What do you mean by a disgruntled wife?
An dissatisfied wife refers to a woman who has lost her husband or left her husband for a long time. Now it extends to women who are neglected and dissatisfied by men and show their faces to others all day.
In ancient China, there were many interpretations of dissatisfied women, such as Feng Wei's Self-protection, Gu Feng, Green Clothes and Sima Xiangru's Longmen Fu in The Book of Songs. Most of them are women who miss their husbands who have gone away from home, so we can think of ancient women living in a very small range because of their low social status. In ancient times, due to the limitation of traffic conditions, it often took a long time for men to travel. If women live alone, their dissatisfaction will naturally arise.
What is a dissatisfied wife in the eyes of modern men?
A recognized good man divorced and asked why. The man said bitterly, "A dissatisfied wife is fiercer than a tiger!" " "He vividly compares: just like watching the night sky, he looks at the stars all over the sky, but her eyes are dark night, and she will endlessly complain about the night. Resentment is like a sharp double-edged sword, which stung both sides so much that they had to break up. Women are bitter with resentment, just like the poem "The ancients are always in my heart", which makes men feel pity for each other. However, once nothing is pleasing to the eye, nothing is satisfactory, and it is much more bitter, it will make people daunting and shy away.
Some women always see the worst side of the world and think about the most difficult crux of the problem. What others can laugh it off is the big thing that the sky is falling. From social atmosphere to living environment, from family disputes to disputes between colleagues and friends, from traffic jams to discounted clothes just bought, there is nothing to complain about. Being angry is not only torturing yourself with other people's mistakes, but also torturing others with your own mistakes and disrupting their life rhythm. Complaining too much will not only devour the light of one's own life, but also the green trees of friendship, the flowers of love and the paradise built by oneself. Endless complaints shut happiness out, missed the time around, and failed precious lives.
The main crux of the complaint is the lack of gratitude for life and life. Think about how short life is, how precious life is, and what reason is there to resent the chicken feathers in life? Life is so colorful, even if there is cool summer, there will be spring, and there will be golden autumn in cold winter. I believe that good luck and bad luck will not last long. How can you have leisure time to worry about the sky and the city? Besides, complaining about yesterday cannot change the past; Complaining about tomorrow won't help the future. Instead of wasting time, we should change our mentality, let go of our troubles, resolve our grievances, take active actions and make some effective efforts. You know, it's not just the environment that affects life. Mentality controls one's actions and thoughts, and also determines one's love, family, career and achievements.