Everyone will make mistakes and suffer losses. However, after suffering losses, you will have more experience and more strategies.
Every morning when we get up, we will go to the playground to run a few laps and exercise. However, the number of laps we run is related to the time we leave the dormitory. Leave the dormitory early and run around. Just pile it up when you leave the dormitory. Therefore, we often suffer from being late. Every time I run down, I get out of breath. So I thought: Why do we always come down so late? Oh! The dormitory in 609 is very slow, so we should help them.
So, the next morning, Hu Zixu, the fastest runner, and I dressed, folded the quilt and washed mouthwash, urging the people in our dormitory to walk to the door of 609 dormitory. At that time, their quilts had not been folded. Without saying anything, I will help those who fold quilts and make beds slowly, and try to make them faster. That day, we came down early.
However, I have to think of more ways, because I can't help him so quickly every day, so I will help them better and make them faster in the future.
After this lesson, I know I should help people in trouble.
Life is always full of fighting passion.
You may think that life is precious and short. How should that person spend his life? I did think about it. I think: a person's life must not be wasted!
First of all, everyone should be inspirational when he is young. Dr. Sun Yat-sen said: My ambition is to go forward bravely. The more frustrated I am, the braver I am. If we have ambition, then we will have the motivation to struggle and the vitality of youth. There is a saying in Lian Bi's proverb: the trend of ambition has no way out, and it will not retreat when it enters the hinterland. You can't conquer anything you want to conquer, but you can't conquer it. An ambitious young man can be considered a real young man! Confucius encouraged himself to study at the age of fifteen and achieved something at the age of thirty. Have a clear ambition and goal for the future, not a monk ringing the bell every day. Now there is a popular word on the Internet called Buddhism. Should I believe in Buddhism? Of course, the answer is no! We young people must have high fighting spirit! We should live for ourselves, motivate ourselves, live for our motherland and motivate ourselves! Only in this way can our life be valuable, and we have not wasted this wonderful time.
If you have ambition, you must put it into action. You can't talk on paper, you can only dream. And struggle, life, struggle. For example, if you motivate yourself to become a scientist, you need to study hard from primary school to junior high school, then enter a good high school and then enter a good university. There is a misunderstanding: you don't need to work hard to get into college. In fact, we need to constantly improve ourselves, make ourselves better and keep learning. If we persist in our struggle, no matter how old we are, we will always be full of vitality.
One should cultivate one's own character in life. Roman. Roland said: Without great character, there is no great man. Buddha. Saunders said: Personality can determine life, which is more important than talent. Only when a person has noble character can he stand on the world and be respected. A person with a bright personality like gold has a bright heart and a happy mood.
I have read How Steel was Tempered, and I like this sentence best: A person's life should be spent like this: looking back, he will not regret wasting his time, nor will he be ashamed of doing nothing. So in order not to waste my life, I will set an ambition, fight for it and cultivate my character.
Teenagers, young people, the future is our time! May each of us not waste time!
As the saying goes, "If you don't eat the pit, you won't gain wisdom". My experience in buying vegetables just illustrates this truth.
Hours later, I went shopping for the first time, holding 50 yuan from my mother and hesitating to walk into the vegetable market. Before I came to a food stall, I asked my attractive uncle, "Uncle, how much is an onion?" ? He gave me a look, rolled his eyes and said with a smile, little friend, you must be very promising when you come out to buy food at an early age! Ok, just a little cheaper, one yuan each.
I didn't know the price of vegetables at that time. I thought this kind uncle took care of me. I was so happy that I quickly took out three pieces and said, give me three pieces, thank you, uncle! Ok, here are some good ones. Anything else? Then please help me get everything on this list ready! I am very happy to see my uncle so frank. Coriander, melon, cabbage, potatoes, a bag of flour and tomatoes. Ok, that's all, a ***32 yuan! Well, here you are. I happily paid the money and left with food.
When I got home, I hurried to my mother to ask for acceptance and wait for her praise. As a result, I found that my mother looked wrong and wanted to run away, so she grabbed me and asked me what was going on. Generally, this common dish 15 with flour is redundant. At that time, the intestines that I regretted were all green, and I thought, it seems that this kind of blind obedience is really a big mistake. I will deal with him next time. I revisited my old place on Sunday. I didn't expect to go back He still knows me, and I want to cheat me again. I bought something about 20 yuan, and the shopkeeper who killed me that day said, that's all. Well, let's give you a discount. 42 yuan 50 Branch is used to give up change, and 43 yuan (bully me, give up and add 50 points).
Oh, imported? It's too expensive. How much did you just say? Alas, my face turned white. Oh, it was 18.6 yuan, so I suggested it! ! I snorted, picked up my bag and left without paying.
Eat this graben, and you will gain a share of wisdom. From then on, I understood that everything has to go through the brain and can't be blindly followed.
In my life, there are many things that let me learn from a pit.
I remember once, I learned to ride a bike for the first time. I thought it was easy to learn to ride a small bike, but learning to ride a big bike is not a piece of cake. So I took out my mother's bike and stepped on the cushion of the bike in a natural and unrestrained posture that was difficult to ride a tiger. An accident appeared. As soon as I got on it, the car was disobedient and fell down. I fell heavily. I suffered a loss and didn't rush to ride this time. For the first time, I observed why the car fell so easily. It turned out that I didn't grasp the balance well and held the car straight. I secretly kept my great discovery in mind, and I took my hand to help. Haha, the car was really obedient and let me ride it. When I was proud, I heard a "poof" and the car fell down again. Oh, it's not easy to learn to ride a bike!
I didn't give up. I sat quietly on the ground, I don't know why I fell off the car again. Did I not hold the front of the car, or did I not master the essentials of cycling? By the way, I see. You can only ride in a straight line when riding a bike. I can't turn. Can I not fall? I pulled the car up again and tried to ride it. Haha, I just stepped on it twice and made me beautiful. Just then, I accidentally fell on my back. Finally, I fell and rode, rode and fell. After about two weeks, I finally learned to ride a bike.
I see, no matter what you do, you will learn from your mistakes. Don't be afraid of failure. After failure, you will succeed! Success fills me with happiness!
Everyone comes to this world with different life experiences and values. In my opinion, the value of life is defined by vision, realm and pattern. Vision is knowledge, realm is style, pattern is taste, and it goes on and on. The isomorphism of * * has become the rich connotation of a perfect life.
First of all, vision can determine the height of the realm, and insight can broaden the boundaries of life.
A person's cognition and views on life directly affect the trajectory of life. There is a story: two young people go to work in other places together. Because of their seriousness, the company rewarded them with 654.38 million yuan each. One has the money to buy a car and the other has a suite. Many years later, the former is still worried about finding a job, but the latter has become a rich man.
The two young people have the same starting point, but they have two completely different lives because of their different eyes. The first kind of people just want to buy a car, but don't think the car will be eliminated by time; The second idea is to buy a house, because he has a broad vision and knows that the house can achieve the effect of getting rich through various methods.
Secondly, the realm determines the size of the pattern, and the style can increase the tolerance of life.
Everyone is just one of these three realms: first, he is only satisfied with the status quo and does not want to make progress; Second, be brave in innovation and strive to change your life; Third, willing to pay to make society better. As a result, the gap between people in different fields has arisen. People who don't think ahead are not motivated, live like animals, live a meaningless life every day, and have no value to their own lives; People who are brave in innovation are getting closer and closer to their dreams. Throughout the ages, many scientists, such as Edison and Zhong Nanshan, have devoted themselves to scientific research and made great achievements. Those who are willing to pay will do their best first and then create a better future for the people. In the process of giving, they realized the maximization of life value.
Finally, the pattern determines the value of life, and taste can bloom the beauty of life.
Patterns are like jars of life. Different models can accommodate different values of life. Take reading as an example. There has always been a lack of reading in this society. Now some people don't like reading more and more. They only know to read some books that are beneficial to the present, but they will not reserve more reading for their future. This is also a manifestation of the small pattern. At present, the most comfortable job for most people is civil servants. The salary of this job is relatively high and the job is stable. I believe that few people are not excited about it. However, people who are in the tide of the times have given up the comfortable jobs that everyone envies, and chose to go to sea, relying on their own talents to achieve better themselves in a larger development space and create a bigger pattern for themselves and society.
Human life is limited, but standing on the shoulders of vision, realm and pattern, the value of life that can be created is infinite. If you only think about the present and don't consider progress, then a person can't achieve great things; But if he has a long-term vision and constantly improves himself, there will be a broad sky.
Recently, my family went to play in Qiao's compound. I suffered a loss when shopping there, and it is precisely because of this loss that I learned the truth of learning from mistakes.
Here's the thing: there are stalls everywhere near Qiao's compound, and one is the noisiest. You can hear people jumping up and down from a distance, and there are many people crowded around. I thought I was playing a monkey. My mother and I rushed over and squeezed in to see if there were any monkeys. I saw two fluffy mice at a man's booth. The man kept shouting: stand up and jump. With the sound of the password, the little plush mouse kept standing up and jumping up, and the more it jumped, the happier it became. Everyone around us laughed, laughing at these two toys, which were fun and lovely. Seeing that everyone was very enthusiastic about his things, the man immediately shouted: magic toys, children have fun, 10 yuan a pair, for a year! When he shouted, everyone was quiet. Suddenly a child shouted, Show us again. Who knows the man said: it is better to buy it and go home to play. Everyone didn't want to stay, and the crowd gradually dispersed, but there were still several people, and I was one of them. I want to bring some gifts to my friends, which is also a good gift, so I begged my mother: buy one, mom, buy one. Seeing that I wanted to buy it, Shang started dancing again, shouting, jump higher, get down and sit up. The magic toy posed in different positions with his cry, and I couldn't help laughing, thinking that this toy was so interesting. At my request, my mother bought me one and opened it at home. This is just a manual magic trick. The instruction is a printed piece of paper, which only says: With white silk thread on your head, you can relax and tighten your jump. I thought it was electric. I can't laugh or cry. Things worth only one yuan were fooled into ten yuan. Cheating, I really feel bad.
The vendor just took advantage of the characteristics that tourists are in a hurry to buy things and never come back, which made me fall for it. Think more about things in the future, don't trust others, or you will suffer.
Lessons learned from the gap; 7. A stupid person's dull reaction of "missing the coffin and not shedding tears"; A wise man can't save a sheep when it's dead, but mend it by himself. So I think smart people will choose: borrow a pit and gain wisdom, but eating a pit may not necessarily gain wisdom. We have all experienced repeated mistakes more or less. What is the reason? Because it got its wisdom by eating a hole. Learning from mistakes is based on summing up experience after mistakes. Otherwise, eating ten may not make a hole. Don't you see how similar the demise of China's 5,000-year dynasty is? Just because the king did not consider the downfall of his predecessors, he mourned for future generations! Have you seen how the water of the Yellow River flows from the sky to the sea and never returns? This is like saying that failure is the mother of success. How many times has everyone failed in his life and how many times has he succeeded? If you fall, you may not gain wisdom.
You don't have to fall down to study. There are two kinds of graben: graben and small graben. If you eat the graben, I'm afraid you won't have a chance to be smart. For example, someone had a dream before he died because of taking drugs: If I were given another life, I would definitely not take drugs, okay? You can't be grandpa Yan! So, I said, you don't have to wait until you have learned your lesson. Wouldn't it be better to learn from it? Theoretically, learning from hard experiences expands the narrow scope of human experience and provides many possibilities for a wonderful life. As long as you are willing, you can absorb indirect empirical thinking and turn it into direct experience, so that you can know what's going on in the world and manage tomorrow without doing it yourself. In the process of strategizing, the winner is thousands of miles away.
From a practical point of view, this is a wise move. China has not taken the old road of environmental development before governance in developed countries.
Of course, it is not unprincipled borrowing that leads to unnecessary wisdom. For example, if the bad guys are not skilled at killing people, you can gain your "wisdom" by this, which is prohibited by law and morally condemned.
Life is limited by time and space in experience. Learning from a bad experience is an inevitable choice for smart people-everyone in the world knows it!
When Huang Lin had two classes on the road, the teenagers whispered in the light. Young and ignorant, we naturally don't know, step by step.
We really don't know, but a little boy on the other side of the ocean knows. He chose a unique path, and he wanted to be president. If you want to be president, you must be governor first. If you want to be governor, you must have the support of the consortium. If you want the support of the consortium, you must be famous. So he started to go to Hollywood and became famous in one fell swoop. He is a tough guy, Schwarzenegger. He broke through many obstacles and married a girlfriend. His girlfriend is Kennedy's granddaughter. Then his journey became open and bright, and he was elected governor of California. Behind the governor is the choice he made when he was young, but now his seemingly frivolous dream is within reach. This step, he walked very firmly, and he played a beautiful battle. Choice needs persistence.
Choice also means courage. You dare to take that step, you dare to face death calmly. It was Wu Bin who moved China that year. The ordinary bus driver had an unexpected trouble on the expressway that day. Blood dripped from his clothes. However, he chose to stand up, braving the pain, parked the car and told the passengers not to panic. Twenty-four people survived because of his choice, and he fell down forever. That year, how many people shed tears on the West Lake, and how many people used his coffin to escort him all the way. In the face of sudden choices, we need courage, and we need to stand up bravely and say, don't panic.
One thought of becoming a Buddha and one thought of becoming a demon determine different lives. Sometimes, that step passes easily, but history can never be forgotten. If that step is wrong, it will be beyond redemption. It was the end of 19, and Xu Shichang was a scholar. If he stays up all night, he can make a living in 20 years. But he is a scholar and refuses to follow the crowd. Until half a century ago, he was a seven-product sesame official. Then Yuan Shikai found him and intended to support him. Xu Shichang finally put aside the expensive, began to sharpen his head, drill up, what people's lives, what the road to human rights has nothing to do with him. He became a smooth operator. His choice made him famous in history. His steps are wrong, and the abyss is behind.
Our steps, we choose. How many years later, I will look back with a sigh/Huang Lin was divided into two roads/and I chose the one with less interpersonal relationship/which decided my future life path. Young poet under the lamp, where are you going tomorrow?
Nine hours later, I saw beautiful words in French and said I wanted to learn French, but I couldn't even learn a few English words. When I was a child, I said I wanted to draw beautiful pictures, but I couldn't even draw the most basic straight lines. When I was a child, my father said that I would never do such a wrong thing; Dad said,' Stand firm before you go'!
I remember when I was a child, I watched other children playing in the community on small bicycles. I also wanted to ride, so I asked my father to buy me a small bike and let him teach me to ride. Seeing new things, children are always motivated. Bicycle is not a strange thing, but I feel very fresh if I have never ridden a bicycle, and I can't wait to try it. So, I didn't wait for my father to help me stabilize the car, nor did I wait for my father to help me balance the car behind me. I ran out with one foot on the pedal. Of course, I must have staggered out of the car before I went far. Father said that I was impatient. How can I get there without gaining a foothold first? So my father helped me put the car behind me and taught me to practice riding. I learned to ride a bike and didn't fall off like before.
Yes, how to walk when you can't stand still, just like building a house. How to build a building without a foundation? Even if you fall a few more times, you will always succeed. If you use the wrong method, you will always take more detours than others.
I carefully remember what my father said. Not only did I learn to ride a bike, but the basics were not as good as before, and everything else was easy to learn. It also has the basis for me to learn from the painting of the old five, and has my own painting style. Even if you copy other works, you will never forget your own painting style.
A lesson from the past 10 Alas, there are so many idioms in China that the preparation time is only a few days. How can I count it? Come on! Looking at the blue sky, I can't help sighing. If you want to take the first place, what should you do without accumulating idioms?
The next morning, when the first sunshine came in, I rubbed my sleepy eyes. Ah! There will be a competition today, how many idioms to know! For this day, our classmates have been working hard for a long time!
The whole day's class made me feel bored. Looking forward to the stars, looking forward to the moon, finally looking forward to the game, this exciting moment! I looked at the situation of each class before the game, and our class had a slight advantage. At this moment, I only feel that the sky is blue for me, birds are singing for me, flowers are blooming for me, and grass is green for me.
The examination questions in the first level are extremely simple, and several classes got full marks. I didn't petition much, so I glanced at the other class players and whispered, well, the fun is yet to come! I have worked hard to accumulate so many idioms, which will definitely add points to my class, but it turns out that I am wrong.
The examination questions of the second level have already started. Although this level of idioms has long been memorized in our class, two minutes is too long for only a few dozen idioms accumulated. So, everyone brainstormed and used idioms all over the world, even the donkey's lips were not right for the horse's mouth, but at this time, these short two minutes seemed to be two centuries.
The results of the game came out. As I expected, our class didn't win, but I learned a truth: we must do our best in the future and not be complacent. Because modesty makes people progress and pride makes people fall behind.
I don't think our class will lose again in the next competition. If you ask me why? That must be because of something my mother once said to me.
Take a fall and learn!
1 1 According to the social survey of China Youth Daily, is not wanting to grow up a new pleasure for modern young people or a special product of an era?
Selling cute powder, watching anime, and unwilling to get married, so naive but mature adults can be seen everywhere now. Some are immature, irresponsible and naive. Most of them snuggle behind their parents under the one-child policy, drink too much honey, get used to rainbow chicks, and want to wrap themselves in their parents' arms with a younger lifestyle, which is extremely immature and even morbid.
However, there are still a group of people with normal thinking, far-sightedness, and even know the society like the palm of their hand, but they are still like a generation of masters such as Tao Yuanming; Living in seclusion in the mountains, unwilling to speak out of turn with society. I think it is their fear and even disgust of society that keeps them away from the noise of the same market.
Such young people have the ability and conditions to stand on their own feet and the courage to take responsibility, but they lack the courage to face the real world. It is true that today's society is a mixed bag of fish and dragons, and the development of modern industry has also expanded the phenomenon that drunkenness is not about wine. People's pursuit of material life is no less than that of any previous era, and people's enthusiasm for prestige and power has not faded more than that of the previous year. This excessive desire makes the society of this era more turbid and unpredictable. It is the fear and even disgust of the unknown world and the great contrast between adult society and youth campus that makes many young people unwilling to embark on the road of society when they grow up.
However, in an era, a society will not be completely dark and bright, just as the days in the northern and southern hemispheres will always alternate. Perhaps in today's society, what we should do is to show our sunshine as much as possible and give these young people who are afraid of the dark more hope and care. Nowadays, young people should get rid of their one-sided understanding of society, lose the misconception that adults lose their innocence when they are born, and admit that there are many beautiful things in the world. Only in this way can they really dress themselves up for their children and appreciate the truth, goodness and beauty of the adult world. Treat the world with a pure heart, a pure land and a mature heart, and accept the imperfections of the world at the same time. Otherwise, self-righteousness is just an escape that is inconsistent with reality.
May all the young people in China get rid of the cold air, and as long as they go up, they don't have to listen to the words of self-abandonment. Can do things, can make sounds. There is heat and light. Just like fireflies, they can shine a little in the dark without waiting for the light of torches. I want to share what Mr. Lu Xun said.
It's a sunny morning and the wind is beautiful. My friends and I saw such fine weather that we all ran out in droves, just like ants saw food. After we discussed it together, we played hide and seek. I was in the third grade.
"Three, two, one, go!" My friends and I are hiding in different places. Some hide in the grass, some hide, some hide. I hid behind a car. This place looks safe, don't believe it, look: if a smart card comes towards us, I can follow him around this car. If it is found, I can sneak onto the haystack: there are dense weeds and there is an ant nest nearby. No matter who it is, I won't want to go up-especially this time I am so afraid of ants. I think this place is really a treasure trove of feng shui! Want to arrest me? No way!
But the reality always backfired-suddenly, there was a roar from the engine of the car-and I quickly jumped into the grass. That was close! Just as I was running away, the car roared back! Which car didn't meet, but this car happened to meet: the owner probably spent the night here, and today happens to be Sunday. He just woke up from a lie-in, his brain was at a loss, and he grabbed the steering wheel without saying a word ... God, my luck is so bad!
With this jump, I jumped a little deep-I looked down, my god! This is not only deep, but also a group of ants who want to mess up! Why can't I be lucky? Alas-I reluctantly pulled out my feet and danced tap dance and zombie dance-except that my feet were twitching wildly, everything was stiff. Suddenly, thunder and lightning, huge raindrops fell on me, but I ignored them-those ants panicked, but panic quickly turned into calm ... Yes, since this happened today, I won't make such a low-level mistake in the future!
On the way to success, you will always experience failure. Only by learning the truth of failure can you succeed. From then on, I understood that you must do well and finish what the teacher told you seriously.
I have been the head of the dormitory since the sixth grade. Everything in the dormitory is up to me. When I first started school, I was inevitably impetuous. In order to correct these problems, teachers often hold meetings. One day at noon, when I returned to the dormitory, what I said seemed to explode. Whether the teacher is here or not, whether it interferes with others or not, I just ignore them. Instead, I packed myself up and lay down. Seeing my classmates still talking below, I was so helpless that I didn't even say "shut up".
After a while, the teacher came and saw the mess in the dormitory, so the fire in my heart could not help but come up. Finally, the teacher got angry and patted the dormitory door and criticized us: "What's the matter? You just showed up. Do you think the dormitory is for you to talk? " The teacher is very serious and angry. He called me out and taught me a lesson in the corridor. My face turned red at once, and I really wanted to find a place to get in. After being told by the teacher, my impression of the teacher became a little bad. From then on, I never dared to pay attention to the dormitory again.
After this incident, I understand this truth: things should be done well, and what the teacher told me should be done seriously.
I think we have suffered a lot all our lives. As the saying goes, we have also gained a lot of wisdom in our lives, unconsciously!
That day, my mother asked me to cook alone. I thought it was easy to do, so I started looking for what I wanted to do online.
Soon, I found it, so I fired to cook. I fried a tomato egg first, which didn't bother me, because I had fried it many times, and then I started cooking rice porridge. I never cooked rice porridge once, so I asked my mother. Then, the porridge was cooked and I began to eat rice. As soon as my mother saw it, she said, well done, I ..
After that, I put the dishes on the plate and the pot, but I forgot to turn off the fire. Later, long after, my mother went into the kitchen, only to find that I forgot to turn off the fire and burned a big hole in the bottom of the pot. My mother quickly turned off the fire and taught me a lesson.
This is about learning from mistakes in my life.