A home that is too clean will not make you rich
A home that is too clean will not make you rich. Many people’s homes are relatively clean and tidy. In modern society, people don’t pay much attention to these things, and they are often easily broken. Therefore, we should pay more attention to some small things about Feng Shui in our home. Let’s take a look at how a clean home will not make you rich. A home that is too clean will not make you rich 1
Reasons why a home that is too clean will not gather wealth
We all generally believe that a clean home should be clean, so why do we say that a home that is too clean will not gather wealth? Where's the money? From the perspective of Feng Shui, if the home is too clean, it is not conducive to gathering wealth, because when wealth enters the house from the outside, it needs to be attached to some items to retain the wealth.
If there are not too many large furniture at home, then there will be very few things that wealth can be attached to. If the wealth cannot be retained, it will not be conducive to the accumulation of wealth at home and wealth cannot be gathered. Although it is said that a house that is too clean will not attract wealth, this is a folk Feng Shui theory, but from a Feng Shui perspective, this view does exist.
The house should be kept clean at all times, but if it is kept too clean, it will be difficult to retain wealth. Usually, after wealth enters the house from the outside, it needs to be attached to some items. Secondly, in Feng Shui there is a saying of "hiding the wind and gathering Qi", which means that the house must have certain blocking objects, so that the luck can be retained in the house for a long time.
A clean living room at home will bring wealth
Of course, there are still some places that can be very clean. The living room is equivalent to the bright hall at home. In Feng Shui, the bright hall should be spacious. Bright, so as to ensure sufficient yang energy. If you want to gather wealth in the living room, you need to clean it up so as to leave a certain amount of space for wealth. At the same time, you can also place some small objects in the living room that can improve wealth, which can have the effect of gathering wealth.
A clean bedroom at home can also be used to gather wealth.
The bedroom at home can also be kept clean to gather wealth. The bedroom is the place where our family rests, and the wealth in the family will gather here. If the bedroom is not cleaned, Then it will absorb turbid air, disrupt the aura of the home, and thus affect wealth. Therefore, the bedroom must be kept clean. A home that is too clean cannot become rich 2
Three reasons why a family cannot become rich
Discord between husband and wife
Some couples are like enemies in previous lives. We became a family in this life just to take revenge.
Such couples cannot be tolerant and manage their marriage well, which not only makes them unhappy but also makes their family unable to get rich.
Lin Yue never believed in the saying "it is better to lose money than to lose a wife". He can't be said to be very evil towards his wife, but he has a "training" mentality.
I just want to set good rules for my wife.
For example, during the Mid-Autumn Festival, my wife wanted to give her father five hundred yuan. Lin Yue firmly disagreed. He made a lot of great excuses, but in fact, his real thought was that he gave five hundred yuan this time. , wouldn’t it be a thousand next time?
So the couple who were celebrating the holidays had a quarrel. After the wife went to her parents' house, she still felt that she should honor her parents, so she still took the money. This was terrible. Lin Yue not only refused to use his money anymore He gave it to his wife and tried to control his wife's money.
His wife didn’t want to quarrel every day about money, so she began not to tell the truth. Lin Yue had no way to check how much his wife’s salary was.
Gradually, the wife felt that this life was really boring. The two of them were like guarding against thieves. She didn’t know how much her husband’s salary was, let alone give him a cent.
Once, she accidentally came early, and Lin Yue became furious, saying that his wife wanted to move his little money back to her parents' home.
My wife was extremely disappointed and no longer mentioned money. However, she was no longer the same as before. She always bought things for the house and spent money lavishly. She went shopping when she had time and traveled during holidays. , naturally there is not much money left on hand.
As for Lin Yue, he was very cool with his own money. He bought some gaming equipment today and a treat tomorrow. He was secretly happy in his heart, glad that he had taken back the financial power.
It wasn’t until a good opportunity appeared in front of Lin Yue that he realized that he had no savings. He licked his face and asked his wife, who showed him her bills with an expressionless face. Showing helplessness.
Only then did Lin Yue understand that any freedom comes with a corresponding price.
When a husband and wife are at odds, their hearts are not together, and naturally they will not have the understanding of marriage that one plus one is greater than two.
Under such circumstances, the family will naturally not be able to get rich.
Doting on children
In ancient times, there were two ways to educate children: "stick killing" and "praising killing". Among them, "praising killing" means that it is not good. If you educate your children, they will do well in whatever they do.
The doting on her is just too much.
Doting on children will bring unexpected troubles to the family.
Qu Lianjie in "Ode to Joy" is one.
Because Qu Lianjie is a son, his grandma loves him very much, and his father also looks up to him. As a girl, Qu Xiaoxiao and her mother are not even qualified to return to their hometown during the New Year.
Although Qu Xiaoxiao’s progress was valued by his father, the unmotivated Qu Lianjie was still doted on by his grandmother and father, so they wiped his butt again and again, which eventually caused his company to suffer. Serious crisis.
In real life, there are many things that cause trouble to families because of doting.
There is a well-to-do family at the intersection of my hometown. His family was the first in the town to build a luxurious villa. But now the villa has become a decoration, with red dye and big letters written on it. with the words "pay back the money" on it.
The villa was already deserted. Of course, the family was not there to enjoy themselves, but to avoid debts.
This debt is owed by the doted son.
We often say that raising children can provide for old age. In our era, both sons and daughters can provide for old age equally, but there is a prerequisite that one’s children are not raised in a biased manner.
Big trees need to be pruned and their leaves cut off, and so do children.
Doting is like fertilizing the branches and leaves. In this way, how can the child grow well?
As for children who grow crookedly, let alone guarding against old age, they are probably here to "revenge".
Therefore, don’t spoil your children and raise the next generation well, which will make it easier for a family to become rich.
Disrespecting parents
As the old saying goes, filial piety comes first.
It is difficult to imagine that a person who does not honor his parents is kind at heart.
Such people, even if they achieve temporary success, will fall into despair.
Many years ago, when I was in primary school, I saw a very unusual beggar.
He is neatly dressed and behaves politely. Someone gave him a bowl of rice. He quickly handed over his bowl and asked the other person to pour the rice into his bowl. Then he took out his chopsticks and started eating.
After eating, he went to the water to wash his dishes and chopsticks, and then took out the salt water to rinse his mouth.
This is the first time I have seen this particular beggar, and because of his specialness, I pay special attention to him.
It turns out that he was not childless, but was driven out by his son and wife.
Because he could no longer work, the wife and son quarreled every day and disliked the old man being an eyesore at home, so the old man came out.
For about a month, the old man disappeared and I was told that he had gone home.
Since the old man left, the family has lost one person to eat, but it has also lost a pair of eyes. One day, the son went out to work, and the wife fell asleep. The grandson accidentally put the food in the kitchen The fire broke out and most of the house was destroyed.
Everyone said that this is the retribution for not respecting the elderly.
It sounds a bit superstitious, but if you think about it from another perspective, if the old man is here, then the grandson will most likely not cause trouble.
The best sentence I have ever heard is:
In my life, what I am most proud of is that I have raised the four elderly farmers in my family as well as cadres with retirement wages. .
We might as well take a look. In all families with a good family background, the children are very filial, the elderly are not sloppy or dirty, and they can laugh every day.
This is not because one is filial because the family is wealthy, but because one is filial. A home that is too clean will not make you rich 3
The reason why people who don’t like cleanliness often don’t live a very wealthy life is too obvious
Some time ago, I had a date with a friend I hadn’t seen for a long time. Everyone chatted about gossip and life. Unexpectedly, while chatting, he started to complain about his parents: My parents don't like to clean the room. They always make it messy. They have been poor and dirty all their lives. In the past, I had been living in such an environment and had no sense of it. After more than 20 years, I have become accustomed to this kind of life.
The room was messy, and my life was also messy, without any structure or structure. No progress. Until a friend of mine came to my house and said to me, don’t you think your living environment affects your state of mind? I suddenly realized that my home was really dirty and messy. After listening to other people's suggestions, I gradually began to change, and now I am much better than before. But even my parents still refuse to listen
Sometimes when I go home to see them, I get really angry when I see such a messy environment, and they refuse to listen to me telling them to clean it up. It’s really I can't complain anymore. If you really don’t pay attention to your living environment, how can your life get better?
In fact, the messier the living environment, the poorer the life, this sentence is not unreasonable, and one should be added after this sentence, the more hopeless the children will be.
When we were young, we found that students with rich families were well-dressed every day, and their homes were bright and well-kept, while those students whose families were poorer had relatively messy homes. Some are even very messy.
We often see on TV that many poorer families have messy homes and a larger population. Although there is no inevitable connection between poverty and chaos, whether a family is wealthy or wealthy does have a certain impact on whether a home is tidy, and whether a family is tidy also has a certain impact on a family's fortune.
So, why do families with messy families tend to be poorer and their children less promising?
This is actually because the God of Wealth also prefers clean and bright homes. If the home is too messy, the God of Wealth will not be able to stand in the right place even if he wants to send money to your family. Of course, my home is very clean, but I am not honored to win the patronage of the God of Wealth, and I am still as poor as ever. Both of these are jokes, of course.
In fact, the reason is very simple. Just as the first impression you have when you meet a person is the person's mental outlook. Before you get to know the other person, the mental outlook directly determines your impression of the person. And for The same is true for families. The quality of a family's environment also represents the spiritual outlook of the family.
If a family is dirty every day, it means that they have no thoughts or too much energy on living a good life. Life must be very unhappy, and they have no time to live a good life. Organize your living environment. A person's mental outlook and mentality often affect his luck and strength, and the same is true for family. If you don't even have the experience of living a good life, how can you achieve anything big?
The messiness in the family reflects that the members of this family may live casually, muddle along, and be slovenly. They will only succumb to the current environment without thinking about how to change or how to make things better. Live your own life better. And what kind of talents can children raised by this family become? It’s not enough to take care of a house, let alone take care of a career.
People who have a pursuit of life will be richer
People who have a pursuit of life will be richer, both spiritually and financially. Because those who have pursuits will never tolerate their homes being so dirty, and they will never allow themselves to live in such an environment. And it is precisely because of their pursuit of life that they will work hard to change their lives, and eventually get rid of poverty and live the life they want.
And those who have no pursuit of life and are willing to live in such an environment have lost the motivation to move forward. They either stick to their current poverty or become poorer and poorer< /p>
A tidy family also means that the family is more organized. In this way, the children educated by the family will have more taste, be better at living, and generally not be too bad.
Don’t let life continue in a vicious cycle.
People must look forward, and life must also move forward. Doing many things well will lead to a vicious cycle, and life is like this. Only if you treat it well, will it treat you well.
Don’t let the vicious cycle of life continue. Be a positive and goal-oriented person, live a good life, and be yourself, just like my friend. Although his parents can’t change, he can. If you can change your own children, that's enough.
In fact, many things can become different if you are willing. I hope you will be that different person. It is the responsibility of each of us to love and protect our families.