First, contradict your mother-in-law.
In fact, when a daughter-in-law gets along with her mother-in-law, it is inevitable that there will be a little quarrel. When there is an argument, a smart woman knows that she will let her mother-in-law go, so the relationship with her mother-in-law will get better and better, but a stupid woman doesn't understand this.
Often as long as the mother-in-law says something about her, she will say something, say something about her, and she may say something, but even if you win the argument in the end, what can you do if you get the upper hand? Your relationship with your mother-in-law will only get worse. Even your husband will dislike you and think you are unreasonable and don't know how to respect your elders.
Second, complaining about her husband.
A smart woman will support her husband no matter what he does. Sometimes even if her husband fails, she will not criticize him excessively, but will only comfort and encourage him, so that the marriage will be happy, and her mother-in-law will naturally be very pleased to see her daughter-in-law so sensible.
But stupid women can never do this. They just keep complaining to their husbands. They always complain that their husbands can't do this well and that is useless. Every mother-in-law must be distressed by her children. Your mother-in-law will definitely feel bad when she hears that you always complain about your son like this, and she will definitely not give you a good face.
Third, beat and scold children in front of their mother-in-law.
In fact, in many families, it may be their grandparents who love their children the most. For the older generation, grandchildren are their favorite, and grandparents are basically in a state of doting on grandchildren. Even if the child makes a big mistake, the mother-in-law will not blame it. If a woman beats and scolds her children in front of her mother-in-law, then her mother-in-law will definitely feel particularly sad and resentful towards her wife.