Today, an old rural saying introduced by the author is about the stress of building a house. This sentence is: "the door will hurt the window, and the door will hurt people." Obviously, this sentence is to warn people about the bad influence of building houses by mistake on people's lives, so how should we understand it? Does this old saying make sense?
First, let's look at the first half of the sentence. It means that if the doors and windows of a house face each other, people who live in it will suffer, so farmers can't face the doors and windows when building a house. Some people may think that the emphasis on building a house is just some feng shui superstition, but in fact this statement is not groundless. We can think about it carefully: doors and windows are connected with the external environment, and when the wind blows outside, it will form a "direct flow"
You know, people who live in a windy environment for a long time do great harm to their health. Health is the most precious thing for people. If they lose their health, won't they suffer? Therefore, this sentence also warned future generations that when building a house or choosing a house, we must inspect the layout of the doors and windows of the house in advance, so as to live safely.
Secondly, let's look at the second half sentence. Why does the door of one family face the door of another family and hurt people? This aspect is the farmer's usual geomantic stress. In the taboo of building a house, door to door is a big taboo. First of all, the formation of through flow is easy to catch a cold and is not conducive to the cohesion of wealth. This is a kind of pressure.
The doors of the other two houses are opposite, which is easy to expose privacy and cause disputes. Although rural areas attach more importance to neighborhood relations, even a good neighbor, after all, is not a family, but also should take care of privacy. Home is very individual, door to door. Neighbors will inevitably see some things in each other's home, which will make each other feel very uncomfortable.
After all, there is a saying that "distance produces beauty", and so does the neighborhood. The door is so close, too much contact may lead to an argument. After the dispute, if the two families don't bow their heads, the contradiction may intensify. Therefore, in order for both parties and their families to live in peace, doors and doors are absolutely incompatible, which is rare in the village, but everyone should pay attention. ?