Wen | Yao Yiyao
Love begins at the dining table and disappears at the dining table.
There is a saying in Historical Records and Biography of Li Sheng Lujia:
"Jun takes the people as the sky, and the people take food as the sky."
Diet has been a major event in people's livelihood since ancient times.
As the saying goes, people are iron rice steel, and they are hungry without eating a meal.
Our life revolves around eating. Eating can not only fill the stomach, but also reflect everyone's personality and world outlook. Whether two people are suitable or not will be known after a meal.
People who "eat badly"
Leave before it's too late
Last National Day, my best friend Yan Yan and I attended a blind date dinner.
When ordering, Yan Yan said politely, "You go first". As a result, the boys were really rude, and ordered several very spicy dishes according to their own preferences without any inquiry.
Finally, the dishes were served on the table, and the scene was even more exciting.
The boy rummaged through several dishes, found a fish well, and was poked with several holes. It was really difficult to take off chopsticks. After eating and drinking enough, he still leaned back on the stool to play with his mobile phone.
After dinner, Yan said lovingly, "I'm really speechless. This meal is terrible. "
China has always been a country of etiquette. I heard from my elders that "people can only eat together" and "adults can't move chopsticks, but children can't move first" ...
We have long been familiar with table manners, but there are always some people who regard ignorance as capital and selfishness as talk capital.
Liang Shiqiu once recorded such a thing in the article "Eating":
"A foreign friend told me that when he was traveling somewhere in the southwest, he occasionally ate in a restaurant and suddenly heard the wallboard banging, and the sound was crisp and dense, like a bead cannon. Only after asking did people know that the diners next door were spitting their sweet and sour pork ribs.
This dish is the specialty of this restaurant. When the customer enjoyed this delicious food, he threw the bone aside smoothly. You spit, I spit, so the siding jingles ... "
As the saying goes: if you have a picture, sit and sit, eat and eat, and walk.
Whether the food is good or not determines the impression of others on you. Although eating well can't cover all of a person, people who eat well will not be too bad in character and wind and water.
And people like Liang Shiqiu who imitate others and spit bones everywhere must be very uneducated.
A thousand years ago, Confucius proved this point: a person's diet reflects his cultivation and mind, a gluttonous person often has no restraint, and a rash and impatient person often wolfs down.
Knowing a person is actually very simple. Eating together is enough.
Nine times out of ten, people who aim at a bigger piece of meat without waiting for everyone are selfish;
People who don't care about food and splash soup must not know how to take care of others;
People who can't turn over chopsticks in a good meal will not be too cultured.
A meeting and eating each other determine the possibility of two people's communication, and also determine the impression in each other's hearts.
Get along with people who eat well, such as spring breeze, comfortable and natural; It's unpleasant to get along with people who eat differently, such as being stuck in the throat.
Learn to look at people at the dinner table, know how to recognize people, and stay away from people who are "eating differently" as soon as possible.
Check out after dinner
The most test of character
Two years ago, the hit drama Ode to Joy 2 set off a discussion about whether couples should eat AA.
In one episode, Qiu Yingying asked Mei Sheng, a fan, to check the door and test her boyfriend's personality.
Just after dinner, Qiu Yingying scrambled to pay the bill, but her boyfriend didn't say anything. After coming back, Fan Meisheng inexplicably said to Qiu Yingying: "When girls and boyfriends go out, don't boys pay the bill?"
On the other hand, Qiu Yingying said, "No one's money is blown away by the strong wind. Both he and I make money, and we take turns to ask, the economy is not involved, and the feelings are pure. "
On the topic of "how to check out after meals", friends are divided into two groups:
"If two people are students, considering their financial ability, AA system is very reasonable."
"If a boy lets his girlfriend pay, it's really humiliating."
In fact, eating with friends or lovers in AA system is a good solution, which is not only economically independent, but also reduces money disputes.
I saw a friend's post on the Internet:
I want to spit! Boys introduced by relatives on Chinese New Year's blind date said AA system when paying the bill, which is fine with me. Usually going out with friends is AA. Originally, I thought everything was fine, and I had the idea of further communication.
But! He sent the bill of 20 1 yuan to the waiter on WeChat 100, asking me to give it to1kloc-0/,saying that I ate less, at least one yuan less than me. ...
There is no absolute fairness in this world. Everyone has different dining preferences and different appetites. It is normal to have a deviation in appetite. In fact, there is no need to calculate the amount of 35 yuan. What's more, it's hard to avoid being looked down upon when meeting girls for dinner.
I really feel that I have lost. Next time, I can skip the AA system and order separately, and go Dutch.
A person who tries his best to find a reason to take advantage of food is to save some money smugly. I don't know that this opportunistic behavior is looked down upon.
Checking out after dinner is the best test of a person's character.
Anyone who evades orders on an excuse or gives less if he can give less will not have a good character. They think they are brilliant, but in fact they have lost face and lining.
The article "The Dining Table of Love" wrote: Love begins at the dining table and disappears at the dining table.
If eating is for eating, then checking out is for eating. May everyone you meet be the noblest person.
Chatting at the dinner table
See three views
There is a topic in the newspaper: How do you stay with your partner?
A friend told his own experience:
"The first time I met my husband was at a dinner party with a group of friends. At that time, there were more than a dozen people who were not tall, but I was a slow-heating person. I really have nothing to say with people I don't know. I am particularly embarrassed and keep drinking water.
Then my husband (a passerby at that time) noticed and took a seat with others to talk to me. I thought, who is familiar with this? I didn't expect that we had a lot to say!
Everyone likes Wong Kar-wai, is keen on volunteer service, and loves to eat marshmallows ... After a brief encounter, the more we talked, the more speculative we became, so we added WeChat that day and got married. "
The dining table is a place to talk about love, and words are the most direct way to express love. If two people have nothing to say from the beginning, then this relationship will end in vain.
Some people say that eating can show personality, and chatting can show three views.
The consistency of the three views not only means that two people have the same preferences, but also means "empathy." I understand everything you say, and you can understand everything I say. Without cynicism, it is impossible for a chicken to talk to a duck.
And two people with different views are never on the same frequency. You want a balanced diet, three meals a day, but he thinks it is enough to fill your stomach. Why bother?
Your idea is always different. He doesn't understand your style of doing things, you don't like his style of doing things, you share happiness with him, he thinks you are showing off, you talk to him about your troubles, but he laughs at your affectation.
The ideal state of life is to have fun, chat and bibimbap. No matter the trivial matters in life or every major decision in life, there are people to share and listen to.
So, if you meet someone who has endless words at the dinner table, please cherish it.
World etiquette William Hansen said:
"An observant person, as long as a meal can know your parents' life background, your education. "
Many people think that the function of the dining table is just to eat and chat, but it is not. The dining table is a magnifying glass, which can magnify your words and deeds.
A person's actions at the dinner table are often the most real. The quickest way to get to know a person is to have dinner with him.
As the "barbecue" said:
When a person meets another person for the first time, he wants to be friends with that person, his lover and his family. If he thinks so, the first thing is to have dinner together.
For the rest of your life, I hope you have someone to lean on and a meal to enjoy.
Yao, Yao, go home to wash ducks in the New Year!
The above is about chickens and rabbits, and it is about Qiu Yingying's sharing. I saw 87 rabbits and 93 chickens. I hope this will help everyone!