For couples who are newly married for the first year, from the perspective of home feng shui, the author puts forward the following suggestions on how to unite feelings, reduce friction and resolve the hostility in marriage:
First, choose auspicious green plants, and the husband and wife will plant them together.
Plants are commonly used in geomantic omen, and they are one of the economical multifunctional geomantic omen tools. It is best to choose seedlings to start cultivation, grow up with the joint efforts of two people, and increase feelings. Suitable plants are:
Lily: Centennial companionship is a symbol of love for newlyweds. Rose: Although the flowers are beautiful, they need to be looked after. Although there are thorns, this is a metaphor, and feelings will hurt people if they are not careful. Orchids, millennials and ivy all have the meaning of everlasting love.
Second, try to use indirect light sources for bedroom lighting.
The bedroom is a place to rest and needs a quiet environment. It is inevitable that the sleep time of both sides is different. This is a trivial matter, but if a person's rest is always disturbed, it will inevitably lead to dissatisfaction and emotional cracks. Try to use indirect light sources in the bedroom, which will reduce the occurrence of such contradictions compared with direct lighting sources.
Third, resolve the hostility that affects marriage.
The so-called "man show" in marriage refers to "wandering" that is unfavorable to married life. The differences in personality and background between husband and wife are "congenital" before marriage and "suffocating" after marriage. How to solve them? We can start from two aspects.
1. Clean up "old things"
Most people don't marry their first lover, but in the interaction with former lovers, it is inevitable to leave some nostalgic items. But these "old things" are branded with old feelings, which inevitably conflicts with the current marriage feelings. Therefore, such items should be disposed of as soon as possible to avoid future troubles.
2. Create a "warm" harbor.
Marriage will be influenced by the atmosphere and environment of the living room. When getting married, many people like to decorate the bedroom with pink to enhance the festive color. As we all know, pink is suspected of attracting peach blossoms. If you live here for a long time, it will inevitably lead to the proliferation of peach blossoms and bury the hidden danger of third-party invasion, so it is best to lower the pink tone at home.
3. Don't put zodiac ornaments that conflict with couples at home.
From the perspective of the zodiac, it is best not to put ornaments that conflict with the numerology of the two zodiac signs at home, and try to avoid contact with the conflicting zodiac signs.
The corresponding relationship of the zodiac is: the mouse and the horse collide; Cattle and sheep collide; Tigers collide with each other; Ji chong; Dogs run wild; Snakes will attack each other. The relationship between the punishments of the zodiac is: snake and tiger punishment, pika punishment, cow, dog and sheep punishment, and pig pheasant self-punishment. It's best not to invite people with filial piety to their homes.
In the old society, it was called filial piety within 100 days after parents died. Here, people who are eager for filial piety generally refer to people whose immediate family members died shortly. They will be sad and unlucky, so it is best not to invite them home, so as not to affect the sweetness and happiness of the wedding.