When I was 5 years old, I had to go back to my hometown because of the war. Confucius was then
At the age of 35, it is time to accumulate knowledge. Knowing that Laozi is a learned man, I went to visit him. Two men came to a stream. Laozi said to Confucius: You should learn the virtue of water. Confucius said, "What is the virtue of water?" Laozi went on to say: "goodness is like water, and water is the goodness of all things."
From this story, we can draw a conclusion that if kindness is like water, women should have such virtues. one
If a woman wants to hold up half the sky at home and be a strong woman, she will lose the virtue of water, and competing with men for the world is tantamount to water blocking her life. Such a fate is not easy to get along with even if it is not divorced.
? After Lao Tzu said that "goodness is like water", he added that "modesty is also a virtue to deal with the evil of all people; Therefore, Jiang Hai can be the king of all the valleys, and if he is good at it, he can also be the king of all the valleys. The water in the world is not weak, and the strong can't win, which is also gentleness; Therefore, softness wins, and weakness wins. Because it has nothing, it can enter without a trace, and it can be seen that the teaching without words is also the benefit of inaction. " From this, we can understand some truth. A woman should know how to be modest. Modesty is worth a thousand words. When a man loses his temper, a woman should show the characteristics of water and be soft. In this way, men will lose their temper and women will always be the head of the family. As mentioned above, with its goodness, it can be the king of hundreds of valleys. But when you quarrel, you lose your temper. It's like water without a road. Thousands of people go underground. Men do not obey women. Obedience is one hundred times plus one hundred times and two hundred times of obedience. Men's obedience to women can be quantified, so it is impossible to obey forever.
? It is indisputable that everything is moist. Look at the friends around you. If a woman has the characteristics of water, then her life will generally be better. Of course, an example is not excluded. But judging from the overall result, fate is very good. And how many women who lack water have a happy life? An overbearing woman and a strong woman, do you think her family will be happy?
? A good woman should know how to praise a man, praise him and let him know that he is a hero at home. In this case, a man will think about how to protect his weak wife all his life. On the contrary, women often find fault with men, and men's hearts are getting colder and colder, and they feel less confident and feel like idiots and losers. In this case, this family can't last long.
As far as life experience and experience are concerned, some digressions between men and women: for men, women are water, water is wealth, and your wife is your family wealth. If your family wealth is uneasy, foreign wealth will not dare to enter the house.
Both men and women should remember that evil comes first, and houses with good accumulation will have great happiness, while houses with poor accumulation will have more seedlings.
According to the gossip, men should have the ability to do things, for heaven and for heaven. Therefore, a person can do as many great things as he has the ability and how much money he can have. Both men and women should be kind-hearted, charitable and compassionate. People who ask for the god of wealth every day may not be rich in the future. But people who often give alms will become rich in the future. Do you know why? Because "a person who often gives alms is already a god of wealth in the eyes of others." If the god of wealth has no money, who can have money? "
Whether it is Buddha or Tao, they all follow the heaven. Without virtue, there will be no disaster, no loss of morality and a happy life. Everything follows the principle of "balance of yin and yang". The reincarnation of Buddha and the nature of Tao are both "balanced" truths. There is no clear boundary between loss and failure, excess and failure, gain and failure, death and immortality, etc. We can't measure "balance" with one thing and one time period. You may have spent a long time and done a lot of work for something, but failed at the last minute. Then, according to the Buddha, this is the reward of some kind of bad karma, because the debts you owe will always be paid. Of course, it is also possible that when your career reached the lowest point and almost went bankrupt, suddenly a big project made you turn over and leap over the dragon gate. This is because a good karma is back. So everything in the world is related, which means everything is inextricably linked.
In short, people are good at doing good things. After all, people should do more good deeds.