The Buddha said that it is ok to kowtow to each other and apologize.

1. Apologize, wash your hands, clean the house, put the photo of your husband in front, kowtow to the photo and say, "Husband (or add your name)! I'm sorry, I apologize for the harm I did to you and your family in my last life. I hope you can forgive me. The previous grievances have passed, and we will live a good life in the future. " In short, you can use your own "vernacular" to express this kind of words, say whatever you want, mainly to repent, apologize to the other party, be grateful, or say something like loving him. 2. Pray for the Bodhisattva to bless "There is no Guanyin Bodhisattva in the South! (3) Disciples sincerely pray for the merciful Guanyin Bodhisattva to bless my husband * * * to live in my kindness and love, and to stop quarreling and hurting each other. Pray for the Bodhisattva to bless us to live in harmony and to bless our children * * * to grow up healthily. The apprentice kowtows to you. " Pray at the same time, at least a few minutes a day, the more the better. ) 3. Put your hands together and turn around (three times): "I am willing to pay back to me, my husband _ * _ (name) and all sentient beings and bodhisattvas who were killed, injured, raped and aborted, eliminate all karma and sufferings, settle grievances and believe in the Three Treasures. Grateful to the Ten Buddhas, Bodhisattvas and Dragons! Be grateful to all sentient beings! " Note: If you don't have time to do it every day, remember to recite "Mona Amitabha" every day.