I think emotional marriage is mainly related to the consistency of two people's life goals and three views, and has nothing to do with Feng Shui.
First, the three views are very important.
A person's three views are directly linked to his spiritual world, so if your spiritual worlds are not matched, then it may be difficult for your three views to be consistent. Two people with different three views live together. That is very tiring, and over time the marriage will naturally become useless.
The second point is life goals.
In a marriage, only when the husband and wife have the same goals in life can they be harmonious for a long time. However, if the husband and wife are not consistent spiritually and have inconsistent ideas, it will directly affect the goals and structure of the marriage. You think about it Regarding the future goals of marriage, he thinks it's fine to just muddle along. Can a marriage with different marriage goals last long?
So many people don't care about "well-matched" family background and family background when they get married, thinking that as long as they are "well-matched" Having a relationship can overcome these habits brought by the original family. Compared with these, the spiritual match is more important, because it will directly affect whether your married life is emotionally relaxed and spiritually happy. Therefore, if you want a happy marriage, you must not Ignore the spiritual compatibility.
The third point is, ***the same language.
The most direct manifestation of spiritual compatibility is whether people speak the same language. You are talking to him about the world political situation, but he replies to you with trivial remarks. It is like a chicken talking to a duck. You will never find it. You can chat and discuss topics together, but gradually you will become alienated, and you will feel very lonely in the spiritual world.
Fourth, learn to understand others. Understanding others is often as difficult as asking yourself. We are always trying our best to find faults with each other. We always feel that the other person can't get along with me. We always feel that everyone is making an enemy of me. There are many things that are unintentional, but there are those kind of narrow-minded people who always have to check the situation. , asking for trouble.
I don’t know how to understand others, and I often say something unintentionally. When the person who wants to find fault hears it, I think he is sarcastic and sarcastic, and I can’t get along with myself and become troubled. As time goes by, over and over again, there may finally be a general outbreak, a fight, or even a murder. Various social news reports in newspapers, such as a murder caused by a few dollars, a joke leading to a tragedy.
Learn to forgive: Learn to forgive your friends and relatives. The closer people are, the more likely they are to have misunderstandings because they care too much about each other. I can't explain, I can't defend. Outsiders see the joke, but I can't let it go in my dreams. At this time, the only thing that helps is time. Time will dilute many things and melt resentment. One day you will find that if you are a friend, you will definitely come back. The sooner you forget those things you said or heard in anger, and the sooner you forgive the other person or yourself, the biggest beneficiary will not be the other person, but yourself. You will be happy and your worries will be gone.