Science, respecting the old and loving the young, etc. In the contemporary era, it has injected connotations such as being knowledgeable, polite, thoughtful, tasteful and capable. Contrary to a good wife and a good mother, a bad wife, a stupid wife and a vulgar wife include selfishness, laziness, vanity, unscrupulous, narrow-minded, short-sighted, grumpy, mean, shallow-minded, ignorant, discriminatory and even abusive in-laws.
As the saying goes, "A good wife and a good husband have few disasters, and a filial son is filial to his father." Having a good wife and mother at home, not only can the husband work carefree, or
In starting a business, it is tantamount to helping.
When a man marries a bad wife, a stupid wife or a vulgar wife, not only does half of himself often get into trouble for himself, but what the bad wife, the stupid wife and the vulgar wife teach is probably not a dutiful son, which is tantamount to an accomplice of the bad wife, the stupid wife and the vulgar wife. They either fail in their careers or succeed in their careers, and finally they can't resist the destructive power of their wives and children. "Stupid wives and bad children can't be cured" means that stupid wives and bad children can't be taught by knowledge.
It is not difficult to see that the well-known saying, "A virtuous wife is unfortunate, but a filial son is broad-minded", contains the meaning that a virtuous wife makes the second generation of father and son prosper, while a bad wife, a stupid wife and a vulgar wife destroy the second generation of father and son.
In fact, the word "three" in "a good wife thrives for three generations, but a stupid wife destroys three generations", like many ancient numerals, is not a specific number.
But the general "three" is the commonly used "n" today.
However, a good wife can reproduce at least three generations, that is, the real three generations, while a bad wife, a stupid wife and a vulgar wife can destroy at least three generations. There is no difference between a wife and a family. This is because as a mother and grandmother, it's written.
Cultural background and value orientation can be passed from son to grandson, which will more or less affect the career and marriage of son and grandson.
Regarding the influence of wife on children, I wrote in the blog post "My nephew's home is half feng shui?" 201July 5, 6. A little exploration in 《
Discussion: "Third, mistake mother's educational role for feng shui outflow. The ancients said: "Three years old, you look old; At the age of seven, you look old. "This view has also been demonstrated by European and American research institutions.
"Day iniquity, still can be; You can't live if you do it yourself. " For men, for themselves, for future generations, it is necessary to break the appearance when choosing a wife.
Take people's vulgar thoughts, avoid stupidity (bad customs) and be a beautiful wife.
Of course, changing the social atmosphere requires the correct guidance of the media. In addition to encouraging Chinese people to improve their self-cultivation through self-education, they should also cultivate a good fashion that men love to marry a good wife and a good mother, and women strive to be a good wife and a good mother. In this way, except for a few men who have the selfish idea that "a beautiful woman dies in bed, it is also romantic to be a ghost", most family-oriented men can still marry a virtuous man, with a prosperous population and a prosperous country.