Under normal circumstances, it is very unfavorable to men, and women often have certain benefits.
Your grandfather's life should be a little bitter. Under normal circumstances, men's life expectancy will not be very long, and women's life expectancy is normal.
If you can't find the grave, you can recuperate residential feng shui.
Were you born in the house you mentioned? Or have you moved or built a new house? Are you a woman or a man?