Your life depends on your character.

Philosopher Bacon said: Fate is often caused by man himself, and everyone is his own designer.

In this life, what people do and get is usually their own credit.

Do good deeds, win people's hearts, get blessings, adhere to good thoughts, and live a down-to-earth life.

Be a kind-hearted person, be upright, sit upright, be worthy of heaven and yourself.

All good luck is the good you accumulated bit by bit, and all disasters are the evil you planted.

At the end of life, what we strive for is character.

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People are kind, and God doesn't bully people.

As the ancients said, a small victory depends on wisdom, and a great victory depends on virtue.

Cleverness can make people win a small profit for a while, but to be safe all their lives depends not on extraordinary cleverness, but on virtue.

People are not as good as the sky, and intelligence is not as good as kindness.

Not long ago, a 96-year-old stall owner became popular on the Internet, and her outlook on life touched many people.

In Zhengzhou, Henan Province, at eleven o'clock in the middle of the night, 96-year-old Grandma Zhang will set up a stall on the street to sell pancakes and start working.

One cake after another was put into the pot, fried and handed to everyone who came home late, until 5 am.

The cake she made was full of stuffing and the vegetables she used were fresh. Because it is delicious and affordable, her cake is widely praised.

Someone asked her, "Why do you sell more cakes than others? Aren't you afraid of losing money? "

The old man replied, "People who have made contributions will not have enough to eat even if they are given a bun." . How much can these foods be worth? No one is precious forever. "

Someone asked her, "It's not easy to set up a stall so late."

The old man replied: "as long as the money comes properly, there is nothing difficult;" It is not the right way, and it is not easy. "

In order to give part of the business to the peers next to them, the elderly will suspend their stalls from time to time.

She feels that there is no burden at home, and her children have to go to school at home, so she should leave a gap for her children to eat.

Over the past 30 years, the old man's booth has given countless people intimate comfort, and her kindness has also reassured many people.

Some netizens sighed with emotion: "The 96-year-old body is still so strong, which is probably the best blessing for the elderly with three good characters."

A kind-hearted person is sincere, transparent and comfortable at all times.

Kind people are tolerant, never care, have kindness in their eyes, and everything is reassuring.

As the saying goes, a loss is a blessing.

It makes sense to see an explanation:

"In life, there is a kind of person who never suffers a loss and is smart to a certain extent, but what does he take advantage of? When something good happens, no one will miss him, and everyone is afraid that he will take advantage of himself. Such people will eventually get nothing.

On the other hand, an honest man will be considered honest and willing to cooperate with him because he believes that he will not hurt himself.

Many times, don't look at the result of one thing, but look at the final outcome of a person. "

The land is not thick and can't afford mountains and rivers; If people's hearts are not thick, they can't get moral friendship.

Kindness, walking on the right path, winning people's hearts, will definitely go further.

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Without virtue, there will be disaster.

Zhihu netizen @ 中中中中 talked about an event:

A few years ago, her village was to be rebuilt, and a village party secretary was greedy for more than one million yuan through transformation.

Not long after, the village party secretary suddenly fell ill and was admitted to the hospital.

Originally, it was a minor operation, but after the operation, the wound just couldn't heal, and it festered and infected repeatedly. Although I was hospitalized for more than a year, I finally died of illness.

Coincidentally, he spent more than one million yuan on treatment this year, which happened to be the money embezzled in that year.

When I was a child, I often heard the old man say: just do it, God has his own arrangements, and good people are rewarded.

Sometimes I think about it, in fact, this sentence also confirms another meaning: everything you do will eventually come back to you.

As Julius Caesar said:

"Before God punishes a person, he will be proud for a while and live a quiet life. In this way, when he is retribution, there will be pain in his flesh. "

Everything in the world seems to explain a truth: in this life, people have cause and effect, and those without virtue will be in trouble.

Some time ago, "Aauto Quicker" Simba knelt down and announced his comeback, claiming to "take all users home", but the evaluation was obviously not as good as before.

At the end of last year, Simba was reported for selling fake bird's nest. At first, he refused to admit it, and even exposed the mobile phone number of the reporter Ms. Zhang in the live broadcast room, suggesting that fans are violent on the Internet, and Ms. Zhang is the human flesh.

For a long time after that, Ms. Zhang lived in the endless intimidation and abuse of Simba fans, so she lost her job.

But after all, it can't be fake, and fake can't be true. It wasn't long before Simba was banned for 60 days because of the "fake bird's nest" incident.

Obviously, after this high-profile comeback, Simba's live broadcast sales have been much worse than before, showing a cliff-like decline, and was boycotted by the whole network due to events such as "road closure".

There is an old saying in China: people are kind, although the blessing has not arrived, the disaster is far away; Man-made disaster, although the disaster has not arrived, the blessing is far away.

Everything happens for a reason, but many people don't really understand that sentence until there is water under the bridge: if you commit a crime, you can't live.

If a person only has interests and no virtue, no matter how clever he is, he will be harmed by his own cleverness and eventually dragged into the abyss.

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Your life depends on your character.

There is a folk song in the west:

This is the result of the famous "butterfly effect". A person's personality, like a nail at the beginning, determines the fate of your life.

Good character is the best feng shui, which can bring you good luck and set you on the right path.

Even if you have tasted hardships and experienced ups and downs, life will always meet sunny days, because there is a precious kindness in your heart.

If you lose your character, you will break the rules. Even if you can be proud for a while, you won't be proud for a lifetime.

As the writer Li Siyuan wrote:

"Many times, a person can get some illegitimate interests through cunning, treachery and dishonesty, and even seem to have a good life.

But if you want to go far, stand firm and laugh to the end, without the support of character, it is a castle in the air, and sooner or later someone will collapse it. "

Can't help but think of a story:

It is said that after Emperor Xianfeng ascended the throne, he ordered his ministers to recommend talented people.

Jin Anqing is quite talented and proficient in financial management. He wanted to make money by being an official, and he wanted to be promoted by Zeng Guofan's recommendation, so he asked for Zeng Guofan seven times.

But in Zeng Guofan's eyes, this person had ulterior motives and could not be trusted, so he repeatedly refused and finally recommended Jiang Zhongyuan.

Jiang Zhongyuan is honest and affectionate. He escorted his friend's coffin back to his hometown twice during the exam. Despite the long journey, he didn't complain.

It can be seen that if you want to succeed, you must first learn to be a man. People with excellent moral character are often more reliable than those with extraordinary ability.

What is the highest state of life?

Wang Xiaobo has a saying that is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people:

"Life is alive, you will encounter some good things and some bad things.

I can tolerate good things, and I can tolerate bad things. It's good to be an ordinary person like this. "

Life is a kind of practice. As long as you are yourself, ordinary people can live their own wonderful lives.

Give me a compliment. May you cultivate a good character, choose a good road and have a good feng shui.