Let’s not talk about spiders, because there is nothing to say. You don’t have to worry about this, it doesn’t make any sense.
Let me talk about your dream. There is indeed a problem.
There are two types of dreams, one is more realistic and the other is absurd.
This dream of yours can be said to be of the first type. It can be explained clearly.
Unless you are sure that the person you dreamed about is your mother, but I don’t think you can be sure. The reason is that you haven’t confirmed it yet. More importantly, when a person is in a dream, it is your soul. When you perceive things instead of perceiving things when you are awake, there will be a deviation, and it will be much larger than when you are awake. So I think it’s hard to say whether this person is your mother’s soul, but I am sure that it is also a soul. To put it bluntly, it is a negative substance. You can even understand it as a ghost, because ghosts are negative substances.
But this soul should have no ill intentions towards you, and may even know your soul. If it wants to have sex with you, then the ending of your dream will not be this. This soul was only with you last night, and in this way it communicates with your soul.
So why do you have this dream?
Your family is very likely to be relatively large, and the house you live in may be more than 80 square meters. If it is not that big, it means that there is insufficient yang energy in your home.
In short, it is certain that there is insufficient yang energy in the home. The reason is that there are few people living in your home, and your yang energy alone is not enough to support such a large area, so it is best to find a friend or relative to live with you. If you live in a house of more than 120 square meters, your situation is not surprising at all, because living alone in a big house means that Yang Qi will definitely be insufficient. If an elderly person over 60 years old lives alone in a big house, it will be a serious disaster.