The most important quality of a woman should be kindness first, and all virtues are filial first.
I wonder, how many men with bad karma are suffering from the splint between their daughter-in-law and their biological mothers? Good women don't seriously ask me, "Your mother and I fell into the river. Who should we save first?" Such questions do not measure the degree of being loved. Frankly speaking, I don't think this is human talk at all! If the man's answer is to save you first (not joking but serious), I suggest you send him away without hesitation! How can you expect a man who doesn't even care about his mother to be responsible for you? Of course, not every mother in the world is responsible for her children and can give them the maternal love they deserve, except perhaps this case.
But if he saves his mother first, no matter what you think, I think he is a real man and I have deep respect for him! By the way, there is an answer that I think is qualified, but the basis is "there is only one mother, and the wife can remarry". I agree with the first half, and I think the second half is bullshit! I hope you can understand that I love them both deeply, but in times of crisis, the true nature of men is morality and responsibility, not emotion! As for other answers, such as "save the close ones first", I understand, but I despise them. Because this is not a technical issue, but a matter of principle, and it is difficult for me to compromise on the latter! Dear, if you are wronged by my parents, please don't slander them. I will give you some affectionate and warm comfort, not because they are perfect, but because they are my parents.
Also, an important manifestation of kindness is to be kind to others and be ready to help others. Within the scope of her power, her wife will not hesitate to reach out and give sincere care and help to others. Even if she is a stranger, she doesn't ask for anything in return, but she sincerely sympathizes and hopes that others will live better.
Pity makes you noble as the starry sky, and kindness makes you warm as the sun. People who accept your help will relive the beauty of life, and I will love you more because of your kindness.
2。 Loyal dear, I admit that there are countless men who are better than me in this world, and it is women's nature to worship the strong.
On the long road of life, you are likely to be attracted by attractive male scenery. If, after careful consideration, you decide to leave me and walk into another landscape, as a person who loves you deeply, I will be very painful, but I will never bind your free wings. I may cry alone, but I will sincerely bless you.
If I can do it, I can even help you objectively analyze your future as a friend who once cared most about you, and put forward as impartial and selfish suggestions as possible based on my own life experience and understanding of you. In short, we will get along well and break up well. I am confident that you will thank me when we break up.
No matter what you think, I cherish this time with you and cherish the love with you. But, dear, as long as you are willing to walk with me, I hope you can fully understand that I don't ask you to be with me wholeheartedly, but in any case, you must be single-minded and half-hearted, and I will never allow it! You must realize that you can laugh at my incompetence, be dissatisfied with my poverty, and even float away like a floating cloud. However, if you try to betray me emotionally and challenge a man's dignity in loyalty, I'm sorry, dear, so don't blame me for being heartless and narrow-minded. I can't go with you anymore! At the same time, I want to remind you not to leave. I found something bad and tried to save it.
You know, spilled water can't be collected, and there is no regret medicine in the world! Dear, if you not only betrayed me emotionally (or physically), but also betrayed the cause I have been fighting for, I can guarantee that at that time, what you regret is not what you did wrong, but meeting me! Don't force me to become another person, I haven't been a villain for a long time! 3。 Virtue is an eternal female virtue.
To be more specific, it is to put family first. Of course, I will try my best to support your career. To this end, I am ready to give up and sacrifice.
But, dear, I still hope you can understand that a career is a man's first life. Because generally speaking, if a man has no career, it is difficult to defend a family, and he will lose not only you, but also himself.
So, dear, please understand men's fear of career failure. Thank you sincerely! Don't be afraid, I will give up my career, and my family will give you the cold shoulder. You have to believe that I have enough wisdom and responsibility to balance my life, and I have enough wisdom to make our home my only harbor in this world.
Don't worry, you can't help me in my career. Do your own thing, take care of our home and give me some understanding and support. Then, even in the harshest winter, my heart will be filled with your sunny smile. Dear, if you are the kind of good woman I long for, there is no need to fall into the anxiety that women often have about their husbands, because one day, I will give up everything that has tempted me in this world for you, for your love and dedication! 4。
Sensible dear, I very much hope that you are a sensible person. A good woman should know that the most important thing for a man is dignity.
Honey, you can attack me at home, but you can't satirize or laugh at me in public. In addition, please don't easily compare me with some successful men, and always show regret for your original choice.
You can choose again, but don't hurt my confidence and self-esteem. I did my best. Don't make me think: a woman who doesn't know how to protect her husband's dignity doesn't matter.
Of course, a good woman knows the world and knows how to be grateful. Dear, except parents, no one in this world has the obligation to be so good to another person unconditionally.
Don't take others' care or love for you as a habit and take it for granted, even if you are beautiful and lovely like an angel. Express gratitude to others for their help immediately, and try to repay them afterwards.
If his care and thoughtfulness are prepared, but you are unintentional (with me, of course you are unintentional! ), then, polite refusal or ungrateful return is the most appropriate way. If you want to be clever, you just want to use it and don't want to pay, then sooner or later you will be bored, and not only that.
2. What etiquette should the organizer have?
According to the standards of ceremony and etiquette, the host should pay strict attention to the following issues when attending the celebration: (1) Be neat.
All the people attending the celebration should take a bath and get a haircut in advance. Men also need to shave.
(2) Clothing should be standardized. Units with uniform uniforms should be required to use uniforms as their own celebration costumes.
If there is no uniform, it should be stipulated that the personnel of the unit participating in the celebration must wear etiquette clothes. Men wear dark tunic suits, or dark suits with white shirts, ordinary ties and black shoes.
A woman should wear a dark suit and skirt with a long tube of flesh color and black high heels, or dark pants, or an elegant dress. Clothing, we must not let it play freely.
(3) punctuality. Punctuality is one of the basic business etiquette.
For the attendees of this unit's celebration, don't underestimate this problem. Don't be late, absent for no reason or quit halfway from the top person in charge of the unit to the employees of the unit.
(4) Expression should be solemn. When celebrating, don't giggle or frown, and don't let the guests worry about their expressions.
During the whole celebration, you should look serious, concentrate and concentrate. If the procedures of raising the national flag, playing the national anthem and singing the "Factory Song" are arranged in the celebration, we should do things according to the ceremony: stand up, take off your hat, stand at attention, pay attention to the national flag or the rostrum, and sing the national anthem and factory song with everyone seriously.
At this time, you can't stand up, take off your hat and look around. When standing or sitting down, it is impolite to ring your seat, comb your hair while taking off your hat, and talk to people without singing.
(5) Be friendly to the guests and greet them enthusiastically. Answer the questions raised by the guests quickly and amicably.
Don't tell the guests what to do, let alone be hostile to them. When guests congratulate at the celebration, they should take the initiative to applaud to show their welcome and thanks.
(6) Behavior should be self-disciplined. Since we have participated in the celebration of our unit, all the participants of the organizer have the obligation to ensure the success of the celebration with their own practical actions.
You can't let your mistakes in etiquette become the basis for the guests to evaluate the celebration badly. (7) make a short speech.
If the business personnel are lucky enough to speak at the celebration meeting of their own unit, they should abide by the following requirements: First, they should be calm and calm; The second is to be polite. Don't forget to say "Hello everyone" at the beginning of the speech, and don't forget to say "Thank you" at the end of the speech.
When you mention the object of thanks in your speech, you should look at the other person. When expressing your gratitude, you should bow solemnly.
For everyone's applause, we should repay it with our own applause; Third, the speech must end at an appropriate time, and the speech should be short and not arbitrary; The fourth is to make less gestures. Don't use ambiguous gestures.
3. What common knowledge of medication should ordinary people have?
Now pharmacies require licensed pharmacists, even over-the-counter drugs. Theoretically, pharmacists should make a simple diagnosis and choose drugs for patients according to the scope of application, side effects, dosage and other factors, but the actual situation is that most pharmacies do not have full-time licensed pharmacists, and they are all registered.
Since the main drug purchase channels have not played a guiding role in drug use, I think the average person should pay attention to avoiding empirical drug use. Many people go to see a doctor because they were ill once. If something similar happens again, they will follow the previous prescription. In fact, this practice is very wrong. Some diseases are very similar, and medication according to experience may delay or even aggravate the condition. Avoiding the abuse of antibiotics is a double-edged sword. Abuse of antibiotics will lead to the disorder of normal flora and physical decline while treating diseases.
If antibiotics must be used, there must be clear indications, narrow-band antibiotics should be used as far as possible, and random double triple use (taking multiple antibiotics at the same time) is prohibited. Self-healing diseases should not be used.
Remember, antibiotics kill bacteria, not viruses! Pay attention to usage, dosage, precautions and contraindications. Not all medicines are taken two tablets three times a day, so you must take them according to the quantity and method on time. Some medicines should be taken after meals and some before meals, which is very particular. Eating too much will have serious side effects, and eating too little will not reach the blood concentration.
Precautions, adverse reactions and contraindications must be read, which is equivalent to a user agreement, clearly telling you the risks, big and small. After understanding, weigh the pros and cons, make clear your ability to resist risks, and then decide whether to accept the idea of using Chinese medicine with caution. The reason for caution is that in the drug instructions, more than 90% of the contraindications and adverse reactions of traditional Chinese medicine (finished products) are unknown, that is to say, the risks are unknown. From clinical experience, things with unknown benefits and risks will cost a lot of money, and you can decide whether to use them yourself.
Sincerely answer your questions and give a good evaluation. Thank you. )
4. What should an employee have?
Xinmeile Co., Ltd. is plain-looking, with low academic qualifications, and works as a computer typist in an import and export trading company.
That year, the company's cash flow was difficult, employees' wages began to be in a hurry, and everyone jumped ship. At this critical moment, Xinmeile Co., Ltd. did not leave, but persuaded the depressed boss to cheer up.
Thanks to the efforts of Xinmeile Co., Ltd., the company negotiated a big clothing business, and Xinmeile Co., Ltd. got an order of $6.5438+million for the company, and the company finally got better. Later, the company changed to a joint-stock system, the boss became the chairman, and Wang Shuang became the first general manager of the new company.
Someone asked Xinmeile Co., Ltd. how he made such achievements. Xinmeile Co., Ltd. said: "There are only two things I can say about how I personally achieved such achievements: first, my heart; Second, there is no selfishness. " Nowadays, while working for the company, many people are also making personal calculations. How can such people contribute to the development of the company? Without the development of the company, how can individuals succeed? Any boss likes loyal employees, and only loyal employees can gain the trust of the boss.
If employees are disloyal, the boss will be on pins and needles, and some important things will not be handed over to such employees. How do employees get the opportunity of salary increase and promotion? .
5. What are the basic conditions of party member?
(1) China * * * party member is a pioneer warrior with * * * consciousness of the working class in China.
This is the fundamental sign that * * members are different from members of other political parties and ordinary people. * * * Members must have lofty proletarian ideals and firm proletarian beliefs, and can only believe in Marxism-Leninism, * * thought, * * theory and the important thought of * * *, but not religion.
People with religious beliefs or strong religious feelings cannot be added. (2) China * * * party member must serve the people wholeheartedly, at the expense of everything, and strive for the realization of * * * for life.
This is the most precious ideological character of * * *. Whether it can be done is an important symbol to measure whether it meets the requirements of * * *. (3) China party member will always be an ordinary member of the working people.
Except for personal interests and work authority within the scope of laws and policies, all members of * * * are not allowed to seek any personal interests and privileges. * * * Members should always maintain the true colors of ordinary workers, be among the working people, share joys and sorrows with them, get along on an equal footing and never part.
6. What qualities should a citizen possess?
A citizen refers to a natural person with the nationality of a certain country.
According to China's Constitution, anyone with the nationality of China people is a citizen of China people, including both students at school and all kinds of people in society. In layman's terms, it means "no one can be left behind". Therefore, civic literacy should be the basic standard and requirement of all citizens.
Citizen literacy refers to the quality and morality of citizens, including the quality and cultivation of citizens. It covers citizens' morality, sentiment, words and deeds, cultural inheritance, professionalism and awareness of laws and regulations, social morality and self-discipline.
The "literacy" in civic literacy is translated from English literacy, and some people translate it into "quality". In English, literacy basically means being able to read and write, which is what we usually call "literacy".
But in modern society, "civic literacy" refers to the following aspects: first, having democratic knowledge. Second, mutual respect and tolerance.
Third, maintain moderate rationality. Fourth, obey the majority and respect the minority.
Autonomy and self-control. 6. Participate in public affairs.
Simply summarized as 24 words: democratic knowledge, respect and tolerance, gentleness and rationality, obedience, self-control, and participation in public affairs. Generally speaking, the formation of civic literacy is a gradual process, a process of social development, and a dynamic process of adapting to society and developing harmoniously with society in terms of attitude, knowledge and ability in the process of understanding and participating in society.
Social development is a sign of a person's good citizen quality. Therefore, paying attention to the social development of citizens is of great historical and practical significance to the formation of good civic literacy and the progress of the whole society.
7. What are the conditions for good feng shui?
First: the external environment is beautiful, with mountains and rivers; Left and right; The wind should be soft; Sunny; The terrain should be flat.
What constitutes the above basic conditions is that the situation in the popular sense is good. But from the perspective of home feng shui, this is just external feng shui, that is, the external environment of the big environment.
Usually refers to the environment around the house, the location of the building, or the feng shui of the real estate environment. The external environment plays a role and influence in home feng shui, accounting for about one-third of the influence on feng shui.
The external environment is not good, the pattern is broken, affected by punishment, or there are noisy factors around. For example, in shopping malls, nightclubs, morning markets, or along the main roads of cities, this is caused by the influence of yin and yang.
Second, the internal pattern is in the right direction; The apartment is square; Uniform lighting; The wind is soft; Reasonable layout. What constitutes the above basic conditions is a good house with good feng shui in the popular sense.
Harmonious internal structure, distinct huxing, reasonable layout, lighting and ventilation, spacious hall are the most critical factors in home feng shui. There may be one or two shortcomings, but there should be no shortcomings as a whole.
Among them, ventilation and lighting are the most critical issues. Taking Quanming as the best place to live will promote the elimination of dirty air and bring fresh air into the house. Whether the internal pattern is coordinated, the layout is reasonable and the gas field is symmetrical accounts for one-third of the good or bad home feng shui effect.
Third: correct mind, accumulate virtue and be filial to parents; Diligent and studious; Be kind to others; Active public welfare; Optimistic and cheerful. As the saying goes, "bad intentions, feng shui is useless."
If you want me to say, "if you commit a crime in heaven, I can forgive you;" You can't live if you commit a crime. If the heart is not right, it will be rewarded. "
No matter how good feng shui is, living with a vicious person will not have good karma. No matter how bad feng shui is, as long as you are open-minded and frank, you can also get the care of God.
Being kind and virtuous, I think the proportion of Feng Shui is far greater than one third. Because there are no specific data parameters to prove it, we just distribute it evenly.