The purpose of parting is not only to clean the room, but also to purify the soul. By sorting out the thoughts in the room, I can achieve some purposes such as "I want to understand some life truths".
Break-don't buy what you shouldn't buy; Give up-don't leave what you shouldn't; Leave-don't think about it. So, the end result of breaking up is that the room becomes clean and tidy-by reducing the items in the room, not just tidying up. So how should I break up with my daily home finishing?
It is called "breaking" to cut off the source of the house clutter and prevent the possibility of the house becoming more chaotic. In other words, chop hands-
The pace of modern life is getting faster and faster, and there are very few things that can make people feel happy. Shopping promoting dopamine secretion in the brain seems to be one of the few ways to make us feel happy.
One of the consequences of this pleasure-seeking shopping is that the things you buy are useless, but there is no place to put them away, which is a pity. These things that once made us happy will worry us one day. What we once called "beautiful things" finally became "sundries" one day.
Therefore, the first step of breaking up is to stop shopping-stop buying anything that is not necessary for life!
This is something to do in the process of tidying up the room-many people understand "breaking up" as "throwing away", which is actually a misunderstanding of breaking up. The so-called "throwing away" is actually "giving up", which is just a part of breaking up.
What kind of things should be discarded? Generally speaking, there are about three categories:
1. Things that make people feel unhappy, such as gifts left by their predecessors, photos of you and your girlfriends, reports of company leaders throwing your face in public, and so on. If these items remind you of bad memories every time you see them-it's time to say goodbye to them.
2. things that are no longer needed, such as an outdated skirt, a book that has been read and is not intended to be read again. These things used to be "beautiful things", but now they have become "sundries"-these things become "sundries" more slowly than the above-mentioned content that you pursue pleasure shopping. However, it is time for them.
3. Items that are not used for the time being, such as a camping tent-although you have never participated in camping; Or an ultra-low cut T-shirt-even though you are too fat to wear it now.
These items are your obsession, on the one hand, you may never need them; On the other hand, maybe you will have a better choice when you need it. So anything that "will come in handy one day" should also be discarded.
Separation is a sublimation of breaking and giving up-those memories are painful, but I can't bear to part with them; Shopping is my only relaxing entertainment, how can I put it down? Wearing this dress is my goal. Without it, how can I lose weight ... You have 10,000 reasons to refuse to leave, but I have only one reason to insist-I live for today, not for the bad past and the distant future.
When your life is no longer happy or sad because of things, when you get rid of your obsession with things, you are separated.