First, the factor of values.
Husband and wife life, relying on pure love and love, it is difficult to go on. The long-term basis for two people to be together is whether there are synchronized values. If two people look at things with different values, there will be many differences, which will turn into daily quarrels, and the quarrels will be endless and evenly matched, and no one can convince anyone.
In the long run, the feelings of two people will inevitably alienate. In real life, we often say that life can't go on! What can't go on is that two people's hearts have gone in opposite directions. What you want is not what I want, what I want is what you don't like or don't care about.
Second: personality factors.
Husband and wife life, pay attention to a match to live. Just as we often say that like attracts like, opposite attracts like.
If two people are particularly stubborn, then quarreling will lead to a cold war. No one will be soft, no one will bow their heads, and life will be impossible. If two people are stingy and haggle over every ounce, then their life together will be very embarrassing. There is a stingy person and an atmospheric person, which are complementary in character and take care of each other, which is more conducive to the long-term relationship. Of course, some couples have the same personality, which is more appropriate.
For example, if two people are generous and cheerful, life will be rich. Styles can agree with each other, get along comfortably, and everyone sees who is pleasing to the eye.