When I was a child, my family was in poor condition. I have been used to a hard life since I was a child.
When they grow up, girls of the same age try their best to find a rich man as a boyfriend.
But I am stupid, or I may feel inferior. I swear I will never look for rich people again, for fear of being looked down upon. Therefore, I will be with my husband in the future.
Before intimacy, I only knew that my husband's family was also rural and had no family background. However, I never imagined that his family was poorer than mine.
After we confirmed our relationship, he just changed jobs, and the result was much worse than expected. I will help him for a long time.
However embarrassed he is, he is optimistic. With him around, I believe everything will be fine. No house, no car, no savings, we are together.
Growing up, although I have no money at home, my family loves me very much. Naturally, they were not satisfied with my choice, but they didn't stop me.
Unexpectedly pregnant with twin babies after marriage, the plan was disrupted and life was even more difficult.
One month in advance, I went back to his house to have a baby. Although I am also from the countryside, I grew up in a mountainous area, which is like a plain.
I'm not used to the living habits of his family. So, just out of the month, I took my daughter and followed him to Foshan.
After planning to rent a house, I asked his sister to help me take care of the children. But she doesn't agree, housewives should take care of the boss (more than one year old). After proposing, we moved into my uncle's house.
Later, for various reasons, I asked to return to China. Mr Wang Can can't give more to me and my children, so he must allow me to go home.
02
In my home, one stay is more than two years.
At that time, Mr. Wang's salary was not high Fortunately, his parents supported him when one person earned money and four people spent it.
I don't need to spend money except for the expenses of two children. It can be said that my parents raised me in those two years. And my sisters often buy things for my three mothers and daughters. ?
However, Mr. Wang does not seem to have a deep understanding of the difficulties.
In the first year, he went home for the Spring Festival and spent 1000 yuan to buy clothes for my three daughters and daughters. I still remember that he bought me a bright red "pure brand" down jacket, 352 yuan.
I was annoyed when he handed me the clothes happily. First of all, life is so tight, but it is extravagant to spend one-third of my salary to buy me a dress. Secondly, I don't like big red.
But I still restrained my emotions and simply said that I have clothes to wear, so I don't need to buy them for me in the future.
This Woodenhead didn't realize that my mood was wrong. "That won't do," he replied. "Although you can't leave for a while, you should be rewarded for your hard work for a year! Lest you say that I will be bad to you in the future. "
After hearing what he said, I didn't hold my breath, blaming him for not buying such bright colors. Unexpectedly, he said cheekily, wearing it can make me much younger. So it sounds to me that he thinks I'm just taking care of the baby and I've become a yellow-faced woman.
This matter has been bothering me for several days. On New Year's Eve, I reluctantly put on my new clothes and felt very uncomfortable. ?
Unexpectedly, everyone who met me strongly praised my husband's good eye. Even my own sister thinks this dress is especially suitable for my skin.
And I gradually accepted this dress. Besides, the more I like it.
For many years after that, all my thick clothes were basically chosen by my husband himself. He said that winter clothes should not only look at style, but also have quality. It is impossible for a miser like me to buy expensive clothes.
Indeed, I've always wanted to save money. Since he has this heart, let him go. Without my money, I still can't feel the pain.
But every time I buy clothes, I don't like them at first, but I always feel worthwhile after wearing them several times.
Those clothes have been worn for years and they are always in good condition. Don't want to wear it, and don't want to throw it.
03
When my daughter was two and a half years old, I left her in the care of my parents and went out to work by myself.
But my husband and I are not together. He changes jobs frequently and doesn't want me to drift with him. He wanted me to have a stable job, and my temporary residence became our temporary home. He will come to see me during his break.
He said, let's work hard outside for a few years and then go home together. However, after only two years, he changed his plan.
One day, he asked my dad to look at the house. The next day, dad helped us find a small room. When my father told me this, I felt incredible. After all, he didn't even discuss buying a house with me. But I'm not angry.
When the house is built, I will resign and go back. And, sir, you have to earn more money outside to pay your debts.
Until a few years ago, the debt was almost paid off, and Mr. Wang finally returned to work in this city. Although the salary is much lower than that in the Pearl River Delta, it is worthwhile to spend more time with your family.
Money can never be earned. I'm not afraid of living in poverty. I'm used to being poor and don't care at all. I just want to spend more time as a family.
04
These years after Mr. Wang came back are our most harmonious and happy years.
Unexpectedly, one day at the end of the year before last, Mr. Wang was found to have a serious illness. Surgery, radiotherapy, chemotherapy, recurrence ... Finally, he left us.
I don't have any money at all, and after all this trouble, I can only come up with a small sum of money that I originally wanted to pay off my debts. I also bought commercial insurance for my husband several years ago, so as not to lose everything.
After Mr. Wang left, all my relatives and friends were worried that I could not support this family in the future. However, I am not worried at all.
Although he owed his brother a little personal debt before, he can wait until his daughter grows up. Moreover, after he left, there was a little money left in the critical illness insurance claims, and social security also made up some.
And these belong to the "savings" left by my husband to me and my children. Not much, but because he left it, I think it is particularly precious.
Every time I think of those "legacies", I feel that I am not poor now. And when I think of my daughter, I feel very rich.
Yes, I have "two daughters". Who can say that I am poor?
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