First, the mentality of learning: learning is to replenish energy for yourself, first input and then output. Especially in the era of knowledge economy, the cycle of knowledge updating is getting shorter and shorter, and outdated knowledge is equal to waste. Only by continuous learning can we continuously absorb energy, adapt to the development of society and survive. Be good at thinking, analyzing and integrating. Only in this way can we innovate.
Second, return to zero mentality: start again. It is relatively easy to succeed the first time, but not the second time, because there is no return to zero. In an interview with The Son of the East, the president of Changan Group said that an enterprise often fails because of its success. The law of development of things is wave-like progress, spiral rise and periodic change. In China's old saying, it is called "feng shui turns", and in economics it is called asset reorganization. There's a saying in TV series: Life is all over again. If we don't return to zero, we can't enter the new distribution of wealth, and there will be no sustainable development.
Third, a positive attitude: things will always coexist with yin and yang. A positive attitude will always see the good side of things, while a negative attitude will only see the bad side. A positive attitude can make a bad thing better, and a negative attitude can make a good thing worse. Today's era is a contest of understanding! A positive attitude is like the sun, where it shines, and a negative attitude is like the moon. Not because there is no sunshine, but because you always keep your head down.
Fourth, the mentality of giving: giving up is giving, and the mentality of giving is the boss's mentality. It is the mentality of doing things for yourself, and we must know the relationship between willingness and willingness. Giving up is what you get. The small house is too small and the big house is too big. The mentality of work is the mentality of coping. People who don't want to pay always save money, labor and trouble, and finally save success.
5. Persistence: More than 90% people can't succeed. Why? Because more than 90% of people can't hold on. Persistence is reflected in ups and downs, not in prosperity. When you encounter a bottleneck, you must stick to it until you break through the bottleneck and reach a new peak. Stick to the end and don't lose to yourself.
Sixth, the mentality of cooperation: cooperation is a realm. Cooperation can conquer the world. The resultant force is not just the sum of additions. 1+1= 1 1 plus1is11. This is the resultant force. But when the first 1 falls, it becomes-1 1, and when the middle 1 falls, it becomes 1- 1. Success is organizing positive people to do things together.
7. Modesty: Remove shortcomings and absorb advantages. Modesty makes people progress, while pride makes people lag behind. There is a saying that modesty is the greatest achievement of mankind. Modesty makes you respected. The fuller the ears of wheat are, the more curved they are.
8. Grateful mentality: Grateful for everything around us, including ups and downs, difficulties and our enemies. Things do not exist in isolation. Without everything around you, you don't exist. First of all, we thank our parents, who brought us into this world. Secondly, we thank our teachers for giving us such a good education, and we also thank our partners. It is everyone's efforts that have made our success.
Other life attitudes that college students should master:
1. Have an independent personality and independent thoughts. A person who insists on a wrong view after independent thinking is more worthy of recognition than a person who accepts a correct view without thinking. Don't be a victim of indoctrination.
2. Occupation, business and academic. Generally speaking, everyone is destined to take one of three paths. When making career planning, we might as well take this as the starting point of thinking. According to different career plans to shape their respective core competitiveness. Only when you know what you want to do in the future can you know what you should learn.
There is no hot or cold major, and there is no high or low school. No employer will think that you represent your school or your major. Don't be complacent because you are a famous university or a popular major, and don't feel inferior because the school is not good or the major is unpopular.
4. It's better to be familiar with a thousand tricks than a thousand tricks. Ten percent is not 100%, but zero. If you can do 10% of ten jobs, then in the eyes of the employer, you can do nothing. Therefore, you must make yourself have core competitiveness. "All-rounder" is meaningful only on the basis of "specialization".
Students who don't skip class are not good students. There is no difference between skipping classes and not skipping classes. Be sure to take the initiative in learning, and don't be led by the teacher like middle school. There is nothing wrong with skipping classes, but don't skip classes. At the same time, we should not only skip classes, but also ask teachers to give high marks.
6. Be sure to learn how to manage money. For poor students, the first thing to do is not to make money, but to save money. Many college students spend a lot of money when they study, but one month's salary after graduation is not enough to pay half a month's rent.
7. Most girls regard computers as DVD players, and most boys regard computers as game machines. College students should master the necessary computer operation skills, but many times computers will become a blatant excuse to waste time. Many college students have computers, but when they graduate from universities, they may not be able to excel and be a decent PPT.
8. Doing things is not as good as being a man, and connections determine success or failure. How much money a person has is not his ownership, but his right to use it. How capable a person is, not only what he can do when he is alone, but also what he can do through others. 12.5% of the money a person earns depends on his own knowledge, and 87.5% comes from contacts. Make money by profession before the age of 30, and make money by contacts after the age of 30. Therefore, please cherish the personal relationship established during college. The friends you have known in recent years may be your most precious wealth after graduation.
9. Use the Internet rationally. Although the power of the network is infinite, if you indulge in online chatting or online games, the wasted money can be made up, and the wasted youth cannot be pursued. It's hard to dance lightly, but rascal Cai keeps in close contact with other girls again and again. For many college students, Internet cafes are a bloody black hole.
10. About love. Love is unexpected, you can expect it, but you can't make it. The flower must be folded before it can be folded. Don't let it fall off. A man with 10 thousand yuan spent 100 yuan for you, and you only accounted for his1%; And a man with only ten dollars spent ten dollars for you, and you became his life.
1 1. Carefully take the postgraduate entrance examination. The enrollment expansion rate of graduate students is 30%, which means that the depreciation rate of master students is 30%. Don't think that postgraduate entrance examination is a positive performance. For many people, the postgraduate entrance examination is just a passive way to escape. For the vast majority of people, it is a waste of time and money to go to graduate school, except those who are determined to engage in scientific research and academics and a few people.
12. Look at going abroad correctly. Don't concentrate on going abroad, and don't be superstitious that the moon in foreign countries is rounder than that in China. It is probably a very stupid and sad thing to sharpen your head and recite GRE vocabulary. Since companies all over the world want to carve up the market cake in China, why do China people want to study abroad and then work for foreigners?
13. The talent market is a minefield. There is nothing wrong with finding a job in many aspects, but don't go hungry. As long as the employer asks you to pay, turn around and leave.
14. Your resume must highlight your core competitiveness. When applying for a job, you don't have to "just say one thing" like Yan Shouyi. It is useful to tell some lies when necessary. It's enough for a job resume to make a form with a piece of A4 paper. Many girls' job resumes are like photo albums, which are not only a waste of money, but also useless for job hunting. Interviews are actually regular. You just need to recite the standard answers in every interview. ...
15. Garbage is a misplaced talent. So when looking for a job, you must put yourself in a position that makes you a talent instead of garbage. Of course, the premise is that you need to know what you really want to do and what you are suitable for. The greatest tragedy in the world is that too many young people never find out what they really want to do. Riding a donkey to find a horse is right, but you can't just find a donkey to find a swift horse. Therefore, we must attach importance to the first job.
16. Big companies are people, but small companies are things. After entering the company, you must integrate into office politics as soon as possible. Whether employees can be promoted depends largely on whether they work hard or not, but on how much the boss appreciates you. In the political struggle of office buildings, we must learn to protect ourselves.
17. A thin camel is bigger than a horse. Support the brave and starve the timid. You should have the courage and courage to start a business. If you are content to work for others, then no matter how high your salary is, you will always be a poor man. Even if the monthly salary is 20 thousand, in a place like Shenzhen and Shanghai, one year's savings can't buy a small bathroom.
18. Be sure to go to the library and study room more during college. If you don't read a lot now, you'll never have a chance to read again in your life. Although not every book you read is necessarily useful, because you don't know which book will be useful in the future, so you should read more books and get rid of those overly utilitarian ideas. Although every time you catch a fish, it is just a net, but if you want to catch a fish, you must weave a net.