1, always believe that children are the most important audience of parents, show your love and patience to children, and don't yell at them.
2. Children are just children, and their performances are good and bad. Don't ask him by adult standards, adjust his expectations. It's no use crying when a child makes a mistake. It's necessary to control his reaction.
It's no use shouting, it will only make things more out of control.
4. Stop yelling, and incredible things will happen.
Sometimes it is the parents' problem, not the children complaining about their children. It is better to reflect on yourself. Many times, they are angry with their children because of other things.
6. Learning to take care of yourself will help you control your emotions. Parents who can't take care of themselves must be anxious parents and wise parents. They will think of better rational ways to solve problems before their emotions get out of control.
The child is confident, the family is harmonious, and the mother is kind and filial. This is a good family.
Good parents teach their children to look at winning or losing correctly.
If children want to show off and are afraid of failure, and find various excuses not to try, they will lose a lot of happiness. Parents should instill a correct view of winning or losing in their children.
1, winning is a minority, losing is the norm, there is competition, there is victory or defeat, and losing accounts for the vast majority. Therefore, parents should compare less, don't compare their children with other people's children, and don't talk about rankings. They should guide their children to pay attention to their own progress and growth and compare them with the past, and realize the importance of hard work. At the same time, let children walk into daily life and tell some true stories. You can talk about your own experiences of success and failure, so that children can understand that if you want to win, you must have the courage to lose.
Failure is no big deal. If it fails, the guidance of parents is very important. You can try to demonstrate the failure yourself and start over.
Not everyone can make progress by trying to succeed. Success is a good wish. They should have the courage to face failure before their wishes come true. Elimination is not necessarily failure. Victory and failure are equally valuable. We should try bravely and learn to live in harmony with failure, so as to better meet success and learn to move forward in failure.
Only by learning to live in harmony with failure can we better meet success, accept failure frankly, and teach children how to attribute it and make persistent efforts. Attribution can teach children a positive attitude. Attribution failure is temporary, special, universal and changeable, which makes children have a habitual optimism. To guide children to cope with failure, you can find a way by yourself, or parents and children can solve problems together and find answers. If it is difficult, you can also hint appropriately so that children can taste the fruits of success.
Tell children: don't be defeated by imaginary failure. The failure you experienced is not because you are not good enough, but only to prove that you have been working hard.