The so-called fate refers to the origin of human beings. Some people are born in the family of dignitaries. They were born to live the life of a young lady, living a life of clothes to reach out and mouth to mouth. Some people were born in poor families in the backcountry, and they were born without food and clothing. For children from poor families, the so-called piano, chess, calligraphy and painting may be just an unreachable dream. This is fate, the origin of man. Don't think that heaven is fair!
Eryun
Life is doomed. Having a good background will certainly promote the growth and development of our own life. If life is not good, you have to rely on other aspects.
Here, luck also refers to luck and opportunity.
Some people may win a million dollars after buying a few lottery tickets, while others may buy lottery tickets all their lives before winning a bar of soap. This is luck.
As for opportunities, from a macro perspective, that is, the specific social and historical period and environment in which people live. Before the reform and opening up, people were poor, and people born in that era had no chance. As for the situation of making a little money and making a little money, it is often listed as capitalist roaders and criticized to see if you dare. This was the case in a specific historical period of society at that time. Today, after the reform and opening up, there are many opportunities and people want to get rich. Compared with no opportunity before the reform and opening up, this is a question of opportunity.
From the micro-individual, such as job hunting, there may be a good job waiting for others to apply, maybe you are suitable, you can get it by just a phone call, and when you know it, it will be gone. This is also a matter of luck.
Sanshui
Feng shui here refers to the environment where people live. There is a saying in the science of success that man is the product of the environment. Although he is close at hand, he may not be popular! But we must know that this is a minority after all, and the growth of most people is greatly influenced by the surrounding environment.
The famous "Meng Mu Three Movements" in ancient China is a good proof. Meng Mu moved to a place for the first time, and there were many graves nearby. What Mencius did all day was running around with a group of children pulling some white sails and playing with each other. Meng Mu looked very worried and thought that the child's life would definitely end. So she moved her family to a market, where Mencius learned to do business with other small vendors. Meng Mu looked at it, thinking, at this rate, the child can only become a small businessman in the future, not a big climate. So she moved for the third time and moved to a private school, where books rang all day. Mencius, like other children, learned to read and study, and eventually became a great representative of Confucianism with far-reaching influence.
Let's put aside the dialectical relationship between internal and external causes in philosophy. A seed will eventually dry up or be eaten by birds if there is no suitable environment for its growth, such as soil, light and water. As for rooting and sprouting, it can only be nonsense.
Therefore, if a person wants to get ahead and make some achievements, he must pay attention to choosing a positive environment. Keep in touch with successful people and observe what they do, and you will be more likely to achieve the same achievements as them in the end.
Four seasons
The so-called accumulated virtue can be understood here as being a man and being a man. Carnegie, a master of interpersonal relationship, has a saying that a person's success depends on his knowledge, 15% and 85% depend on his interpersonal relationship and his ability to deal with others.
We can see that some people are finally reduced to the point of being rebelled, isolated and punished by others, and some people are willing to approach him, support him, and even give everything, even their lives, for him. Don't say, the difference between people is really great! This is a question of virtue.
According to personal understanding, the word "virtue" contains honesty, responsibility, love and gratitude.
Let's talk about honesty first. Confucius said: if you don't keep your word, I don't know why! If a person can't believe what he says, I don't know what else he can do! I don't know who dares to associate with someone who doesn't keep his word.
Responsibility is that a person's words and deeds are not only responsible for himself, but also for others!
Love means caring for society, the motherland and others!
Thanksgiving, the ancients said: people's kindness, a little water to repay a spring! One must learn to be grateful! "Sincerity can be possessed, and gratitude can last for a long time!" That's the truth!
In the above aspects, imagine a responsible, caring, faithful and grateful person. Who doesn't want to associate with him? Can you be indifferent when he needs help?
Confucius said, "If virtue is not alone, there must be neighbors!" That's the truth!
Five books
Reading refers to people's knowledge and talents, and they should be able to keep learning!
When reading world without thieves, Ge You said: What is the most valuable in 2 1 century? Talent!
Very classic! For the 2 1 century where science and technology are changing with each passing day, it is not a difficult thing to be brilliant and travel all over the world today! As long as you are talented, as long as you have the ability, there is enough room for you to show! As for the situation that some people in ancient times did not meet their own talents, there are not many in today's society.
The sea is wide and the fish jumps, and the sky is high and birds fly! Stop complaining that there is no room for your development in today's society. The key is whether you can fly and how high you can fly!
If you want to fly higher and farther, you must have that ability. In one day, Li Zekai earned the money that his father Li Ka-shing earned all his life. What do you think he relies on? If you have to pick sandbags to transport bricks to earn so much money, I think you should still dream!
Let's talk about opportunities Opportunities always favor those who are prepared. Are you ready when the opportunity comes? Are you capable of catching him? If life and luck are not so good, then read more books!