Let me tell you what I think. Women are very fragile when they are pregnant, but in fact men are also fragile. The coming family members will bring mental and material pressure to men. In this unstable period, I estimate that you are pregnant, and you have no time to take care of his helplessness. He needs to find comfort when he is helpless, which leads to a big mistake. You should put aside your prejudices and have a good talk with him and tolerate him to pick him up. First, because you have children. Take a step back and live in a happy family for the children in the future. Second, I am pregnant now and need someone to take care of me. Third, your tolerance will make him appreciate and reflect, and you may get a more loyal husband. Fourth, once the child is born, your husband will devote himself to this family. What happened before was just a cloud.
The most important thing is that you should communicate well and have a heart-to-heart talk. You should not only pay attention to the children, but also care about your husband's mood occasionally. This happened to my familiar relatives. They kept silent. Although my wife once wanted a divorce, her mother-in-law also advised her. Later, she quietly drove San Xiao away. As soon as the child was born, her husband was completely integrated into the family. If I hadn't received a letter from my mother, I wouldn't have found out about it. )
So relax and think calmly. I wish you an early settlement of conflicts and a happy family!