According to your description, you can decide whether to have a second or third child based on your actual conditions. After all, old people still have the same old traditions, old ideas, and old ideas. Now that men and women are equal, it’s up to you to have a boy. It’s the same for all girls. No one is right or wrong in your family. Only by mutual understanding, mutual tolerance and mutual trust can we live a happy life. It’s normal for you not to have a second child and go out to work. Your mother-in-law said you don’t raise idle people. The main reason is to let you have a second child, and there is a 2,000 yuan reward for raising the second child at home! You have to think clearly about buying a house, it is not a small amount, it can bring you comfort It feels like this, but your life in the future will be restricted. It is normal to repay the mortgage loan of 2,300 or 3,000 yuan every month. This will make your mood and burden heavier. Do you want to live in straitened circumstances every month? Well, in life, it’s better to just let nature take its own course, and speak according to your own actual situation!