There is a saying: The wind and water turn. And he said, revenge is not not not reported, but the time has not come.
Although husband and wife were blessed in a previous life, some men, relying on their strength when they were young, took it out on their wives when they were a little unhappy.
The women of the previous generation are very loyal to marriage, and will not divorce just because of the marital disharmony. They think divorce is a disgraceful thing, even if the fault lies with the man, women still don't have the courage to divorce.
A woman who is unhappy in her marriage, like an oil lamp, cooks day by day and year by year, until the child is old and the man is old and sick, and his attitude will soften when he wants something from his wife.
however, Rome wasn't built in a day, the leaves didn't turn yellow, and people didn't get cold in a day. A wife who was heartbroken by her husband when she was young has little affection for her husband when she is old.
So, are those men who treated their wives badly when they were young doing well in their old age? Let's listen to this 6-year-old aunt.
This old lady is a neighbor of my hometown, and now she lives with her son and daughter-in-law. When she was young, her husband was very bad to her and had a bad temper. He took it out on his aunt when he was a little unhappy, and he would beat her and pull her hair.
When I was young, my aunt was often black and blue. And the aunt is married far away, and her family is far away and can't care so much. Aunt's husband seized this handle and started to do it with her.
once, my aunt couldn't bear it any longer, and went to the village cadres to complain. The village cadres taught her husband a lesson and asked her to write a letter of guarantee, and she was not allowed to bully her again. That's a good point, but after a while, my aunt's husband became ill again. Instead of getting better, he made it worse, and he also held a grudge against my aunt's complaint.
My aunt is in great pain. Faced with such a marriage, she wants to die. But I can't bear to part with my children. If I die, what will the children do and give them to such a father who is as mad as a madman?
Children have feelings, and they will gradually become sensible. They often witness their fathers' domestic violence against their mothers and hate their fathers very much. Aunt's son also angered his father and said, "If you dare to hit my mother again, I won't call you dad!" "
Seeing that his son was partial to his mother, the aunt's husband beat him even harder, and said that the aunt had taught his son badly.
aunt's life is sad. She even thought about taking her children out to beg in the street, and she didn't want to stay at home.
Later, when the children were all grown up and the daughter married, the son-in-law was a sensible man. Seeing her mother-in-law being treated like this by her father-in-law, she couldn't stand it, so she often advised her. However, after all, far water can't put out a near fire, and it can be managed for a while, but not for a lifetime.
A few years later, my aunt's son also married and had children. My aunt's husband is still grumpy, and he will always argue with my aunt and often ask her for money. The money is given to her by her son and is also given to her as the hard work of raising children.
Aunt can't bear to spend money, so she is scoured by her husband to play mahjong, buy drinks and make trouble when she is drunk. The daughter-in-law also has a lot of complaints about this father-in-law.
What's more, my aunt's husband is still disrespectful and indecent, and has fallen in love with the woman who plays mahjong with him. The woman's husbands came to the door to argue and threatened to kill him, making a lot of noise and making the house restless.
My son hates this father very much and wants to kick him out. As long as he is around, there will be no good life at home.
once it rained heavily, my aunt advised her husband not to go out to play mahjong, so she couldn't stay at home for a while? The husband not only didn't listen to the advice, but also scolded the aunt: "What do you know as a wife? You don't have to take care of my affairs. Give me 2 yuan quickly, and I have no money."
Aunt had no choice but to give him money. Before walking a few steps, I slipped and fell on the road and was taken to the hospital.
people are old, with brittle bones and broken legs. When the doctor asked if I wanted to set a bone, my aunt said that I couldn't be the master and I had no money. I had to ask my son.
Aunt's son has no feelings for his father since he was a child. If he does, it is also hatred, anger and complaint. The son also said, "We have no money either. I have two children to support and debts to pay. Let's take them home."
a man who lies in bed every day and relies on someone to bring tea and water is actually very undignified. If you want to eat, you should call your aunt to send it three times and four times. I need to drink water, and it will take several times to deliver it. No one talks to him to relieve boredom, so I can only lie in bed and look at the ceiling every day, and I can't go anywhere.
My aunt has to take care of her grandchildren, and she doesn't have time to accompany her husband. Aunt basically has nothing to take care of except food every day.
It is said that a husband and wife can be grateful for one day, and no amount of mutual affection between husband and wife has been "beaten" by men for so many years. When you are young, you are not good to your wife. Can you expect your wife to be good to her husband when you are old? I'm afraid it's difficult. You are heartless to me, and I am heartless to you.
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