1. When encountering difficulties, the stronger a woman is, the more attractive she is. Being strong is neither stubborn nor tough. It makes the injured woman look far away and gives herself a reason to go on. A strong woman will open her heart with a key; Borrow a clear sky and embrace the sunshine. She will also find a shoulder to cry on. Love, hurt, cry, laugh, and then continue to be strong.
2. Every kind of trauma is a kind of maturity. Don't always be dissatisfied with others, but always review yourself. Dissatisfaction with others is bitterness to oneself.
3. There are more and more people who practice Buddhism to the extreme, but many people just pay attention to the rules and regulations of Buddhism, study Buddhism all day, and completely separate life from practice. They think that life is life and practice is practice. These Buddhist practitioners are often unable to lend a helping hand to the suffering people around them. They forget that the greatest meaning of Buddhism is "Purdue all beings".
4. Some people have lived in flowers and applause for a long time, and gradually don't know who they are. A person who lost himself suddenly realized that the years had long gone. I can't open it, I can't forget it, I can't let it go, and I am imprisoned in a gloomy memory; Don't dare to think, don't be confident, don't act, and confine yourself to a fixed space. If you can't break the inner prison, even if I give you the whole sky, you won't find the feeling of freedom.
Don't give up until the last moment. It's not luck to get good things in the end. Sometimes, you have to work hard in front to meet in the back. If you can't calm down, it will be difficult to achieve great things. A quiet mind is sober, a sober mind is sober, a sober mind is spiritual, and a smart mind is sober. A peaceful mind is great, and a clear mind is clear. Only a peaceful mind can gain great wisdom and insight.
6. Many current situations are only temporary. Since we are unable to solve and cope at present, it is useless to think too much, which will only increase our sadness. There is an ancient saying: "Sometimes if you want something in life, don't insist all the time!"
7. Self-cultivation is the most important, and cautious words are the first in life. Don't tell anyone about people in the same circle, no matter how reliable you think he is. There is no love for no reason, and there is no hatred for no reason. There are more or less some benefits between people.
8. The needs of life are like eating. You can only eat two bowls of rice. If you covet the smell of food and eat two more bowls, you won't enjoy the benefits of eating more normally. Instead, it will bring pain, because your stomach can't bear it. It can be seen that getting is not necessarily joy, nor is it necessarily enjoyment. Don't compare with others, learn not to be greedy or extravagant, be peaceful and quiet, and be contented.
9. Because of the encounter, because of the heart, I am destined to pursue, grope, uncontrollable, irrational, so willful and persistent, but so willing to accept torture. The feeling of distress reveals sweet happiness. This is the charm of fate, attracting emotional and intellectual people to take such a road, the road to your heart and mine.
10, a person may have two reactions after being hurt: one is hatred and the other is forgiveness. And hatred will immerse yourself in the abyss of pain, not only to punish those who have hurt themselves, but also to punish themselves. Spinoza said: the heart is not conquered by force, but by love and tolerance. If a person can forgive others' injuries, then he must be an open-minded and cheerful person. If you hit back at the person who hurt you with love, then the other person will respond with love because of shame.
1 1. Nothing in the world is perfect. If you pursue perfection, you will be tired and hurt by perfection. The reason why reality is imperfect is that people's desires are endless, the gap between people is great, and everyone's needs are also very different. No one has the right and ability to ask others, even society, to follow their own ideas. The blind pursuit of perfection in life will inevitably lead to demanding of oneself and intolerance of others. Since ancient times, there are countless people who pursue perfection, but for thousands of years, no one has finally become a perfect saint.
12, each of us is an independent individual. Although there is no difference between people, there are great differences. There are thousands of roads in Qian Qian in this world, but the most difficult one is the one that suits you. Everyone should design themselves according to their own specialties, do what they can, and try to find favorable conditions according to the environment and conditions; Don't wait for opportunities, create them yourself; If we produce results and gain social recognition, things will be easy.
13, or, learn to be lonely forever, and being lonely forever will make you less fussy in such a situation. However, there are too many situations that we can't predict and have no time to think. With the dust involved, it is impossible to predict what kind of parting will follow, and I don't know what kind of everything will be lost unexpectedly.
14, I stood at the ferry of the season and stared at the distant past. The lonely figure is like a lost lamb, wandering at the fork of the world of mortals with a sad face. The title page of memory, turning to that early autumn afternoon, you met unexpectedly in the vast sea of people, a short message, a sincere greeting, touched my heartstrings and opened the prelude to acquaintance.
15, tolerant and generous. Tolerance and forbearance are not only a virtue, but also the highest realm of life. It is a good medicine to resolve contradictions and a golden bridge to communicate with the soul. It helps us to get love and happiness while eliminating resentment. There is a forward attitude called concession. Of course, we should forge ahead, pursue progress and strive for success in the process of formation, but many times we should know how to retreat, know how to retreat, and be good at retreating. Concession is often a gesture of progress.
16, the loss of youth, indifferent people do not complain; Lead is washed away, and those who are calm do not mourn or sigh.
17, Bodhisattva has a wife's heart. In folk stories, there are many stories about Guanyin incarnating as an old woman to save the people. The so-called "Bodhisattva" regards men as fathers and brothers and women as mothers and sisters. Therefore, when the Bodhisattva saves all sentient beings, she is as patient as the old woman and voluntarily helps others without expectation, for the sake of her wife's heart.
Archaeology is a science that changes the past.
19, life is not satisfactory, nine times out of ten; It's eleven to two who can talk to others. We can aim high, but we should be low-minded when doing things. Life is a marathon, and the honor belongs to those who can persist to the end, not those who run at the front from the beginning. It will take us a lifetime to finish this long-distance running, so don't care about the temporary gains and losses, and don't think about living an easy life from the beginning.
20. Feng Shui is not bad now, and people's hearts are not good. Heart is the foundation of Feng Shui, and bad heart is the foundation of Feng Shui. Therefore, the heart is the foundation of Feng Shui.
2 1. Being alive is actually a state of mind. If you feel happy, happiness is everywhere; If you lament for yourself, the world will be gloomy. Very, don't listen; Misfortunes depend on each other and let nature take its course. Do more good deeds, and happiness is near; Most of them are evil, but disasters are far away. Not extravagant, the heart is easy to settle down; If you don't flush it, it's all over. A small heart can't hold ants, but a wide chest can hold hundreds of rivers.
22. The true meaning of life lies in innovation, the ideal of life lies in sublimity, the art of life lies in choice, the pace of life lies in sureness, the happiness of life lies in pursuit, and the happiness of life lies in dullness. Life is sometimes a play. There are highs and lows. Everyone has a different role in this play. Some people are leading roles, others are supporting roles. It is not that the protagonist must have a good play, but the supporting role also has its moments. Getting along with people and pursuing harmony, just like water, can evolve into colorful, tasteless but can interpret all the flavors.
23. Get used to silence and let your heart listen; Get used to looking back and let the heart understand; Get used to smiling and make your heart calm. There are always many imperfections in life, such as pain, such as struggle, such as hesitation; There are always many perfections in life, such as happiness, beauty and happiness. Always give yourself a sky and learn to fly; Always give yourself a corner and learn to forget; You should give yourself space and learn to grow. Life is destined to experience too many ups and downs; Life is mature and experienced. If the years are like water, you won't know the depth until you walk; Life is like a song. When you sing it loudly, your heart will ring. Give yourself a sky, fly bravely regardless of the wind and rain; Give yourself a smile, calm and confident, free and easy and firm. Light a heart lamp and realize it silently; Touch a string and listen quietly. The lush years are moving forward.
24. Leisure has nothing to do with time. Leisure is a discovery of the soul, leisure is a pleasure of life, and leisure is a rhythm of life. It is a state to be able to prioritize and be busy without chaos.
25. What can be found may never be lost; What is lost may never be truly owned.
26. Cowardly people will only retreat, reckless people will only be burned to death, and only truly brave people can be invincible. The world doesn't care about your self-esteem, only your grades, and then emphasize your feelings.
27, every family has a difficult experience, or more care, more understanding of parents! After all, it is not easy to maintain a home.
28. With the right thoughts and actions, you will lead a right life.
29. Working hard in a foreign land, I feel hard and can stand loneliness. No one gives an umbrella when it rains. No one says that it takes four seasons for a person to know himself. But many people are just like you. Only by enduring loneliness can we remain prosperous. Don't choose comfort at the age of struggle.
30. If you want to make life full of happiness and satisfaction, you must form a good habit of loving learning, keep reading and make a little progress every day. After a long time, you can make great progress.
3 1, life is like a box of matches, not stupid but dangerous to abuse.
32. Live a carefree life with a willing attitude. The meaning of life lies in experience, and success or failure depends on it. It is a series of real footprints, which eventually converge into my long or short life. From the beginning of life to the end of life, on this road, I am not demanding results, I will only be grateful and cherish.
33. How can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain? You don't know how strong you are until you experience it. It takes experience to grow, and the bow of the ear of grain is mature. Everyone will probably experience some setbacks, emotional breakdown or extreme moments, and everything will be fine. They'll get through it. Because time will not stop because of you, no matter what, life will go on and the rest of my life will be full.
34. Find someone who loves you and forget the one you love.
35. Let go is a psychological choice; Letting go is a kind of spiritual learning; Letting go is a kind of life wisdom; Let go of the pressure and get relaxed; Let go of troubles and get happiness; Let go of inferiority and gain self-confidence; Let go of laziness and get rich.
36. Dating is like a two-way interview. Everyone wants to be hired, and they are also evaluating whether to hire another person.
37. An elderly couple lived together for most of their lives. For many years, at the last moment before going to bed every night, they will definitely say: I love you.
38. If you are poor, you should think about change, change and work hard. Go your own way, whether it is bitter or tired, or even failure, you must bear it. As long as it is your choice, there is no regret.
39. Those who sow with tears will surely reap with a smile. If you want to be famous in front of others, you have to suffer later. Take courage to lower your head and raise your head confidently. The earth is moving, and a person will not be in an unlucky position forever. Memory is a bridge, but it is a prison leading to loneliness. The biggest bankruptcy is despair, and the biggest asset is hope.
40. When I was a child, I was happy, lively, lovely and grew up. I am angry, annoyed, depressed and annoyed. This is the ups and downs of life.
4 1, everything has changed. The only thing that hasn't changed is reading your words, because this is the only way to love.
42. Youth has nothing to do with age. [xx] An old man can still be young. Youth is actually related to three "thoughts": ideals, dreams and thoughts. If we can stick to our ideals, pursue our dreams and explore our independent thoughts, our youth will begin to mature. After setbacks, not changing the original intention is the biggest sign of youth.
43. Do what you should do and learn your skills according to your own wishes.
When talking about his shortcomings, he hugged tightly and smiled with a simple and honest face-the shortcoming is his pet.
45, rummaging through the timeless books, the dust is vast, flat and faint, the narrative is broken, and the vicissitudes of life begin to yellow. The bustling silence, the endless sound of attachment, dripped gently in the years like water. Through reincarnation, through change, through the corridor of time. Half city smoke and half city injury, mountains and rivers are cold.
46. It turns out that the warmth in your hand is the light borrowed from time.
47. 18-year-old girls are like a staff, which shows the ups and downs of life. Score the ingenuity of life; Draw your own sky. /kloc-the sky of 0/8 years old is full of tenderness in spring and pride in summer. It is a series of combinations of flowers and sunshine.
48. No one can be pure until the end, but remember, don't forget your original self. True happiness is not living like others, but being able to live according to your own wishes. You will meet the right one. Until then, try to make you the best you can be.
49. Artists are well-known and called artists, and now they are very fashionable.
Don't always rely on others, put all your hopes on others, and solve problems by yourself, because everyone has a lot of things to do, and he can only help us to the greatest extent. Others can only help for a while, but not for a lifetime.
5 1, draw a tiger and draw a bone, look at people and see god: it is much more important to measure others with keen observation and good judgment and know people's morality and temperament than to know the quality and characteristics of stones and herbs. This is a very subtle thing in life.
Don't complain at will, because everyone has their own pain.
53. A smart person will set a standard for his life, which is not a standard that meets, but a standard that he really wants. As long as we feel meaningful, we must stick to it. Don't hurt others and society, be what you want to be, do what you want to do and say what you want to say … This is the essence of our success.
54. The world is cold, too many things are out of control and too many people can't care. No matter what difficulties you face, don't complain, because complaining will not only alleviate your pain, but also help solve the problem. Complaining will not only make your attitude towards others worse, but also make you accomplish nothing.
55. True love is the independence of two trees, gazing at each other and setting off each other, but each becomes a landscape; True love is the love of two flowers. Appreciate each other's beauty and breathe freely. True love is two stars facing each other, waiting for a thousand years, but never feeling separated.
56. In the bedroom of the Millennium princess, a trace of cicada cries bitterly and rolls up the autumn moon in my hometown, and chrysanthemum tears come to dawn.
57. However, you should know that at some point, most people's views may be wrong and you may be right. Even if you are the only one who disagrees with others' opinions, it doesn't mean that your opinions are incorrect. I know that sometimes sticking to your point of view is likely to be crowded out by people who don't know the truth in a short time, but as long as you are sure that you are right, even if you are really a person, you must stick to it, because it takes a quality to dare to stick to your point of view. If you have this quality, then you will not worry that your correctness will be besieged by mistakes.
58. Fall in love with a man who can't wait to open the door until he gets home.
59. Life is mixed, I only wish the years are innocent ... I speak in words and splash ink on the painter's paintings.
60. If you always turn on the light in your life and see how dark it is, happiness will be far away from you.
6 1, living beautifully requires great patience, one does not complain and the other does not explain.
62. If you hold your own soil in your hand and watch the green grass grow slowly in the breeze under the clear sky, calculate the harvest of one year, and that down-to-earth mood is the best answer for the rest of your life.
63. Forgetting is our unchangeable destiny. Everything is like a misplaced painting. Everything in the past can't go back to the past, so it slowly extends out bit by bit. Maybe we should really forget what interleaving is.
64. If you want to never let anything happen to him, it means that he hasn't touched anything. It's not funny.
65. The law of investment is negative list logic. Successful cases are not necessarily effective, so we should learn from failed cases.
66. Time has a clear unit of measurement. The speed at which it passes has remained constant and has never changed. It's just the mentality that changes.
67. In the face of fear, dry your tears and wake up better every day. Some things are really impossible, forget it, don't embarrass yourself. Hold your horses and take a step back. Good temper is the best dress a person can wear in social activities. Tolerance is a bridge of mutual understanding and trust between people. Optimism comes from tolerance, from generosity, from understanding, from being at peace with the world.
68. After a long time, you will find that it doesn't matter what is unsociable, unlovable, outstanding, tactful, indecisive, generous, erudite or even haggle over every ounce. It doesn't matter if you learn a skill and know how to recognize people with your eyes. This is enough to make life invincible.
69. As the saying goes, one small step is a lifelong regret; As the saying goes: where you fall, you get up. I hope that our spirit of being more frustrated and brave will never be erased, and we will laugh at life and every day!