As the saying goes in the countryside, why can't a daughter go to the grave?

There is a saying in the countryside that "the daughter goes to the grave and her family is outside the door", and there is another saying that "the daughter goes to the grave and her family is empty". What do these two sentences mean? These two sentences mean that there is such a custom in rural areas: daughters at home are not allowed to go to graves, which is unlucky. Do you know why there is such a saying?

What do you mean, my daughter died in the grave?

The full text of the daughter's grave means that if the daughter at home goes to the grave, it means that there is no one else at home. If the married daughter goes back to visit her grave, it will bring disaster to her family, and it will also have a bad influence on her fortune. Traditionally, a married daughter can't go to the grave, which will affect the geomantic omen of her family cemetery, and it will also mean that there is no heir in her family. Moreover, in the concept of the older generation, women's yin is very heavy, so if the married daughter goes to the grave, it will have a great impact on the family.

Matters needing attention in ancestor worship

Generally speaking, don't wear bright red and green clothes on the day of going to the grave. Wear dark and black clothes and be sure to dress neatly to show respect for your ancestors. Secondly, when paying homage to the grave, we must pay attention to the order of generations, with the high in front and the low in the back. Pay attention when you go to the grave. It is best for relatives at home to go, and outsiders should not participate in grave-sweeping and worship, which may easily cause unnecessary trouble. Last but not least, you'd better pay attention to solemnity in class and don't take pictures in the cemetery. This is very impolite and disrespectful.

The significance of going to the grave during the New Year.

As far as traditional culture is concerned, going to the grave is an important expression of China's emotional closeness. People comfort the dead, inspire the living, and seek their own family and spiritual belonging. It is an important means to stimulate people's sense of family and responsibility. At the same time, it is also an ethical responsibility to be filial to parents, loyal to ancestors, and dedicated to the family.