The real progress of spiritual practice is reflected in whether a person's behavior is increasingly following the law of heaven and cause and effect. Nothing in the world happens by accident, and everything happens for a reason. This is the most fundamental law of the universe. Of course, people's fate also follows this law. Not only Taoism, Buddhism, but also Christianity agree with Heaven (cause and effect). Socrates, an ancient Greek philosopher, Newton, a great scientist and others also think that this is the most fundamental law of the universe. People's thinking, language and behavior are all "causes" and will produce corresponding "results". If "cause" is good, then "effect" is also good; If "cause" is bad, then "effect" is also bad. As long as people have thoughts, they are bound to constantly "plant causes", and it is up to them to decide whether to plant "good causes" or "evil causes". Therefore, if you want to build your own destiny, you must first pay attention to and understand what kind of language and behavior your every thought (starting your thinking) will lead to, and what kind of results these languages and behaviors will lead to.
Second, the law of attraction.
Everything in your life is attracted to your inner self People's minds (thoughts) are always attracted by the reality that accords with them. For example, if a person thinks that the road of life is full of traps, he is afraid of falling when going out, of traffic accidents when taking a car, and of being fooled when making friends, then the reality he is in is a dangerous reality, and a little carelessness will really get him into trouble. For another example, if a person thinks that many people in this world are loyal and bloody people, then this person will always meet loyal friends. Do you know why? Because people see the world selectively, people only see and pay attention to what they believe, but not what they don't believe, or even turn a blind eye. Therefore, the reality that people live in is attracted by people's minds, and people are also attracted by the reality that conforms to their own minds. This mutual attraction is always going on in an unconscious and subconscious way. A person's mind is negative or ugly, so is his environment. A person's mentality is positive and kind, so is his environment. If a person can control his mind and focus on the people, things and things that are beneficial to him, he will attract them into his life and they will attract him. Therefore, controlling the mind (thoughts) is the basic idea of fate.
Third, I believe in the law.
What you believe, life will go. If a person truly believes that something will happen, whether it is good or evil, good or bad, it will definitely happen to this person. For example, a person is convinced that positive things will happen to him, and positive things will happen. And if a person is sure that he is dying, that person will die soon. Therefore, it is the principle of destiny to replace bad beliefs with good ones. From this perspective, honesty is a blessing. If you want to give yourself a blessing, you must establish honesty.
Fourth, relax the law.
Relaxation is the key to developing potential, and meditation can help people relax. Only when people relax can they achieve the best results. Any mental slack or impatience will bring bad results. What mentality is the best mentality? The answer is the clearer the better! Aim at the ideal personality, ideal realm, ideal interpersonal relationship and ideal life you want, then relax, work hard and do what you should do. Don't always worry about when these things will come, then sometimes they will surprise you. On the contrary, if you are more anxious about the result, the less you can get the ideal result, or even the opposite result. For example, on a hot night, when the power goes out, you lie in bed sweating, unable to sleep and miserable, always wondering when the damn electricity will come. Electricity always doesn't come when you are in a hurry, but when you finally have enough, people are quiet, stable, naturally cold, and you are about to fall asleep, electricity comes. Suddenly, your room is brightly lit and the electric fan is turned on. This is not a coincidence, nor a superstition. It is a law, a law of relaxation. It is also worth noting that the so-called mindlessness does not mean that you have no thoughts in your heart, but that you have thoughts but don't stop. "You have nothing to live in except your heart."
Five, the instantaneous rule
In fact, your life can only live in the present, and the rest are fantasies in your mind. Man can't control the past, nor can he control the future. All he can control is the thought, language and behavior at this moment. The past and the future do not exist, only the present is real. Therefore, the focus and starting point of building destiny can only be the present, and there is no other way. If people always mourn the past, they will be trapped in the old reality they want to change with guilt and regret. If people are always worried about the future, people's worries will attract things that people don't want to happen to reality. Only by focusing on adjusting the current thoughts, language and behavior will fate develop in a good direction unconsciously.
Six or twenty-eight laws
80% of the results were achieved in the last 20% of the time and efforts. It is a very important law that people can only achieve 20% results with 80% time and effort before reaching their goals. Many people lose confidence and give up when they pursue their goals because they can't see obvious results for a long time. For example, practicing double dishes; For example, correcting a bad habit; Like educating children. To know that fate is a long-term thing, you must have enough patience. Don't expect the first 80% of your efforts to bear fruit. As long as you don't give up, the last 20% of your efforts will make a qualitative leap.
Seven, due method.
Everything that happens is the most important thing that will happen, and it is borne by heaven. By doing good in Xiu De, you can avoid bad luck to the maximum extent. People get what they deserve, not what they want. Those who have daughters are worth their daughters, and those who should starve to death will starve to death. This is the truth. Therefore, those who want to transform their own destiny must first repent. Repentance can gradually break the connection between our hearts and past habits. Secondly, we should continue to do good deeds in Xiu De, change the influence of past karma on every life time now, and make catastrophes smaller and minor disasters smaller.
VIII. Indirect Method
If you want to change one aspect of yourself, help others to change that part first. Self-worth (including both material and spiritual aspects) must be realized indirectly by improving the value of others. For example, if you want to improve your self-esteem, you must indirectly improve the self-esteem of others first. If you want to achieve something, you must achieve it indirectly by achieving others. For example, some companies are founded for the naked pursuit of profit maximization, and these companies are often short-lived, while those companies that are committed to providing quality services and products to customers and society are often enduring and growing. This is the law of indirection at work. It is worth mentioning that in indirect law, improving self-worth and improving the value of others often happen at the same time, that is to say, when you improve the value of others, your self-worth will be improved immediately.
Nine, the law of giving
Giving to others is giving to yourself. You can't get what you haven't given. Giving means giving up. This law means that no matter what you pay, you will eventually get many times the return. For example, if you give money or material things, you will eventually get money or material returns; You give joy and make others feel happy, and you will get the joy that others return to you; You give stability and reassure others, and you will be happy. On the contrary, if you cause anxiety, hatred, anger and sadness to others, you will also get these retribution.
X. principle of non-repayment.
Like everything else, we can't think. This is a supplement to Busch's law. This principle says: when you give, you should never expect to get something in return. The less you expect in return, the greater the return. "One good turn deserves another, and one evil turn deserves another. It's not like you don't report it. Not yet. " . For example, one day when you were driving to meet an important client, you saw an old couple with a flat tire. You didn't want to take care of it because you were in a hurry, but you felt you had to take care of it, so you stopped the car to help them change their tires. You changed the tire, and the old man will give you a sum of money to show his gratitude. You turned down the old people and wished them good luck, and then you went on your way. When you arrive at the appointed place, you find that the customer came later than you, and the customer quickly signed an agreement with you. Do you feel lucky? But this is not luck, but law. So please remember: it is more blessed to give than to receive. Giving is a great blessing in itself, and there is no need to get a return from the receiver. Weigh an elephant (stone). Everyone says that if an elephant is given another silk scarf (in return), how much weight will the elephant gain?