what value is and what sense of existence is.
So the most important thing for a person is to reflect his own value and sense of existence, and the most direct manifestation is to help others. In addition to material, spiritual help is also a kind of help, and even more important. Just like what I am doing now, I want people to recognize the reality and not lose themselves in the tide of material things and lose their original intention. Sometimes happiness is not about letting material things disguise oneself, but rather the touch and innocence brought by the most ordinary life. Do your best and then bring light and warmth to others. This is the real happiness!
I have experienced the absurd and crazy times, the years of searching and fighting, the thirsty pursuit of knowledge, the journey to the end of the world, the feeling of being haggard for Yi, and the leisurely sight of Nanshan... …Looking back and thinking about it, I seem to have some enlightenment.
What is most important to a person? Or how to count as a capital person? You can find countless monographs, see many theories, and describe many ideals of innovation. However, the best answer to this question at all times and in all countries should be: cultivate oneself, harmonize the family, govern the country, and bring peace to the world, which is the so-called "cultivation of Qi Zhiping." . These are the four stages of life struggle, which can also be understood as four different levels of ideal goals corresponding to the four types of people, or it can be said to clarify the most important things in life according to different classifications of people.
If you want to cultivate your family, you must first cultivate your body; if you want to cultivate your body, you must first rectify your mind; if you want to rectify your mind, you must first be sincere in your intention; if you want to be sincere in your intention, you must first develop knowledge, and knowledge lies in studying things."
Translated in modern popular language, it roughly means: If you want to turn the world into a clean, upright, bright and prosperous world, you must first govern your own country; if you want to govern your own country well, you must first govern your country. Take good care of your own family and family; if you want to manage your own family and family well, you must first perfect and achieve yourself. To perfect and achieve yourself, you must first correct your own thoughts; to correct your own thoughts, you must first make your heart sincere; if you want to To make your heart sincere, you must first enrich yourself with knowledge. The way to gain knowledge is to understand and study all things in the world.
From the world (which is now called a country) to a vassal state, to a family, to an individual, the most important thing is the "individual" level, that is, self-cultivation. It is to perfect yourself and achieve yourself.
Personal perfection and success are the foundation and prerequisite for everything that follows, and for most people, there is only this stage in their lives. They have tried hard to enter the second stage, but in the end they have stopped at the first stage. The next three stages are all expected. And out of reach. Therefore, self-cultivation is further refined in the university, including integrity, sincerity, and knowledge.
Qijia is to educate and achieve one’s own family and clan, making them become local moral models, behavioral role models, and career successes. In modern society, family has been downplayed and the family has become smaller. It can be understood as the neighborhood, work unit or village where one is located as the times change. Of course, "unifying the family" in this modern sense is no longer a goal that everyone can achieve. For many people, even a few members of their own small families are no longer able to "unify" them.
The country that governed the country refers to the vassal states at that time. Some vassal states were very small, perhaps only equivalent to a county or city today. Even managing a small vassal state, rather than a country in our modern sense, is definitely not a level that most people can achieve. Therefore, for most people, governing the country is just a goal.
Ping Tianxia is an ideal in capital letters. It is indeed a great ideal to make the country prosperous and prosperous in the modern sense, to ensure peace and prosperity for the people, and to let the people have enough food and clothing, live and work in peace and contentment.
What is most important in a man’s life? The answer is to meet a good woman.
Celebrities such as Buffett, Bill Gates, and Jack Ma, who are recognized as having successful careers, all unanimously believe when interviewed and about their views on marriage: "Success in life does not depend on any investment. , but it depends on who you marry.”
A good woman is a man’s university. A good wife gives a man warmth and peace of mind with tenderness, encourages him to be strong and brave with kindness, and teaches him responsibility with love. A good woman gives a man a sense of belonging and happiness.
The ancients talked about starting a family and establishing a career based on this.
After a man gets married, he must stand alone in order to give his loved ones a better life. So I learned about responsibility. Because you have responsibilities, ties, and goals, you will be cautious and will not act on impulse or remember the consequences. Being less blind and impulsive is more conducive to career success.
Therefore, behind a successful man, there must be a woman who silently supports him.
Men should love their women more. Feng Shui teaches that women are men’s treasures. Only by treating your women well can your life be higher and more stable.
Career is the most important thing in a man’s life. Only with a good career can you gain a foothold in society. In a good career, you can continue to study, have work experience and life experience, learn to treat people, and learn to distinguish between good and evil.
Only then can you find your significant other in the vast sea of ??people. A man can be spiritually rich and professionally able to cope. To attract the attention of a good woman.
I think the most important thing in a man’s life is responsibility and responsibility. Being a man has many benefits and powers, as well as too many obligations and contributions.
Looking at the big picture, we must shoulder the responsibility of a man for the country, the nation, and the society. Talk about taking on the responsibility of living a good life for your family and your children in a small way. So it’s hard to be a man, and it’s even harder to be a successful man.
If a man cannot take responsibility for what he does, then he is not worthy of the title of man, and he cannot be said to be a pure man. There is a kind of man in society now who cannot bear the responsibilities of a man and always puts the responsibility on others. For example, his parents did not create an environment for him to have enough food and drink, or his wife did not give him support, or he blames everything. . This is not good.
If you are a pillar, you should take on the great responsibility of revitalizing China. If we are just ordinary men like me, then we can do our best to love the motherland, be grateful to the society, honor our parents, love our wives, educate our children, and help our friends in charity.
We cannot be towering trees, but we can be silent grasses. Although we cannot be pillars, we must do our best to green the mountains and rivers of the motherland.
Family is definitely the most important thing in a man’s life. To start a family and start a career, start a family first and then start a career. Having a family brings pressure, and only with pressure can you be motivated. Behind every successful man, there is someone who supports him. A woman and a warm home, with parents, wife, and children: only with support can you have the energy to work hard...
Nothing is important in a man's life. What is important is that he has a good wife and a good wife by his side. A good mother's wife, with such a wife, no matter how bitter a man is, he will still find sweetness
When I saw this title, one word came to my mind - "home". For a person who is wandering outside, home is such a longing place. Aren’t we working so hard just to build a complete family? Family is the most important thing in my life.
The picture above is my home. It is in a small county town. This is also a home that my parents have built for me through half their life’s efforts. It contains many stories. Home is the shelter in our lives and also The paradise we live in. No matter how many difficulties and twists and turns you encounter outside, you will always think of home, and a warmth will flow from the bottom of your heart. No matter how big the difficulty is, you have the courage to face it. Maybe I am a family-loving person. I am now 25 years old. Ever since I came out of society and worked hard, I have been eager to build a family of my own through my own efforts. This is what I have worked hard for all my life, and I have spent my whole life running this family well.
The picture above is of my father who has worked hard for this family for half his life. During the Spring Festival, he is posting Spring Festival couplets. My parents are away running businesses all year round, and I am also away working hard for my future. Only during the Spring Festival, our family Talents will gather together to celebrate the Spring Festival. This is also a few days that I cherish very much. So no matter what happens during those days, I will choose to go home and reunite with my family. Sometimes I have been thinking, how much money do we need to make in our life? Why are everyone working so hard? Some people even don’t go home to celebrate the New Year just to make money. Which is more important, money or parents? What is the meaning of making money? What is it, making money is indeed important, he can let his parents, children, and wife live a good life, but is it more important than staying with his parents? Sometimes our lives are increasing, but the lives of our parents are decreasing. If money is compared with life, it seems too insignificant. I was particularly touched by this experience. My parents' health is getting worse day by day. My mother calls me every night to say hello. I can understand that this is because she misses me. She doesn't care how much money you make outside. I only care about whether you are doing well or not, and go home often to see you when you have time. My father was diagnosed with rectal cancer a few years ago, and she has been asking me to have a child. I can understand her real desire, and my father also longs to have a grandchild. Although he didn't say it, I could feel it. My father always moved me deeply with his silent love, making me constantly feel the true meaning of family.
The picture above is a sacrificial item at home during the Spring Festival. They all imply peace and prosperity and plenty every year. They are also what the family looks forward to. This is what every Chinese family looks forward to. I miss home. Perhaps it is the most important thing for every Chinese person. Without a home, I feel like I have no motivation in life. You are like a kite with its string broken, lonely and helpless, letting the wind, rain and sun blow. Living aimlessly. This is what I least want to see. I think that in my lifetime, no matter where I go, I will cherish my home and my family. Wherever my family is, they are there. It doesn’t matter how much money I make, as long as I am safe and happy. This is the most important thing in my life. There is a life with more money, and there is happiness with less money. The most important thing is to live your life well without comparison. Home is always the best place in my heart and the most important place.
As the ancients said, there are four great joyous events in life, namely: encountering dew after a long drought, meeting an old friend in a foreign land; night of flowers and candles in the wedding room, and the time of inscription on the gold medal list. And for men, I think the last two are more important to men.
First, let’s talk about the wedding night. As the name suggests, it is to find a woman to get married (our Chinese law does not allow male-to-male marriage, hehe). Behind every successful man there is a woman, which also explains the significance of the wedding night. It can be said that finding a woman to marry is half the battle.
Only after getting married can a man's heart be restrained, he will understand the meaning of the word "responsibility", and he will know that he is responsible for his future and his woman. And women can also supervise men to actively take responsibility for their families, so that men can devote themselves more crazily to their careers. A man's back is also taken care of, and he can deal with various problems in front of him with peace of mind, without having to distract himself from taking care of his rear.
When men encounter difficulties and setbacks, they also have someone to complain to. There are also people who are really anxious for men and comfort them without purpose, and work hard for them sincerely.
A title on the gold list means someone who is on the list. In today's society, it is definitely not as simple as getting into college. If you score more than 200 points in the college entrance examination, you can go to college and get a diploma. It should now refer to a man who is successful in his career, and this is considered a title on the gold list. If a man is on the Forbes Celebrity List, it will be a real gold list title.
Nowadays, one of the important criteria for measuring whether a man is successful and whether his life is valuable is a successful career. Having a successful career is easy to say but difficult to do. It's not like taking the college entrance examination. You can succeed by just relying on it. That's why being on the gold list is so important.
Every man has a different vision of a successful career. Some want to find a job with good income and stability, some have their own company, some want to become a high official, etc. The person who has a high position on himself will have a longer road to success, but at the moment of success, the higher your ranking will be on the gold list.