Children's rebellious character may be related to these feng shui, and parents who don't know feng shui may not know it very well. Children's rebellious character, in addition to their own and parents' reasons, children's rebellious character may be related to these feng shui. After reading this article, come with me to get to know it.
The rebellious character of children may be related to these feng shui. 1 children's rebellious character may be related to these feng shui layouts, which will promote children's rebellious character.
First, toys are thrown about.
Nowadays, most older children have many toys, and some parents who love their children also buy many toys for their children. When children don't play with toys, parents should cultivate their children's habit of putting away toys, and at the same time adjust the gas field around their babies. Otherwise, children will always throw dolls around, which will lead to children's increasingly rebellious character.
Second, the high and low beds
Now many parents have two or more babies, so if there is not enough room at home, they will use bunk beds. What needs to be explained here is that the beds with stairs on the upper and lower floors will also contribute to the baby's rebellious factors invisibly, and will also cause contradictions between children.
Third, hang too many pictures of children.
Most parents love their children very much, so some parents like to hang pictures of their children at home. If there are too many pictures of children hanging at home, it is easy to destroy the child's character. Therefore, parents are advised to put their children's photos on a fixed table or collect them in an album. Hanging too many photos on the wall is easy to destroy the child's mentality.
Fourth, the child's bed is too big.
The child's bed is too big, which is often a major reason for the baby's rebellious personality. Now many parents will let their children sleep in their own big beds. Therefore, it is suggested that under the premise of mature conditions, it is necessary to cultivate children's habit of sleeping by themselves and buy a bed with the right size for the baby, which will help shape the baby's good character.
The rebellious character of children may be related to these feng shui.
1, grottoes.
There happens to be a house that has not been built for a long time, or that has been abandoned. This kind of house often attracts bad teenagers to do bad things. If there happens to be such a place near your home, your children are likely to go there to play.
2, double mouth.
A house has two exits, which means that children will run out by themselves, and you can't control it. Parents can only see one exit. One of the exits can be closed and used only in an emergency.
3, the courtyard stone is like a corpse.
People in China have many rules for putting stones in the yard. For example, northerners must stand, while southerners can lie down, but they must pile stones. If there is a stone lying sideways in your yard and the window is open, it seems that you are lying there alone, as if your child has done something bad outside, got hurt in a fight, or died lying there, we call it lying dead, so don't put the stone in the yard casually.
4, the road at home is difficult.
The road to your home is difficult to walk, which is divided into indoor and outdoor. The interior is the floor of your house. It will be uneven and the floor has not been repaired. Outdoor, that is, the doorway may be directly steps or courtyard roads, which are also uneven or too steep, even slippery and easy to fall. Both of them are called crooked roads, which shows that your children are becoming more and more unruly.
Second, feng shui that causes children to have nightmares
Most parents have an experience, that is, children suddenly cry in the middle of the night, or suddenly wake up with tears. Children's restless sleep is the biggest headache for parents. In some allusions in China, it is easy for children under five to see things that adults can't. Ian stevenson, a western reincarnation theorist, also put forward the view that children before the age of 3 have memories of past lives. From the perspective of environmental geomantic omen, there are the following situations that cause children to have nightmares.
1. There are big trees outside the window.
The distance between trees that affect indoor children's sleep outside the window mentioned here is within one and a half window heights. If the branches and leaves float over the window, it means that the sun is not easy to come in and the yin is accumulated. As we all know, the shade of trees is the place where Yin Qi gathers. Psychologically, children are also more likely to have bad associations because they see branches swaying, especially on rainy nights.
Solution: Cut off the branches that exceed the height of the window sill.
The head of the bed faces the door.
This kind of bed, which is common in cribs and children's beds, is put in the bedroom by parents at will. This kind of placement will actually make children focus on the troubles outside the door, combined with some stupid family education models: "If you cry again, the tiger will eat you", "There are beggars at the door to take you away", "There are many bad people outside" and "the worms that eat people are at the door" ... Children are prone to frequent nightmares and are extremely frightened.
Solution: sleep in another direction or change the bed.
3. Light.
There are several situations here. One is that parents are too tired to take care of their children and always forget to turn off the lights and sleep. The other is that neon lights or street lights outside the window enter the room. This makes children with shallow sleep very uneasy, because their visual nerves are in a passive and active process, and they often have nightmares.
Solution: The light outside the window is made of thick curtains. Parents must remember to turn off the lights before going to bed.
4. sound.
Some people actively or passively put fish tanks with running water devices in their bedrooms. Some people use the so-called ultrasonic mosquito repellent to drive away mosquitoes around their children in summer. Others have a road outside the window, and the door is facing the elevator. There are wind chimes hanging on the windowsill and bedside (in the mysterious flying star geomantic omen, I especially like hanging wind chimes to dissolve Huang Wu, Erhei and other malefic stars, but I didn't notice that it would affect children on the other hand. These noises that can be heard during sleep belong to the category of sound, which is easy to cause insomnia and nightmares.
Solution: Cancel the running water device in the fish tank, use sound insulation glass for windows, give up using ultrasonic mosquito repellent when sleeping, and put the wind chimes in the bedroom.
5. The indoor yin is too heavy.
Some people's rooms are rarely cleaned in one year. All kinds of sundries, over time, it is inevitable to shelter evil people from evil practices. The humidity is too high to dry the quilt often. There are attribute handicrafts and old things such as snake winding in the room, and the ventilation is not good ... This situation is most likely to cause children to have ghost dreams and nightmares because of excessive yin. Parents watching horror movies in the bedroom before going to bed also have the same effect of increasing the bad luck in the bedroom.
Solution: Bedding must be fresh and clean, the room must be clean and tidy, and the air must be unobstructed. If the child often wakes up in the middle of the night, you can ask him what dreams he had. If he is a ghost or an ancestor who has seen the world, it is suggested that the unjust relatives and creditors be sent to a regular temple.
6. There are things of deceased ancestors in the bedroom.
In order to express their love for their loved ones, some parents often move a group photo or some household or other items often used by the elderly to their rooms. Sorry, children don't feel how important family ties are at this time. They are more concerned that this person is a dead person, a person who has unreasonable communication in real life. Some of my clients make these mistakes. Putting a portrait of a deceased ancestor in a room or living room can cause a lot of fear.
Solution: It is best to put it away and put it out of sight.
7. This sword hangs on the wall of the bedroom.
Maybe it's a hobby of collecting, maybe it's something you carry with you when you exercise. I hung swords in Nanning and Wuhan. Nanning's hanging at home, Wuhan's hanging in the office, of course, Nanning's things will be big, this year the child jumped off the building for no reason to commit suicide. This is also a place that some parents don't pay attention to.
Solution: put the sword away or give it away or throw it away.
Third, feng shui is not conducive to children's reading.
Under normal circumstances, many parents are willing to spend a lot of money to choose schools and teachers for their children, but most parents ignore the most important point, that is, choose a room for their children and choose a location that is conducive to their growth to place their desks! If the child's grades don't go up, and the child doesn't listen, will he really not study hard? Have you considered it from the perspective of orientation (environmental feng shui)?
From the principle of "overall layout", in general, the children's room in the west is not conducive to children's study, while the houses in the north, southeast corner and east are more favorable.
The best way is to find out the location of Wenchang, the core monument of children's life, and then determine the location of the room and desk. What needs special attention is that if Wenchang, the core monument of a child's life, happens to fall in a bad position in the house, it is the biggest disadvantage for the child, such as falling in the bathroom, kitchen, drainage ditch, garage, etc., and it is easy to get sick and go astray.