"Seven don't bury the father, eight don't bury the mother" is actually a taboo in the funeral ceremony. It is said that there are seven days of worship when people die, and every seventh day is also "violating the seventh day", which is unlucky. Regardless of whether a man or a woman commits seven sins after death, as long as they go to the cemetery of the deceased before twelve o'clock on the seventh day of the first sin and plant as many ghost flags as the deceased is, everything will be fine. Of course, it doesn't mean that "if you don't bury your father if you are seven, and if you don't bury your mother if you are eight", it means you won't be buried in the grave. We can break, we can avoid time, and let the dead go in peace. People often say: There are policies from above and countermeasures from below. Nothing can remain the same; misfortune can be turned into good fortune, and adversity can be turned into good fortune. In this regard, Feng Shui masters who understand Yin Yang and Five Elements can deal with it. Which is not called a thing.
"Seven days do not bury the father, eight days do not bury the mother"
"Seven days do not bury the father, eight days do not bury the mother", it means that the lunar calendar falls on the seventh day, that is, the seventh, seventeenth and seventeenth days of the lunar month. Twenty-seven cannot bury the father. Not only is it a violation of seven, it will also have an impact on the other half of the family. On the eighth day of the lunar month, that is, on the eighth, eighteenth, and twenty-eighth day of the lunar month, mothers cannot be buried, which is a bit unlucky. The eighth day has the meaning of "eighth mother-in-law", which is a slander against women. "Seven don't bury your father, eight don't bury your mother" is actually a hurdle in life. It will still be involved in death, so you can only take a detour. There are always one or two unsatisfactory situations in life. What can be done? The only thing you can do is "soldiers will come to block the water and earth will cover it up." This is the highest state of life.
There is a saying in rural areas about visiting relatives and friends during the Chinese New Year. I wonder if you have heard of it. "Seven don't go out, eight don't come back, fly home on the 9th or 10th day of the lunar month." Especially if children go to their grandparents’ houses to pay New Year greetings, they will definitely not be allowed to go back on the seventh or eighth day of the lunar month. A new daughter-in-law is also taboo on the seventh and eighth days of the lunar month when she returns to her parents' home, and these two days are also taboo. They pay attention to auspiciousness. I'm not usually very particular about it, but when a new daughter-in-law returns to her parents' home or when the baby comes home for the first month, it's very important, and it's not just for you to do anything random.
"It is seven or eight to bury the father and eight not to bury the mother." In fact, it is a taboo day for people to choose a day. Is there any scientific reason for it to be inappropriate for traveling, offering sacrifices, praying for blessings, or doing other things? If you believe it, you will have it; if you don’t believe it, you will not have it. It can only be said to be a funeral custom. As more people believe in it, they have become accustomed to it. When in town, do as the Romans do! We will not make any comments.