That depends on why the husband drinks and what he looks like after drinking! Go to sleep quietly after drinking, and try to persuade him to drink less; If you have no virtue after drinking, complain bitterly, or even fight with your family, you must send it back to his parents by SF Express, so that they can benefit themselves!
it is common for me to be hospitalized because of my poor health. I met many patients, but what impressed me the most was a male patient with liver cancer.
He was in his mid-forties, and his father, who was suffering from the disease, screamed loudly. He looked very miserable! Accompanying and taking care of him is his lover, a woman who looks very gentle and weak!
Because the patient was so miserable, he only settled down for a while after beating Demerol, and spent most of the rest of his time howling and cursing his wife.
With little time to settle down, this wife came to our ward and asked an elder sister who came back from abroad for information about cancer treatment abroad. She was going to sell her house to continue her life!
speaking of her husband's illness, she said that her husband's illness was caused by drinking! Because of my personal experience, I said mindlessly, "Is an alcoholic worth it?" The wife sighed, and she said, "Her husband drinks for business, and besides drinking, it is not good for his wife and children." She cried, and then she went on to say, "My unit disintegrated, and many people went to work. Women of my age only do cleaning and cooking. Thanks to my husband, he took over all the housework, took on all the expenses of the family and let me study accounting." I've got an accountant's certificate now, and I have a stable job and extra income on behalf of accounts, which is all cultivated by my husband. Sister, for his sake, let alone selling the house, I will give it to him with my liver. " Three days later, the patient still left and his wife cried her eyes out.
When I see her, I think of myself. My child's father also drinks a lot. My way is to turn him into an ex-husband!
he drinks it almost every day. if he doesn't drink it one day, he must make it up the next day! After drinking, he makes trouble without reason: greet my parents with the dirtiest words; After drinking wine, he gave me a lover one day, from the unit leader to the grandfather who swept the floor; He drank wine, carried a broken bicycle upstairs, and put it at the door of the bedroom in the middle of the night. When I went out, I was cursed. After drinking, he can play the tape recorder to the maximum volume in the early morning when everything is silent, dial the so-and-so nightly program, and hear the interaction between the anchor and the audience about cheating, and shout at the top of his lungs: "October, this is especially about you!" I really don't understand. At that time, I was doing all the housework, bearing all the family expenses, taking care of my children and facing 56 graduating students every day. When should I cuckold him?
I'm too thin. I'm 1.7 meters tall and only 9 kg! If I had a big waist like Jia Ling, I would cut him half to death. But I can't help it, I can't beat it, I can't win it, so I have to run away at the expense of leaving home clean and taking my children.
many years later, her ex-husband was running for life, exhausted and sleepy, neither handsome as a teenager nor arrogant as a young man. In front of the house and car I bought for my son, in front of my beautiful daughter-in-law and clever granddaughter, he is kind and humble. My daughter-in-law asked me if I was too young twenty years ago and divorced on impulse. I was speechless, but my son said no. He said: "My father is a person who lives in the present, and my mother is a person who works hard for tomorrow. Over time, my father's heart naturally can't hold my growing mother. Their spirits can't match, and their souls can't vibrate. So my father felt uneasy and vented his anger by drinking. The purpose is to give others an illusion and give himself an excuse-that is, my mother dragged him down! "
at that moment, I felt that my son had really grown up. For the sake of my son's understanding, I don't regret taking off these shoes of marriage, and I don't regret being a mother and a father, sacrificing my personal happiness and bringing up my son alone!
We also have one here. Everything is fine without drinking. When drinking, it is not him. He is drunk and scolds his wife and beats her.
Then I woke up and regretted it. I knelt down to my wife and vowed never to fight again. As a result, after a few months of drinking and swearing again, the time was getting shorter and shorter.
The daughter-in-law couldn't stand it, so she sneaked away with her son. He drank wine and smashed the old man's house. The father-in-law's family also ran away.
it's okay this time. I drink it every day, and I beat and scold his parents, who are in their thirties. It's estimated that this will be the case for life.
so, if you meet such a person, you must leave.
if you drink for work, you will sleep when you are drunk and don't make trouble, which is good and understandable.
Fortunately, I don't drink so hard at work now, and everyone pays attention to health.
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wine, the purest in quality, is water, but it is warmer and more unrestrained than water. Some people say that there can be no wine and no water in the world. I think there can be no water and no wine in the world. Without wine, living is too lonely, without passion, living is also in vain.
I don't have a husband who loves to drink every day, but I am very honored to have a wife who can drink well. My wife is very beautiful, even more beautiful when drinking. Her elegant gesture of raising a glass has fascinated me so far.
My wife is not only a good drinker, but also considerate. I always take her with me whenever I entertain for business drinks. For one thing, she is beautiful and popular, and she can also stop drinking for me, so that I can keep a cool head and plan in the treacherous business sea.
drunk, nine times out of ten, men pretend to be drunk, while women are drunk, which is really drunk. My wife is the truest, purest and most loyal when she is drunk.
once she was drunk and I changed her clothes, she still said to me, wait a minute, where is my husband?
I am very touched. My wife still remembers me at this time! I said to her gently: I am your husband. She said in a daze: hmm, hmm ...
I stood on the green grass, I was moved, and I was proud to have such a wife who loves to drink!
I have a few suggestions for your reference:
First, look at how much he drinks. If he is used to drinking, he will only taste it every day and will not cause trouble, so he is very responsible for you and your family, so it has nothing to do.
Second, if you are an alcoholic, you drink a lot every day, and if you drink too much, you will get drunk and get into trouble. Then you must seriously communicate with him and talk it over so that he can correct it. After all, it's bad for your health and your family.
thirdly, if alcoholism will lead to domestic violence and can't be cured, then I suggest you plan it as soon as possible.
In a word, drinking every day is not a good habit. If it is not serious, it can be tolerated. If it is serious, it must be corrected. If you can't change it, you have to plan ahead for yourself. What do you think?
let me answer this question from another angle, from the point of controlling the harm of drinking. For men in the workplace, drinking alcohol is often unavoidable for business entertainment. Once excessive, it will hurt their health and may cause disaster, but if they have healthy drinking habits, drinking alcohol will not be so harmful. If you really can't get rid of alcohol addiction or avoid it, then try your best to remind and advise drinkers to drink healthily and control the harm of drinking.
1. Moderate drinking
At present, the World Health Organization (WHO) has given the limit of safe drinking: men should not drink more than one or two glasses of white wine every day, women should not drink more than one bottle of beer every day, and they should not drink at least two days a week.
The daily alcohol intake of men should not exceed 4 units and that of women should not exceed 3 units. The alcohol unit can be calculated by the alcohol concentration (only numbers) marked on the bottle × the quantity (in liters) drunk. For example, if Beijing Erguotou, with an alcohol concentration of 42%, wants to consume no more than 4 units of alcohol every day, it should not drink more than .95 liters, that is, 15 ml small wine glasses, not more than 7 cups.
Normal people should drink moderately. It is not necessary to do everything according to the standard, but also to deal with it according to the actual situation and drink as little as possible.
2. Advise him to drink slowly and refuse "one mouthful boring". Some people who can drink, like a long stream of water, sip, not easy to get drunk. It is not only easy to get drunk, but also very harmful to respiratory tract, stomach and other organs.
3. Try to choose low-alcohol wine. Usually, under the same amount, the damage of high-alcohol liquor to the liver and other organs is greater than that of low-alcohol liquor. The alcohol content of distilled liquor in the world is generally around 4%vol, so it is best to choose low-alcohol liquor at banquets.
4. Let him drink more water on the way. In the process of drinking, you might as well drink more boiled water or order a cup of watermelon juice, which can accelerate the discharge of alcohol from urine and reduce the burden on the liver.
5. Remind drinkers to refuse to drink on an empty stomach. Many drinkers know that it's better to have a bottom before drinking, and it's best to eat food rich in starch and high protein, but never eat bacon, salted fish, etc. It will react with alcohol and hurt the liver.
6. Eat fruits and vegetables after drinking. Remind drinkers to eat some fruits and vegetables after drinking, such as bananas, apples, pears, oranges, tomatoes, watermelons, cantaloupes, etc. These fructose foods can accelerate the metabolism of wine, and have the effect of sobering up. You can also drink some yogurt, which can better help alcohol discharge.
after drinking, you should also pay attention to it. It is best not to let the drinker sleep immediately, do not exercise vigorously and take a bath, and never sleep on his stomach. You can drink more water or have a cup of honey water to speed up the hangover.
Sometimes it is inevitable for men to drink alcohol. If we advise him from another angle and help him to establish a healthy drinking habit, then drinking alcohol will not be so harmful. I hope the answer can help you.
If he is addicted to alcohol or dependent on it, everything you do is almost in vain, because it's just like taking drugs, even harder to quit than taking drugs, because alcohol is available everywhere. Unless this person never drinks, it takes a lot of perseverance, which is extremely difficult to do. Few people understand the "disease" of alcoholism, saying that it is a disease. If you stay sober for a long time, you will be fine. But even if you quit drinking for three years, five years, or even ten years, as long as you have a glass of wine, he will be beaten back to his original shape, and soon he will return to the days when he can't extricate himself from drinking every day. He will tell lies, put aside his shame and sense of responsibility, and ignore his wife, children and children, let alone earn money to support his family. Advise those who drink too much, don't let yourself fall into this step, or you will be manipulated by the drunkard for life, so that you will eventually be alienated from your relatives, poor and poor, and will not end well. I used to think it was normal for men to drink and smoke, but from my own experience for so many years, I learned from my heart that wine can destroy a person and a family. I advise my female compatriots to keep their eyes open, stay away from wine glasses and alcoholics.
what should I do if I meet a husband who likes drinking every day? Drinking every day is definitely not a good habit, but since we are husbands, we have to save it. After all, marriage is not a child's play.
Tell him well first. Regular drinking is harmful to your health. Find some articles about the serious consequences of drinking and send them to him every day!
If a friend works from the media, you can also ask for help to write something terrible, such as "Drinking will lead to impotence and premature ejaculation in men" and "A bottle of wine every day makes Tintin short by three points", such as "Drinking every day makes my wife lonely and sitting on her head in green", which will sound an alarm for him!
If this trick can't be effective and nothing can make him have a correct understanding, then he can only be treated according to the symptoms.
First of all, let's see what he will do after drinking. If he does nothing, he will go home to sleep honestly, and he will not make trouble or get drunk, not to mention his wife. Then the man will make do with medicine first, and let him drink more water to help alcohol metabolism. When he is in poor health and suffers from illness, he should be honest.
If after drinking, he goes crazy, beats his wife, or after drinking, he can't control his belt and goes out to have sex, so this kind of man won't be needed. Get a divorce early and get better, and he can live a clean life. Be careful that he is infected with sexually transmitted diseases!
This is a topic that annoys women. Conversely, do men feel the same way when women drink alcohol every day? It's not easy to get together. For the sake of family harmony, we shouldn't still think that we are single, so we love how how how to be chic, which leads to too many examples of marriage closure. In ordinary life, everyone has a steady job and comes home from work happily together. Together, for the sake of the future, women have to take care of their families when they go to work, and they have to face the fire when their husbands come back as pigs, right? In fact, someone can't drink at all. The model is more realistic. Sometimes he drinks when he is outside. When he comes back, he goes straight to sleep or watches TV without talking. Sometimes he falls asleep in a chair for half an hour, just like he didn't drink. Sometimes he falls asleep in the car. After drinking before, he drove back, and the investigation was strict. I have been reminded countless times that I would never take you for drunk driving, and I can't take it. If you do it well, you will drive instead. Sometimes when I come back in the middle of the night, I am angry and I will never talk to him. The next day, I am still dumb and don't look at him at all. This boy naturally knows that I am angry and coaxed. It's strange that he doesn't drink a drop when we go out to eat together. I didn't say that you don't drink, too. It's really strange.