The future health of women is also closely related to confinement.
Since the mother-in-law is ill, the daughter-in-law should be considerate. Although it is a good way to find a new moon. But I think the husband should still take care of his woman. Conditional can let the new moon take care of the children. You still have to take care of your wife yourself. After all, your woman has gone through a lot of hardships for this family.
Personal point of view. Please correct me if there is anything wrong.
If you just want someone to accompany you, I really suggest that you let your mother accompany you, and you will feel much more comfortable. Physical recovery and maternal mood are the most important during the confinement period, and many contradictions will be avoided if the mother-in-law does not come.
If you need someone to take care of and accompany you, it is recommended to find a new moon when your mother-in-law is sick. In the next month, there are many things that other people need to do, such as cooking, washing clothes, washing their hair, wiping their bodies and so on. Since your mother-in-law is ill, even if she comes, she may not want to take care of her. Might as well just ask her to take care of it.
If the family is too short of money to get a new moon, then find your relatives, such as aunts and aunts, and ask them to help for a while.
You need someone to accompany you when you give birth. In fact, the most suitable person is your husband, because he has been with you for a long time, and he knows you best and understands you best. If your mother-in-law is sick and can't take care of her, you should understand her, because it is a long-term mental and physical pain for both the mother and the caregiver. What's more, if the mother-in-law is sick and asks for care, the first pair of mothers may not be able to take care of it, and the second pair will aggravate her condition. If the mother-in-law can't take care of it, see if it is possible for her to come and help. If conditions permit, my mother-in-law can give financial support and help me take a month off.