In fact, I believe many people have had this idea before, because they are not very satisfied with their current positions. For example, you might dislike him for not having enough money, dislike him for not being handsome enough, dislike him for his height, or dislike him for not knowing how to coax a girlfriend, but you are reluctant to separate like this. Every time after a fight, the two of you will think of finding someone better. Someone came to get rid of her, but every time the two of them reconciled, they no longer had such thoughts. When they met a better man in life, they would take the initiative to keep a distance from him, saying that they already had a partner.
A friend of mine once told me something like this. He always thought that he was mentally cheating, but later her boyfriend cold-violated her. He came to me and asked me to introduce him to a man. The target, when he spoke, he was angry. He simply made the new target's requirements based on some external conditions, such as height, or salary. Later, he told me that, saying that he just wanted to take revenge on himself. My boyfriend actually still wants to be together because I always feel that it is immoral.
And even if this happens, I have no intention of communicating with my new boyfriend, which makes me feel disgusting. But what is surprising is that they broke up in the end, and it was her boyfriend who proposed it. This is not the girl's problem, it is because her boyfriend cheated on her and was with another girl when they were in love. , and he concealed his cheating for a year and a half. If I hadn't told my friend after I met him by chance, he probably wouldn't know about it now. And this incident hurt my friend a lot, and he couldn't get over the shadow of betrayal for a long time.
Obviously her ex-boyfriend is a man who rides a donkey in search of a horse, and in my opinion he does not feel the slightest sense of guilt, because he does not realize that he is wrong in doing so, so to speak Such a person has certain moral problems, but we cannot punish him for this. But I believe that if you treat others as a spare tire, then you will definitely be a spare tire for others. Things will turn around!