Guan Yu and Huang Zhong

I didn't understand the romance of the Three Kingdoms when I was a child. Why does Guan Yu dislike Huang Zhong so much? What are you talking about? I swear not to associate with veterans. How ridiculous do you think this is? Although you fought with each other when you attacked Changsha, didn't you all make up in the end? All came to the same camp. And in the process of fighting, they love each other and admire each other's martial arts. When the other side is in trouble, both sides give each other a chance. Didn't take advantage of people's danger We should let bygones be bygones. But why is this Guan Yu still upset? Anything else? I think he is too stingy.

Now I understand. This has a cultural origin. It's not because they have any personal problems, nor does Guan Yu think Huang Zhong is incompetent. But because of the traditional culture of our country. Although you are not my enemy and have never offended me, your position is lower than mine. So, one day, when you are in my position, I can't stand it.

Guan Yu's smelly virtue is not a case, it is very common among China people. This kind of blood also flows in the blood of ordinary people. If you pay a little attention to your surroundings, these things are everywhere

I used to chat with my colleagues. One of them, his college classmate, is now a very famous entrepreneur. Because he has a very good relationship with his classmates and knows each other well, his classmates have invited him to their company many times, and his salary is definitely much higher than that of his current unit. But this colleague is determined not to go. However, I didn't say Guan Yu's sentence: If I swear not to associate with others, I will use his usual sentence: Why should I work for him? At school, I am in the student union, and he can't even get into the student union. It means the same thing.

This is his true psychological state, and it is also the psychological state of many people in China. It's okay for you to be taller than me, but one day you suddenly become taller than me, which is the most intolerable. In the unit, you are the section chief, and you have the opportunity of promotion. The deputy section chief was promoted and became your superior. You'll die in there. In people's minds, rank is very important.

This is normal. Not everyone is like this. I can also find a few people who don't care about ranking at all like me. But not the mainstream.