The aquarium diet is usually a habit of not eating, sour or spicy. Usually, the diet is not particular, but when guests visit, the food must be rich, and glutinous rice, meat, fish, wine, chickens and ducks, at least tofu, will be served. During the dinner, the host will propose a toast, guess boxing, sing a toast, clink glasses and drink a round of wine. Until the guests are drunk, the host will feel satisfied and happy, and this feeling will be passed down from generation to generation.
Aquarium is hospitable. Guests should take the initiative to say hello when they get home and let them sit down and deliver water. During the festival, whether the guests know each other or not, they should be warmly treated when they get home. For guests, wine is the most expensive food, and killing pigs and fish is the main food for VIPs. The pig's head and the chicken's head symbolize dignity, so the chicken's head should respect the guests, and the pig's head should be kept as a farewell sacrifice.
Shui people have the habit of "wine is more important than meat, and smoke is more important than tea". Guests can come and go without meat, but not without wine and cigarettes. Alcohol and cigarettes are courtesy to others. Choosing a spouse should be based on the five behaviors of the zodiac, so that they can live together, but they can't live together, and adopt the principle of marriage customs of different families and surnames. My aunt's daughter must wait until she marries her uncle's son. If my uncle has no children, there is a big age difference, or five elements, only with the permission of my uncle's family can I get married; But my aunt's family wants to give my uncle money for a foreign daughter. This phenomenon was not found after liberation. Before liberation, there were many restrictions on the remarriage of widows, such as not being able to enjoy the inheritance right of her husband's property, not being able to marry into the village of her husband's clan, paying the widow money, sometimes as high as 400 silver cents, and the door-to-door son-in-law was discriminated against and excluded. The traditional marriage of Shui nationality has complicated procedures, such as visiting relatives, proposing relatives, naming names, opening relatives, betrothing relatives and welcoming relatives. Visiting relatives is to find girls; Proposing marriage is to talk to the matchmaker; No relatives are keepsakes given by both men and women, and other men no longer visit them; Opening relatives means establishing relatives; Engagement is a birthday, who takes girls from women; The wedding ceremony is to take the girl to get married.