Why do some fugitives succeed in the process of escape? Ordinary people should have more resources, why can't they succeed? Although it is very eye-catching, the probability will not be too much. After all, a person with money has a lot of right and wrong. Running away is not easy to be caught. Can it be so easy to create wealth in chains? Why don't you try? If you know that you can make a fortune on your own if you don't "go sideways", who will take the risk of doing stupid things?
The fugitives are similar to those who have made a fortune. They are all people in crisis. They are very sensitive to opportunities. They move as fast as frightened birds. They are also willing to take risks, because taking risks will bring greater returns.
From "crime" to "success" to "responsibility", it can be called a "roller coaster" story. Fugitives are like frightened birds, hiding in Tibet and facing various difficulties; Try every means to achieve "success" until people pay attention to "taking responsibility" for what they do again. This is based on "things" as a clue.
Whether it is successful or not, the subject is people, and people are another clue in this process. Try to analyze the difference of crisis pressure on the will quality of successful people.
Success requires resources, including the use of psychological, natural and social resources. This is the third thread. From the perspective of resource utilization, different people have different models.
The next interview will be discussed from these three aspects:
First, the inherent logic of "success"
Taking "event" as the center, whether it is "committing a crime" or "accomplishing something" or "shouldering something" or abstractly being an official, it needs psychological qualities such as passion, courage, ability, quality and responsibility. Foreign psychological research data show that some potential psychological qualities of heroes and criminals are similar, such as adrenaline rising, decisiveness and being able to withstand pressure when encountering certain things. So the result is very different. Success does not exclude your recognition. Right or wrong, it has its own internal logic, just like "Tao" is independent of consciousness. As long as you find a way and conform to its laws, you can succeed.
1) Strong sense of responsibility, dare to take responsibility and seize the opportunity to do things;
The first is to dare to take responsibility. People who often dare to take on greater responsibilities will be more capable, grow faster, have more followers and form teams more easily.
Ordinary people dare not take responsibility, solidify their thinking ability and grow slowly, so it is difficult to form a team.
2) Can it be done? Can it be a big deal? It's different abilities.
No matter big or small, creativity, insight, planning, execution, self-saving, principle and flexibility are needed. As the movie "new york Robbery" said, the ability to do some earth-shattering things is multifaceted, and even depends on the precise cooperation of the team.
3) Do what you are good at,
If it is difficult to do something, it is definitely not your forte. If you are good at doing something, you can find tips and methods, and you can have patience and confidence to do it well.
4) Let things move, and it is possible to solve them.
Things are done, not said. If you want to cross the fence, you must throw your hat first; When things move, it is possible to solve them; If you don't act, you will never succeed. If you start to act, you will always solve the difficulties one by one, and things will succeed one day.
5) Only by "sticking to the end" can people succeed, and only by digging well water can they win, and stand to the end if they are sure.
Most ordinary people give up halfway, because without confidence and long-term vision, they often accomplish nothing. Only those who don't run away from anything, have no choice, find a way out, don't give up easily, grit their teeth and work hard to tide over the difficulties can achieve great things.
6) There is demand and supply, resources, contacts and opportunities in "things".
How to look at things? There are many doorways here, and people who are afraid of things take responsibility when they see an accident and walk around; Good people see resources and opportunities, sharpen their heads and drill in.
How to handle "things"? It has something to do with people, money, things and so on.
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7) "Practice in things, see in things" is a long skill.
"Be serious", it's a matter of life and death to be cautious if you don't see the rabbit and scatter the eagle. Only by not being afraid of things, fighting injustice and being bored can we exercise the "ability" needed to achieve one thing, even an important event. Fools are not good at distinguishing things, but wise men are best at using tricks.
8) Don't do things secretly,
Do things in a low-key and pragmatic way, do not show off, adopt practical utilitarianism, and do what is useful; Can stand loneliness and loss. Only by sharing and sharing can we cooperate with others for a long time. Only when the whole body is injured can we stick to the final result. Some of these qualities are beyond the reach of ordinary people. As the saying goes, "injustice can hold up the big picture." They are those who have done something wrong, learned from their mistakes and learned from the facts. Invisible actions coincide with the truth of doing things.
Second, people behave differently in different states.
As the subject of "event"-human analysis, extraordinary people are doing extraordinary things, and different identities mean crossing the real boundary. Criminals travel through different parallel worlds, and they often break the routine and wander in the gray buffer zone.
If we can get things done directly without committing crimes, and we don't have to take responsibility for the mistakes we didn't make, this may be the idea that fugitives regret most. Isn't this the positive people in society who create value for society?
1) Different ways to treat mistakes lead to different growth:
Ordinary people tend to be conservative and make no mistakes, but they also miss many good opportunities.
People who have committed crimes often regard mistakes as people who have died once, and are more inclined to boldly seize opportunities.
Humans learn from mistakes, learn from experience through reflection, and avoid making mistakes again to be correct and successful. Everyone makes mistakes. Errors are defined by laws and other rules in the world in terms of boundaries and nature. Normal people will choose not to violate the law and not to violate their hearts (morality). However, some bold people often ignore the law and become marginal people in the gray area, and it is easy to become fugitives of illegal crimes.
2) Don't be afraid of failure. If you fail, you must have the courage to start again.
If you are not afraid of losing, you will win, you will win. Ordinary people are afraid of difficulties and things in advance. Anyone who has experienced wind and rain knows that wealth is not a curse, but it cannot be escaped. Face him realistically.
3) Under different living conditions, people adopt different thinking strategies and have different perceptions of opportunities.
Ordinary people have a solid thinking, a conservative understanding of opportunities, and many rules and regulations in their minds.
People with a sense of crisis are relatively active and open, and people in crisis have different ideas about opportunities.
Ordinary people are like boiled frogs in warm water in the face of crisis. The water temperature rose unconsciously, paralyzing their nerves. When they found danger, they had lost their ability to cope and had to wait for death in silence. People in crisis are like scalding frogs. Although it looks dangerous, under the stimulation of the crisis, we can jump out of danger through potential emergencies.
4) Different pressures have different concentrations and acceptances.
Ordinary people are indecisive in considering problems, and it is difficult to choose advantages and disadvantages. People in crisis are worth a try as long as they can get out of trouble, and the potential of cross the rubicon is stimulated. The story of hounds chasing injured rabbits became the best annotation. The hounds couldn't catch their prey, so they were punished by hunters at most, but they didn't starve to death. And rabbits have no chance of survival without hard work.
5) ambition determines the goal.
Dare to think and do, dare to think and do, support the bold and starve the timid. In other words, ambition is also an indicator to determine the size of the goal.
6) Different perceptions of human nature.
Ordinary people are generally good people. They don't like making trouble and are kind to people. They have a good unilateral expectation of human nature and hope that others will repay them. People who have experienced a lot have a comprehensive understanding of different human nature and different aspects of human nature, knowing that "everyone has a tendency to seek benefits" and that human nature will have a "balance of advantages and disadvantages." Human nature has a warm and generous side and a dark and selfish side. They skillfully control the humanity of others to achieve their own goals.
Third, the accumulation and utilization of resources are different.
Resources have their own way of operating. If you don't control resources, someone will control them, and they will control you by controlling your resources. Because people are also a kind of resource, you will passively wait to be manipulated if you don't take the initiative.
1, resources will not solidify, but people with rigid thinking can "borrow" resources.
Identity information, qualifications, money, assets, all resources belong to different subjects, but they can be rented between subjects. Although it is possible to commit crimes by robbing, stealing or even encroaching on resources that do not belong to them, the returns brought by resources are often rich. There will be all kinds of people who try to take risks and scratch the edge, wander in the gray area of interests to form the same body of interests, and even use the "first bucket of gold" obtained by illegal means to seize the opportunity of development, or use threats to obtain business opportunities.
The methods of borrowing are: borrowing, borrowing, borrowing people, borrowing things, borrowing money, borrowing convenience, being in the right place at the right time.
2. Resources have different goals.
Ordinary people always think more and do less, their thoughts are changeable, and they waste a lot of time and resources doing this and that. People in crisis tend to concentrate their resources on more practical goals in a more efficient way until they hit the blood. A hungry wolf would rather chase a lonely sheep than waste time angering a lion.
3. Use of rules.
Rules are only valid for those who abide by them, and conservative people stick to them. Rules are the entry barriers set by vested interests. They are familiar with rules and can make full use of and control them to serve themselves. Bold people seem to live in several parallel worlds and use the resources of different worlds to cross the barriers of rules.
4. Marginal cost tends to be stable.
Breach of promise will bring greater losses to both parties to the transaction, and those who have experienced pain will be more cautious about breaking the contract.
5. The efficiency of resource utilization is more in line with commercial principles.
People who flee generally choose their familiar industries and their own specialties. This is also in line with the characteristics of unfamiliar business.