About a year ago, Ruoxin decided to set up a reception desk in Dali, and Xiaowang children's shoes were transferred to be responsible for all the preparations before the opening of the new reception desk. I met Xiao Wang's children's shoes at the reception desk of Ruxin Putuo Mountain. Although she was born after 1990 and I was born after 1960, we actually got along very well, so we later became the legendary "forget friends". After she arrived in Dali, she occasionally told me about her hard work, and I had the idea of go to dali seeing her. Although I couldn't help her in the past and even increased her workload, when a person is busy and stressed, if a friend comes over, even if it's just a look, I will feel some warmth and strength. Because of the COVID-19 epidemic, the trip was cancelled again and again, and finally I almost lost confidence [sweat]
After the Spring Festival, Wang Xiao's children's shoes were invited by WeChat again, so I started a "farewell trip". After arriving at the reception desk in Dali, Wang Xiao's children's shoes are very busy every day, except to meet in the morning and evening to say a few words. At other times, I basically do my own activities.
One afternoon, we were chatting. Xiao Wang's children's shoes first returned to WeChat while chatting with me, and then received a call. She got up and went somewhere else to answer the phone. Whether it is answering WeChat messages or answering the phone, she is calm. After answering the phone, she came back and said simply that she had been complained ... a girl born after 90, or the only daughter in the family, can live in harmony with everyone without losing her principles, and still.
A few days in Dali, I went to Chongsheng Temple, Wuwei Temple, Dali Ancient City and Erhai Lake, but I spent more time reading in my room and staring blankly.
One day, I tried to send a message to a homestay owner I met at the foot of Jizu Mountain a few years ago, saying that if he had time, he would pick me up in Dali. I was just trying, but I didn't expect the boss to readily agree. A few days later, he really came to Dali to meet me. When I arrived at his homestay at the foot of Jizu Mountain, I realized that in addition to taking care of his own homestay, he also sent mineral water to schools and government departments in the town every day, and he was very busy every day. He made a special trip to go to dali to meet me in such a busy situation, which really touched me. But what moved me even more was that the next day, he actually took me to a friend's child's full moon banquet. He wouldn't let me conform to human feelings, just like treating me as one of my own.
After eating the full moon wine, he was still there to help, so I wandered around. When I came back from a walk and found the couple sitting there, I went to say hello. The couple invariably told me that something happened at home just now, saying that their son was too disobedient and just ran to the roof to say that he would jump off the building. ...
After chatting with them for a while, I realized that his children were ordered by the class teacher to go home and finish their homework and report to school the day before I came. I tried to knock on their son's room and found the door unlocked. With permission, I pushed the door and entered the room. At that time, the child hid in the bathroom of the room and cried very sadly. I talked to him through the toilet door, and then the child came out. I saw the child crying all over.
The room is a mess, and the bed is full of clothes and snacks. After getting the children's permission, I sat on the bed and tried to communicate with them. Although I didn't turn on the light, I could see clearly face to face. The young man is handsome and clever. After chatting with him for about half an hour, I felt that his mood was basically stable, so I suggested him to think about it first, and told him that he might as well tidy up his room if he could, and then go back to his room and read a book in a daze.
Before and after dinner, I didn't see the child come out for dinner, so I knocked on his door again and found him sleeping in clothes and shoes. I told him to get up for dinner, and he got up soon and went to the kitchen with me. His parents will cook for him at once. After the child finished eating, I told him that I would climb Jizu Mountain tomorrow. If he's okay, I'll talk to him when I get back. If anything happens, I will do my own thing. The child readily agreed, and I went back to my room to sleep.
The next day, I returned to the hotel from the mountain. The boss went out and only the boss's wife was at home. She told me that the child has gone to school (she is a freshman), and the child not only helped her clean up before going out, but also cleaned up her room (the boss's wife said she would help him clean up later).
After a while, the boss came back. During the chat, he asked me if I met a group of people who kowtowed, saying that they slept here last night and have been coming and going to kowtow to the mountain since six o'clock this morning. I happened to meet them on the way down the mountain just now. I wanted to take a picture at that time, but I resisted.
After breakfast the next morning, my boss said he would take me to pack mineral water, so I just wanted to walk around and readily agreed. On the way to add mineral water, my boss introduced me to the scenic spots and legends along the way, and even stopped the car several times until the introduction was finished. ...
In the middle, he answered several phone calls. After answering one of them, he told me that the kowtower would come back to sleep tonight and come back around five o'clock. Out of respect, I want to say hello to these people when they return to the hotel, so I have been sitting on the sofa in front of the door reading and waiting all afternoon, and I haven't seen them come back until after six o'clock.
Then came a wave of guests. They are regular customers of the boss. When I arrived, I took out my cooking utensils and ingredients from the car and started all kinds of preparations. Soon I smelled kebabs and hot pot. Because I didn't have dinner, I didn't go downstairs and continued reading on the sofa in front of the upstairs door. Because I have to wait for the wave of kowtows to come back, otherwise I should close the door and stay in my room in a daze at this time.
At about 7: 30, the boss went upstairs deliberately and said that he wanted me to go down and get something to eat. However, I followed my boss downstairs. They were eating mutton kebabs and drinking. I pretended to be allergic to alcohol and managed to avoid their invitation to drink. I sit next to them and accompany them, and occasionally eat kebabs. After a while, they brought me another hot pot, and the boss got up and brought me a set of chopsticks. I had to give up the idea of eating a kebab when I first came downstairs and honestly sat there with them [sweating]. They eat, drink and chat. I basically listened, and occasionally interacted with them to show that I was listening. I never mentioned my religious belief from beginning to end.
Around eight o'clock, the wave of kowtowing people came back. At this time, I happened to have a mutton string in my hand, so I was embarrassed to meet at the door. [Dizzy] Seeing that some of them had no place to sit, I quickly moved my chair next to them ... they all seemed to be in good spirits. They sat around the table next to our kebabs and chatted happily. Because they speak dialect, I can't understand what they are saying, and I'm eating mutton skewers at the moment, so I'm embarrassed to join in the fun, so I have to stay where I am with this wave of people who drink and eat mutton skewers.
While eating, drinking and chatting, the boss suddenly mentioned Pigu, and then a young man who claimed to be Hebei among the guests took over the topic, saying that Pigu should be a Buddhist, that his father was a Buddhist, and that he could help people see all kinds of geomantic omen and that he had studied Buddhism. He thinks that the so-called vegetarian diet in Buddhism is problematic, because grass and cabbage also have life, and meat is onion, ginger, garlic and coriander. This is not meat ... after hearing what he said, I think I should share what I know with him, even if it is only a heartbreaking thing. I was about to open my mouth when I suddenly found myself holding a pile of barbecue in my hand. I suddenly felt a burning feeling on my face and didn't have the courage to say a word. I quickly found an excuse to escape back to my room!
After returning to my room, I couldn't calm down for a long time. I've been thinking for a long time and a lot. ...