What are you particular about your 40th birthday?
Worship three instead of four.
In some places, 40th birthday can't be celebrated. There is a folk saying that "if you don't worship four times, something will happen", which means that you can't have a birthday party on your fortieth birthday, you can only spend it at home with your family, or don't do it this year, otherwise you will lose your life.
Balance yin and yang
However, there is another saying about 40th birthday. In the traditional theory of yin and yang, 9 is the maximum number of yang, and the pole of yang is yin, which represents emptiness and nothingness, so 0 and 9 are unlucky birthdays. Therefore, when the age meets nine or zero, it is the birthday of the next year. This is to balance the extreme yang of nine and the "empty space of zero".
What are the taboos on birthdays?
Avoid saying unlucky things.
Because if you say these unlucky words yourself, it will seriously affect your next fortune, and these ugly unlucky words are easy to come true on yourself, so it is best to say good things to everyone on your birthday, so that you can accumulate better contacts in the future.
Avoid being alone.
It's not good to celebrate your birthday alone, or you don't care at all. It is best to have someone to accompany you, or you can invite someone else, so that you will be blessed and lucky in the future.
Prevent waste
Some people may spend a lot of money on their birthdays, which is a good thing, but remember not to waste too much money or material resources. If you waste too much, you will easily lose money in the following time, and the increase of wealth will be slow.
Avoid disputes with others.
Because if you have a conflict with someone on your birthday, you will always be a villain in the new year, and you will be troubled by bad luck, which is not good for you. You should retreat for progress, be more tolerant of others and keep a tolerant heart.
Avoid tears
Keep a good mood and a happy smile on your birthday. No matter what emotions you are moved by, don't cry. Because tears are the most unlucky thing, which indicates that you will encounter many difficulties in the new course, which is not conducive to your life.