Ten interesting things in life, time will not stay in a certain period of time because of any one of us, each of us will experience a waste of time and get old slowly, and many times change is a blink of an eye. Here are ten interesting things in life.
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The essence of love is to love yourself.
My brother will introduce his sister to an excellent man because he wants his sister to be happy.
But boyfriends generally don't introduce their girlfriends to a good man, because being boyfriends is for their own happiness.
This truth can be said to hit the nail on the head.
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The essence of love is selfish.
If you haven't seen through this, it means that you haven't really grown up.
If your boyfriend is willing to introduce you to another better man, it means that your boyfriend really loves you, but his "true love" for you is "true brother-sister love" rather than "true love between men and women".
The love between brother and sister is also love, but it is completely different from the love between men and women.
Dear readers, do you understand?
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Empathy is really important.
Many years ago, I met a lawyer in Shenzhen at a dinner party, and we added WeChat to each other, but we seldom contacted each other.
Once I asked him for something and found that he had deleted me.
At that time, I was a little unhappy and felt I didn't know where I had offended him.
Later, I had the opportunity to contact again, and my mouth was cheap. Speaking of this matter, he explained it to me like this:
It turns out that the WeChat circle of friends has a limit of 5,000 places. He is a lawyer and has many connections. I took his place on WeChat, but I don't contact him at ordinary times. His quota is full, and he must delete some customers he doesn't contact often, otherwise his customers will not be added.
After his explanation, I fully understood:
People's WeChat is a tool for eating. I take my place and don't give business. Of course not. It's right to delete me.
If I were him, I would also delete me.
Because it's not that he wants to delete me, but that he can only do so. He had no choice.
This example shows how important it is to put yourself in others' shoes when you are alive.
Similarly, many readers have added my personal WeChat through some channels.
Have you guessed what I want to say?
Yes, in the long run, I may delete you, because there is a limit of 5000 people in the circle of WeChat friends. Once the limit is reached, important people can't join. I have no choice but to delete some.
It is not that I am willing to delete readers, but that I am limited by the number of WeChat users. I have no choice but to do so.
So, if I delete you one day in the future, please don't get me wrong. It's not that I look down on you, nor that I have any dissatisfaction with you, but because WeChat has a maximum number of people. If I am full, I must delete people.
I have no choice.
Always put yourself in others' shoes.
Heart to heart.
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In this world, there are actually three things that determine your life.
They are:
intelligence
emotional quotient (EQ)
Moral quality
As an adult, intelligence is hard to change.
However, emotional intelligence and personality can be improved.
The secret of promotion is to mix with people with high emotional intelligence and good character.
Mix with them and get close to Zhu Zhechi, and your emotional intelligence and personality will also change.
A young man who has been a soldier for two years will change his emotional intelligence and personality. This is a good example.
A pair of twin brothers, one was adopted by the Northeast and the other was adopted by the Hong Kong people since childhood. The northeast grew up generous, and Hong Kong grew up stingy.
Most likely.
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It really matters what environment you live in and who you usually spend time with.
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With all due respect:
If the opposite sex has never pursued you, or rarely pursued you, or most of the opposite sex you usually pursue refuses you, then this shows that you are not attractive.
Never say "I am so good, why do TAs look down on me …".
TA people don't like you, which means you are not good.
You mistakenly think that you are excellent, but in fact you just misunderstand yourself and the world.
Similarly, if few people contact you at ordinary times, or colleagues around you don't like asking you to play together, then you are not likable.
Also, if you have never successfully chased the opposite sex and never made a single business on your own, then you don't have the characteristics of a successful person.
Moreover, if you don't have any special talent and don't like doing business, you can conclude that you have no chance to make a fortune in this life.
In addition, if you smoke and drink, you are fat and don't like sports, then your longevity is a small probability event.
Finally, if you always like to bargain when shopping, you can basically assert that you will never be rich in your life.
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If you don't mix well, don't tell the state affairs what to do.
You don't have that skill.
Really.
Don't bite off more than you can chew.
Managing a country well is much more difficult than managing yourself.
You can't even manage yourself well, and you expect to manage state affairs.
Think for yourself, isn't it ridiculous?
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The reason why stingy people have no ambition is this:
A stingy person is usually timid. Such people lack enough courage and determination at countless critical moments in life when major decisions need to be made.
Therefore, they will miss countless key nodes in their lives.
For example, between work and starting a business, a stingy person usually can't make up his mind to quit his job and start a business, so his life possibilities are limited.
Therefore, it is necessary to train children, not to train children into stingy people.
For example:
Educate children from an early age and take the initiative to share snacks with classmates. Children develop an atmospheric personality from childhood, and they will continue to reap the dividends brought by this excellent personality in the future life.
On the other hand, some parents have taught their children to hide snacks since childhood, fearing that their classmates will find him, which leads to their stingy character. Once a child is brought up as a stingy person, it can be asserted that he is destined to struggle at the bottom of society for life.
This is actually a typical case of picking up a small sesame and losing a big watermelon.
You must learn from it.
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The "bad law" I summed up is this:
One of the laws of the bad guys:
The bad guys in this world don't even know they are bad guys.
If he has the ability to know that he is a bad person, then he will not become a bad person.
The second law of bad people:
Bad guys are not all green-faced and fangs.
Many bad people in this world are fine-featured, well-dressed, well-spoken, polite and different, and they all look like good people.
Only at the critical moment when the stakes are high will you find that t a is a bad person.
For example, when he borrows money from you, you will feel that this person is really polite, treats people with first-class standards, and doesn't look like a bad person at all.
However, when you ask him to pay back the money, you will find the true face of his soul.
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The number one truth in love is:
If your lover has a better choice, TA will not choose you.
In the same way.
If your spouse has a better choice, TA will never marry you.
Forgive my poisonous tongue.
In the same way.
The so-called "infatuation" in love, in fact, in most cases, is only because I have not met a better person.
Or, just because there is no chance to get better.
If there is a chance to get better, the so-called infatuation is actually very fragile.
It can be said that it is like a layer of tissue paper, which will break when poked.
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Girls in this world have a common fault:
A girl with a beauty score of 60 will imagine herself as a boy with an 80 score, and then dream of a boy with a 90 score.
This unrealistic dream will not come true.
There are many leftover women in big cities, which is how it is produced.
Even if you give them 100 repetitions, it won't happen.
Why?
Because it is against the law.
Not just women.
In fact, many men who love to brag in this world also have this problem:
There are many men with a comprehensive score of 60 in the world who will imagine themselves as 80 and then go after girls with a score of 90.
Will he succeed?
He won't succeed.
Nature has an error correction mechanism.
Things that violate the law will not happen.
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People who like to send a lot of voices in the WeChat group generally have poor personal cultivation.
Without your consent, directly pulling you into the WeChat group, personal cultivation is generally not good.
Good-looking girls generally don't look for partners online.
Good-looking girls generally don't actively pursue the opposite sex.
Good-looking girls generally don't have a crush on a man.
Good-looking girls are scarce resources, so they are generally "very expensive".
But it's no use talking. You can't catch it anyway. You'd better go to your Internet cafe honestly.
However, a person's Internet activity is inversely proportional to his economic status.
In other words, most people who are particularly active on the Internet are poor.
For example, Feng Lao's body is one.
Ten interesting things in life 2 Ten things in life, depending on how much you pay attention to and how much you have achieved?
The first is about "fate". Everyone's life is different. It can be said that thousands of people have thousands of lives. Your birth, height, figure, gender, current situation in family of origin, etc. It's not for you to decide. This is a given, you must admit and accept it.
The second is about "luck". Since fate has been decided, then "luck" is artificial. Therefore, we often say that "fate is in our own hands". In fact, we should manage our fortune well. Deepening one's moral cultivation and forging good interpersonal relationships are all promoting one's "luck".
Third, about "Feng Shui". The so-called "feng shui" can be understood as one's own living and working environment. Of course, the environment has an impact on a person, but what we should do is to choose the environment and influence it ourselves, instead of letting the environment decide ourselves. As long as you dare to choose and change, you will definitely break through its limitations and let the environment help you.
Fourth, we should accumulate more virtues. How many virtues a person has, how many blessings he can carry. The so-called "virtuous" is the truth. Helping others more and benefiting others more is to accumulate virtues for yourself and future generations. The most valuable thing is to help others with a sincere and selfless heart, without asking for anything in return or showing it, so that the virtue of Yin will last forever and future generations will be blessed.
Fifth, we must read more books. No matter what kind of family you have, learning is something that each of us must pursue all our lives. Only when people have knowledge and skills can they have a foothold in the world. Only in this way can we broaden our horizons and constantly improve our own realm.
Sixth, we must have a good reputation. A person is not famous for his knowledge, talent, ability, face value, etc. More important than these is to have a good reputation. Only in this way can we be truly respected, loved and talked about. If a person's reputation and status don't match his virtue, he is doomed to be short-lived.
Seven, have a pure heart. It is often said that "each other is born from the heart." Kind and innocent, you will change your face and become amiable and approachable. When the mind deviates, the face becomes disgusting, and the popularity is naturally bad. So all practice is to cultivate the mind.
8. Be respectful to all good knowledge, sages, virtues and even all sentient beings. If you want to get attached, get lucky and keep Ford, you can't do without the word "respect". Treat all sentient beings as relatives, parents and teachers, and show them more respect, and you will find that your road will get smoother and smoother.
More than nine people will meet the distinguished guests. The so-called near-ink is black, and what kind of person you are with determines what kind of person you will become. Be careful when making friends, associate with people who are positive and knowledgeable, and associate with people who are better than themselves. Over time, you will become better and better, and you will have more opportunities.
Pay attention to your own health. Health here includes both physical and psychological aspects. Eating well, living a regular life, not rushing forward, plus a calm mind and moderate exercise can keep you healthy. Constantly improve your self-cultivation, virtue, self-discipline, and think more about others, you will be more and more happy and have a better attitude.
Ten interesting things in life and three things that people enjoy most.
worship
According to the survey of Appletiser, a famous soft drink brand, being praised will make more than 4 1% of women feel good, which also makes praise the most reliable source of happiness beyond chocolate and OOXX. Another study shows that praise can make college students happier than OOXX, money and drinking. So we put praise at the top of the list of sources of happiness.
nature
A recent study by Carsten Grimm of Canterbury University in New Zealand shows that the happiest thing for people is sex life, and the main purpose of the study is to convey information. A similar survey report last year had similar results.
Chocolate
Whether chocolate is more effective than OOXX in emotion regulation is a long-standing question. In a survey of 20 1 1, it was found that when chocolate and sex can only be chosen, women are more inclined to choose sex. However, another study found that 52% of women chose chocolate to "cure themselves" compared with sex life. The third survey found that 39% of single women could not have sex for another year and were unwilling to give up their favorite food. Whether it's chocolate or sex, we all think we're even.
drink
Many studies show that drinking can make people happy. In Grimm's previous research, I also found that drinking is the second biggest thing that makes you happy after OOXX. In another study, college students found that people who drink are usually happier than those who don't drink. People who don't drink tend to be more prone to depression.
friend
"Socialization" ranks seventh in Green's research, and people with wider social circles tend to be happier. Warning: Contacting friends and partners through Facebook will only make you more unhappy. On the surface, you look very happy and have a sense of loneliness of failure in the mainland. Similarly, in Green's research, Facebook is also one of the most unhappy things.
money
A study shows that money is the source of happiness after sex. Living once a week is happier than living once a month. This kind of happiness is just like earning 5W extra money easily every year. However, earning $ 7.5W or more a year will make you happier and more satisfied with your life (but the above extra money has no effect). A multimillionaire once said that wealth makes him have a better sex life, while sex makes him happy, so money can actually rank second.
sports
A study similar to Grimm found that exercise can make people happier, and of course, exercise in bed is happier.
Religious belief
Recent research shows that religious belief can make people happy in some underdeveloped areas where food and clothing are difficult to guarantee. However, in some developed countries, religious belief is not so pleasant.
go shopping
A survey on 20 1 1 found that shopping can make people happier and have less negative effects. But the more things you buy, the less money you have, and then your sex life is not so harmonious, so it will make you unhappy.
Look after the baby
Green found that taking care of children can make people happier, which is the fifth happiest thing he listed. However, some studies also show that having children can bring a lot of trouble. They think that children are just a little better than housework, work and so on. Having children means that you save less money, and then you have less sex, chocolate and so on.