Ten thousand arrows pierce the heart, which is a geomantic word in the play. From Xiao Jing's words, she saw the tragedy of the heroine Li Baoli and the fact and essence of the whole event. The teacher explained that the title of the film "Ten Thousand Arrows Through the Heart" is a spiritual opium, which is used to paralyze those who are unwilling to think, face reality, learn and die. This is reflected incisively and vividly in the female host Li Baoli.
Women that men like need to be feminine, at least pleasing to the eye. And Li Baoli, the female host, is hot-tempered, calculating in life and talking loudly. Face the sky every day and haggle over every ounce. There is no feminine charm of a woman. Stimulation and satisfaction that men can't get visually. Even the physiological needs of the most primitive animals can't be met. It can be seen that more and more women's characteristics are lost, that is, living in men's appearance, there is no way to stimulate men's physiological needs. At the same time, in terms of spiritual needs, Ma Xuewu longs for respect, sense of value and sense of existence. And what Li Baoli gave was cynicism, attack and suppression. Let him look up and feel the sense of dignity and value as a man.
So, you have to live like a woman, or your husband will find out that you are having an affair sooner or later. This is an animal instinct, a natural law, and is independent of human will.
Li Baoli's sorrow lies in her lack of culture and narrow circle of contact, so she can't jump out and examine herself. It is even more impossible to gain experience and wisdom from ancient and modern Chinese and foreign books, so that you can't wake up. And she doesn't want to study and live in her own circle. I remember Xiao Jing in the play and asked her to do other work with her. She refused, thinking that hard work suited her. Live like a man.
Her son's sorrow lies in knowledge without wisdom. I can't see where her mother's fault lies, and I can't see her mother's benefits. I am one-track-minded. Although his father's death had much to do with his mother, he also had some problems of his own. As a son, he only saw his mother forcing his father to death. What is the essence of this tragedy because it is narrow-minded and does not look at the whole? Therefore, knowledge is not equal to wisdom, and it is useless to learn more knowledge.
Her husband Ma Xuewu's sorrow lies in cowardice. He put up with his wife again and again and didn't face the problem. When he learned that his wife called the police with 1 10 and destroyed him, he retaliated with death. The result is to make this family worse. White-haired, childless.
The turning point of the whole play is Li Baoli. She chose to call the police at 1 10 to arrest her husband and lover on charges of prostitution. She thought she was considerate, broke up the wild mandarin ducks in one breath, and pretended to forgive her husband generously, standing at the commanding heights of morality. But this is the beginning of the whole tragedy. When the marriage can't continue, don't torture each other and get together and leave. Otherwise it will be more painful.
Marriage is a personal matter. Don't expect to change each other to meet your own needs, but change yourself and grow yourself from the inside out.